hey... alright well i am 16 and a female and i am having boy troubles. i went out with this one guy for a really long time. we went out for almost four months and i think i fell in love. he said he fell in love with me too. but he liked this one other girl too. he said he had fallen in love twice but he picked me. things were going good for a while but then he said he wanted to go back to being a player but that he still loved me and didn't want to hurt me. right now, i still miss and think about him all the time and i cant get him out of my mind. do you think i should try to get back with him and risk getting hurt (even though i still love him) or should i go for other guys?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jessica06 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:51 pm: Alright, well guys..there's no explaining them!(dont us girls all know that!?) Well anyways, wow, 4 months is awhile! This guy sounds kinda fishy saying he fell in love twice. From my experiences I know that's not possible. Well, not possible for me, we're all different. When you fall in love with one person you give them youre all, so how can you do that with 2 people? How long ago did you guys break up? Because it does take time to finally stop missing him soo much and thinking about him a lot. I honestly don't think you should try to get him back as a boyfriend just because he told you what he wanted-to be a player. Maybe he does still love you and keep that in your heart=) If there's other guys you have in mind and other guys you want to be with.. I'd say go for it and if you and this "player" are meant to be.. then it'll be. I guess time will be your best friend until you decide where your life's taken ya:-D [ Jessica06's advice column | Ask Jessica06 A Question ]
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