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Q: ok...when i was telling you about what happend over winter break i said that the guy is an asswhole now...and me n him dont talk and he said he has no special feelings for me...but he has this one friend ell its actually one of his close friends but n e ways he imed me and asked me if he could have my # and i thought we were just friends so i gave it to him and he caled me rite away and asked me how i felt about him...and i always thought he was cute...and all those times that the guy was rude to me he would ignore his girlfriend and tell me that everything would work out for me...and he asked me if i wanted to do something this friday and i told him i would get back to him that i would have to see what i was doing...and now i dont kno what to do...should i go and hang out with him and get over the other guy or is that messed up?

Okay well it wOuldnt be messed up tO the guy that yOu slept with because lOok what he did tO yOu i mean he had sex with yOu and then left yOu..but anyways if yOu like his friend then sure yOu shOuld gO. but take things slOw. Oh and yes get over the dude yOu did it with!

Q: ummm...over winter break i lost my virginity to this guy that i had liked ever since the begining of the year and now hes really mean...me nad him havent talked in like a month and i cant stop thinking about him or likeing him because he was my first...i dont know what to do...

well b4 yOu lOst yOur virginity tO him yOu shOuld have thOught well dOes this guy even really like me Or is he using me..well all i can say is mOve On because ObviOusly he dOesnt wanna be with yOu sOrry tO say. and it seems like he was using yOu.and next time yOu wanna have sex its best tO be with the persOn fOr a lOng time.

Q: This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..

Love,

WAnt HiM To mOVe On

well i think yOu shOuld just have a talk with him and tell him that yOu Only see him as a friend and theres nOthing yOu can dO tO change that sO yOu think he shOuld mOve On because he wOuld be wasting his time...sure it might hurt his feelings but hey yOu cant help it if yOu dOnt like him and wOuldnt yOu rather have him stOp..

Q: okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends?

well i dOnt think there is any way fOr yOu tO really help because yOu cant make sOmeOne like sOmebOdy they have tO dO that On their Own...

Q: i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks

yea it is normal for it to be a little swollen..so dont worry :)

Q: hey! does anyone know what:
a) idk
b) imao
means???

a)idk means i dont know
b)lmao mean laugh my ass off

Q: ok ive been asking for advice on this one guy1 who asked me out a while back and i sed no to. and i sed i regreted it. well yea i still do and i think i like him. but just tonight by best guy2 friend told me he liked me. i was really shocked. idk wut to do. and then just last night a guy3 told me he liked me to. guy3 sed tonight while i was talking to him that we needed to talk. and i was like ok? and he sed but not tonight tho. and im scared hes gonna ask me out. cuz if he does im gonna be bad cuz i hate saying no to ppl. but i actually have a reason for guy3. and i tell guy2 and guy1 alot of things. guy1 thinks guy3 is gay. and i just laugh about it. guy2 thinks hes desperate(but not about liking me)cuz he liked me sis awhile back. idk wut to do. i gess i like both guy1 and guy2. but i have know clu wut to do. please help lme b4 something else go on. i dont think i can handle all this likingness. please answer quick and ill rate u. im serious i rate alot of ppl. please help thanx.

signed
need help

well i think yOU shOuld gO with the guy yOu truely like and want tO be with. sO tO the Other twO guys that yOu dONt pick just tell them yOu'd rather be friends. but make sure yOu gO fOr the guy who will treat yOu right and respect yOu.

Q: But I'm not even the person that asked the other question

Oo Okay i get cha.....well seriOulsy im nOt even a mean persOn sO i dOnt knOw why i said that i thOught it was kinda funny but dOnt wOrry im nOt gOnna be like that

Q: I think if your going to have this advice thing you need to be nice and if not then don't even bother trying to do this

nO i didnt mean to be mean tO yOU but ur ? didnt really make sence sOrry.

Q: i know this person..and shes lesbian..i dont know her..but i dont like her and she dont like me..wat should i do?

Okay if yOu dONt knOw her then hOw can u nOt like her....uh duh

Q: i have this friend and she hangs out wit this nasty stinkin gurl n some times she ditched meeeh for her n i dont kno why? n sometimes she doesnt call me back!
please help.. signed teddy bear

well actually i dont know the whole story of how close the friendship is between you and ur friend or the frienship between ur friend and the gurl....but if you honestly think ur doing nothin wrong to ur friend then maybe you should just ask her about it, she probably wont get mad cuz all ur doing is asking her a question.

Q: i was on the phone with my boyfriend and his best friend asked who it was and my boyfriend said who do you think and his best friend said another girls name. And when i asked him about it he got really mad, and then he said he had to go to make a phone call, that he'd call me back in 10 minutes and called back 2 hours later. Do you think he is cheating on me? What do you think i should do with the relationship?

well to me i think it sounds like he's cheating on you because your boyfriend shouldnt get mad at you for asking him about that. but i wouldnt asume that he is cuz there can be more to the story. but i think you should just still try to talk to him about it and if that dont work then obviously he's hiding somethin..

Q: *Cassandra*
when should i have sex Im 14 k later

well tO tell yOu the truth it shOuldnt be my decisiOn tO tell yOu when yOu shOuld have sex i mean thats yOur decisOn, but yOu shOuld have sex when yOur ready and if yOur ready tO take the risks Of sex like getting pregnant Or the diseases yOu can get frOm it.

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Hey Hey! My name is Cassandra. i lOve tO chill with friends and my bOyfriend, Kenny. My favOrite thing tO dO is just gO places with friends and have a gOod time! but i really like being with my bOyfriend he is sO wOnderful. i dOnt knOw what i wOuld dO withOut him. i lOve him sO much! i gO tO davis high, isnt that just great lol. well if yOu need any advice yOu knOw what tO dO!!