heyy! My namez danielle and im 13 I luv hanging out wit mi friendz, playing soccer, surfing, going on the computer,shopping,music,movies,etc. I love giving advice to ppl too so ask me nethinq babez!
xoz,
Danielle
Gender: Female
Location: NJ
Age: 13
Member Since: July 13, 2004
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I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help? (link)
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i use clearisil face wash & vanishing cream nd i use concealer to cover them up if ur looking for a good concealer use the quick corrector stick by clinque..its expensive but it works REALLY well..hope i helped
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i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with? (link)
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ok well i dont really think $4 an hour is enough, The kids I babysit for are a 7 year old girl and an 8 year old boy and i get paid $6 an hour. They don't really listen well either but for the most part they behave good. anyway maybe u should talk 2 thier mom or dad about it. But if the kids act up u should call there mom or put them in a time-out or somethinq
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
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srry hun but it aint worth it i can tell this guy iz a playa nd he only wantz to get wid u for sex if he realli likd u he wudnt force u into nethin so just forgt bout hym nd move on
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Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us?? (link)
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well hun, i think diz guy just doeznt want 2 commit 2 a relationship rite now or maybe he wantz 2 just get a new g/f..newayz, if ur realli upset about it, u should taLk to hym..i think thurrz hope 4 u guyz, just not rite now
hope i heLped babe!
x0-dAnielLe-0x
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Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do? (link)
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ok u HAVE to go back NOW even if u dont want to its gunna make u feel much better nd u cant live ur life stealing things b/c that could make u end up in jail nd make ur life even worse just go back now b4 its too late
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ok , can you die from drinking soda a lot of times!!!??? omg im so scared . please help me!! (link)
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u cant die but its really bad for u-try cutting down
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Alright, I'm a Christian and last night me and my friend were talking about her dad bieng in the hospital and I told her that I would pray for him, and she said "whats the use in praying since God allready has your life planned out for you"...that totally made sence to me, I mean what is praying going to change. I believe in praying for your sins...but now I'm stuck on this one. What do you guys think?
-Zero (link)
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well you are right, praying really cant change anything but it's just respectful to pray for someone thats sick, hurt, etc. and its also respectful for your religion.
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What is the average size of a boys penis? Im not sure my bf is a bit insecure about it he's 16 and
almost 6 inches long. (link)
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to tell u the truth-im not really sure srry
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okay...me and my friend are addicted to stealing. when ever we go somewhere like to the gas station or clothes we steal. we always steal candy and we steal undies. we try to stop and we just cant it is hard. and it is uncontrolable! what should we do?
theives (link)
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ok u kno u can get sent 2 jail for this rite nd ull have 2 pay a fine. Think of all the bad consequences nd maybe that will change ur mind..do whatever it takes to stop urself when u feel the urge to steal.
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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0ok well im only 13 but listen 2 me when i say TELL THE POLICE! this is serious..u need to tell someone about it and u need 2 get a divorce
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me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused (link)
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wow thats really sad..i think u should just tell her how u feel-u never kno, she might feel the same way..but it depends, some friendships just dont work out too well nd this might be one of them. But if u decided not to be BEST FRIENDS, then u should at least stay friendly.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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wow this is tough, but if u dont like him anymore nd hes pressuring u to do things then u should break up with him..but if u do just be as nice as possible nd tell him u want to stay friends (if thats wat u want).
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i am to obsessed with dieting im 16 5'0 and weight 114lbs i think i am so fat even thought every1 thinks im not...i dont no why..i work out 4 times a week..and i eat really healthy...but lately i havent aten to healthy..my friends all think im ganna become anerixic and im scared 2..i check every label carbs calories everhything it drives everyone crazy and its starting 2 drive me crazy what should i do? (link)
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i think u should just relax and dont take eating so seriously lol im not saying not to check the carbs nd stuff but dont starve urself b/c then u can become anorexic nd thats not good.
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Me n this guy have been cybering online and its really graphic! Now I really want to have sex with him because its really hot online..(dont worry i know the guy)..but he lives 5 hours away..im confused on wut to do...HELP!!! thankz.. (link)
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well if u think u kno the guy realli well nd ur ready, then go for it! if u dont think u want to then wait
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ok so I just got my hair cut and I have bangs now. But I dont like how they look with all my hair down w/o anything else... it just looks boring ya know??? ok well I was thinking of buying a bunch of headbands but I know theyre expensive so I was wondering if anyone knew some tips on MAKING their own? Cuz thats what I'm doing today!!! plz help (link)
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heyy- i dont really kno how 2 make headbands but if u go to like a CVS or something u can get a pack of headbands for really cheap..or go to the dollar store.
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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
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wow ok well, im not bi or lez or ne thing but by what u said, i dont kno if ur friend iz disgusted or just a little nervous or shocked.
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up (link)
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Dear Fed Up,
Wow! you better talk to someone fast! This is really serious especially the fact that he said he'd rape u. I think u should talk to ur friend about it, and she should understand, if ur too scared to talk to ur friend, u should talk to a parent, sibling or other adult. Dont even tell this guy u want to be friends. Stop talking to him all together nd try 2 stay away from him as much as possible..nd make sure ur never alone w/ him, u never kno what he'll do!!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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wow i kno this is hard but ur 13 nd u have ur whole life ahead of u-u better wait nd not have sex so soon. But its ur opinion, if u decide to have sex w/ him just be careful if u decide u dont want to, talk to him about it..nd dont make him pressure u into it. If he doesnt respect ur opinion than he doesnt respect u!
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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap (link)
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Wow this is tough but if she says she wont hook up with any of ur xes than u need to trust what she says, i mean she iz ur bffeaea rite? But if it really starts to bother u or does something bad, tell her how ur feeling and just hope she understands!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
signed
broken heart (link)
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Broken hearted-
im soo sorry! but dont say ur not suppossed 2 cry over boyz..boyz will hurt u and its ok to cry b/c a lot of ppl do. I think u did the riqht thing by being nice but if ur still really upset nd u cant stop thinkinq about him u miqht want to try talkinq to him about how u feel.
hope i heLped!
xox
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