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Friends Ex Likes me ! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up
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I would tell your mom and my advice would to be to avoid him... like right away-trix
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Dear Fed Up,
Wow! you better talk to someone fast! This is really serious especially the fact that he said he'd rape u. I think u should talk to ur friend about it, and she should understand, if ur too scared to talk to ur friend, u should talk to a parent, sibling or other adult. Dont even tell this guy u want to be friends. Stop talking to him all together nd try 2 stay away from him as much as possible..nd make sure ur never alone w/ him, u never kno what he'll do!!
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Wow that is def. scary. What I would do is drop all contact with him. Don't answer your phone when he calls. Ignore him as much as possible. If it gets worse then you should def. tell someone because this is not a joking situation.
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you need to tell her so sje knows waht is going on ebacsue some how it is going to turn out that you did have phone sex with him when you didnt. explain to her you dont like this kid he likes you and he is acting very wierd about it. just dont let him get into your friendship and change everything around. just ignore him and stay away from him and hopefully you will be ok.
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Don't tell him that you can only stay friends. Stop being friends with him. Guys like this won't give up if you say this. Why can't you tell your friend? It might be helpful if she gets the whole picture. Personally, if I was your friend, I'd kick his ass. I hate guys like this.
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explain everything to your best friend and that you dont like him at all and its really starting to bother you and she'll probably know what to do and how to help you out because shes gone out with him before and knows what hes like. hopefully this works out for you, i did my best! =]
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hi, well there...listen wut i would do is tell wussup to my friend b4 she finds out from him or from someone else that he has talked to...n then serious problems begin b/c she wont belive u n she will tell u "since u were so inocent then y didnt u tell me?!?!" n bla bla bla...so wut i would do is tell her the truth tell her that u dont like him but he keeps on botherin u n sayin all dis things...n bla bla bla...tell her u told her so one day she wouldnt find out from someone else n then wouldnt belive anything u would say...n bla bla bla :) u know how this things are...if u need anything else ;) then holla i'll b more then happy to give u my opinion :) xoxo effy
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I know you don't want to, but TELL HER. She might be the only one who can do something about it. I mean not saying that the guy would listen to her, but maybe if she was the one who told him to back off, maybe he'd listen? And it's good that she knows, if she were to find out later on, she'd probably think you were trying to hide something from her, like you wanted to be with him or something like that. And if the guy is threating to even rape you, then do something about that! I wouldn't go run immediatly to an adult or something like that, but put on an act when he says something like that... make him think you're gonna get his sorry ass in trouble for even threatning such a thing. Start ignoring his calls, try avodiing him at all costs. And you SHOULD TELL YOUR BEST FRIEND... cause like i said, if she were to find out about it later on, and you didn't tell her what was going on.. she might think something different of the situation...
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Tell him to leave you alone because no one wants a stalker!! And its really not good if he said he was going to rape you, so just tell him that there is no way you are going out with him or doing anything with him. And make sure to stay safe about the rape thing!!
Hope I helped, good luck with that
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Tell him to just leave you alone, tell you friend to talk to him and tell her whats going on
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