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My boyfriend
My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything!
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If you don't want to do stuff with him then don't. He can't make you do anything you don't want to. And since you're moving.. don't get too comfortable with him because then when you do move, your only get hurt. And for your friend who got mono, even though its called a kissing disease or whatever, doesn't mean you get it just from kissing. She could of gotten it from sharring drinks with other people, or she could of gotten it from someone else. Everyone kisses, and you don't always get mono, she just somehow did.
xoxo Kourtney
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u don't have to do anything wit your bf that u dont want 2 and if he forces u to do anything then u kno hes only intrested in 1 thing so just dump him. you can get mono anywhere my friend got mono and he didnt kiss any1. What part of NY r u movin 2 im from NY. NY the best city ever i love goin 2 the city n stuff. You will meet plenty of new friends in NY and maybe even a new bf.
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Well if your boyfirend really loves you he will respect your wishes on not going to far!And all i can say about that is that you will know when you guys are going to far!Then MONO,yes it sucks!My friend was out of school for a month.Theres not much that you yourself can do about it just dont drink after her...well just stay away from her,but after the first two weeks you should be fine going around her(JUST NOT when she is running a fever)!But otherwise thats all I can say,besides im sorry that your moving but im sure once you get there you will make new friends and have fun!
Hope everything gets better
*Lacey
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If your not ready, then don't do anything that you don't want to do. It's good that your worried about diseases, because there are too many people who aren't worried. About a month ago I was reading a web site about stds and it was a real eye opener. There are so many people out there who could have something and not even know it. You don't have to have sex to get something. As you know you can get mono from kissing someone. I've had friends who have gotten mono from drinking from a bottle after someone else. I know you can get stds from kissing, oral sex, and actual sexual intercourse.
So don't do anything that your not ready for unless your going to be completely responsible about it.
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Tell him you are a little unsure of some things right now and maybe you aren't as rady as you think you are, If you are moving to NY for a long time maybe you should take a break from him, and you should talk to your parents about your life, it's really hard to keep secrets trust me, they know all... hope that helped a little... :-/
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Your boyfriend should be more concerned with what you want to do. Don't do anything you're not completely comfortable doing. Besides, your moving. I wouldn't want to go further into a relationship if I was moving. Some of my friends had mono, it lasts a while. It can be spread very easily, so I would be careful around other people. There's not much you can do to get out of moving, considering your dad's job. It's tough meeting new people, but it can also be fun. Make sure everyone knows how you feel. Most uncomfortable situations are the result of miscommunication. Tell your father how you feel about moving, and ask if there's anyway he can keep his job here, or get another one close by. Tell your boyfriend that you're afraid of going too far, if he doesn't understand, then he's not worth it.
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well hunny looks like you have alot things going on at once! well with your boyfriend seems like you are not ready for that and you should wait. I am the same way I don't want to lose mine either so I am gonig to wait and I think thats what you should do! I know you don't want to move but it might be the best thing for you! to try to get away from allthe things that are happeneing. Maybe you should talk to your dad and see if you guys might be able to stay, you never know he might find a job where you live. and with your friend you cant help her by having mono or with her mother but you can always be there for her and Just make sure she is ok and getting mono is not a fun thing trust me I have had it and my friends where there for me. just be there for her and she will thank you. hope my advice works and good luck with all your problems please tell me how it works out my e mail is footballchicka06@comcast.net thanks hun
*~*Crystal*~*
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Either put them in the backyard and let them play whatever they want and tell them if they are good you will give them ice cream before they have to go in...or put on a movie and let them eat either jello or popcorn while they are watching it...i mean kids will be kids and they will do what they want!so good luck and maybe you can bring em coloring book or make playdough with em or something haha!xoxo
*~MALLY~*
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Well you can't always get mono from kissing another guy and thats not always how you get it either and as for moving to NY its a great place its lively and active its the city that never sleeps i should i used to live there and i go up there every summer just pray that your dad doesnt get the job and as for the boyfriend just tell him how you feel and thats you dont want to go TO far.-trix
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