ok ive been asking for advice on this one guy1 who asked me out a while back and i sed no to. and i sed i regreted it. well yea i still do and i think i like him. but just tonight by best guy2 friend told me he liked me. i was really shocked. idk wut to do. and then just last night a guy3 told me he liked me to. guy3 sed tonight while i was talking to him that we needed to talk. and i was like ok? and he sed but not tonight tho. and im scared hes gonna ask me out. cuz if he does im gonna be bad cuz i hate saying no to ppl. but i actually have a reason for guy3. and i tell guy2 and guy1 alot of things. guy1 thinks guy3 is gay. and i just laugh about it. guy2 thinks hes desperate(but not about liking me)cuz he liked me sis awhile back. idk wut to do. i gess i like both guy1 and guy2. but i have know clu wut to do. please help lme b4 something else go on. i dont think i can handle all this likingness. please answer quick and ill rate u. im serious i rate alot of ppl. please help thanx.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SweetBunnie answered Friday July 16 2004, 4:13 pm: HeY!!! :) I have an IdEa!!!! Figure out what you like most about both guys and what do you like about them!! how are they both different, what does one have that another doesnt?.. who would be best in a relationship and who would treat you better in the long run????.... but before you do choose, make sure that you dont hurt the other guys feelins!!!... and if they really do like you as much as they seem then they will defineatly understandddd!!!! soooo go for who your heart really does like, cause im pretty sure you know which one you like the most, i've had a lot of times where i donno who to go for because i liked two guys at once and everytime i talked to the other, i liked him more, then vise-versa... but try just hangin out with a couple of girl friends and see which guy calls you the most or gets mad w/ you ya know, just doin things you like doin.. because that would kind of be needed in a relationship, you want someone who will trust you... soo go fer it :) [ SweetBunnie's advice column | Ask SweetBunnie A Question ]
sxyxbabii answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:15 am: hmm.. well what does guy 1 think about you? if you don't like them and are just scared to say no then maybe you should just stay single til guy1 likes you or whatever.. just break it to them nicely tell them you love them a lot btu just as a friend or something... just be really nice about it and everything should be okay!!=)--hopefully this helps! [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO answered Friday July 16 2004, 3:40 am: well i would tell guy3 that you dont have those types of feelings for him yet he is still a good friend..and you said you "guess" you like guy one and two but in my opinion if you dont know for sure than you really dont. In my mind i think you just dont want to lose either one of their effection just in case you do turn out to like them. Hunnii if you dont like them now and you do later on down the line im sure they will too. Let them know whats going on bcuz otherwise they will know somthings up and get suspicious. [ XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO's advice column | Ask XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO A Question ]
LiLSeXiBrUnNeT answered Friday July 16 2004, 3:38 am: well i think yOU shOuld gO with the guy yOu truely like and want tO be with. sO tO the Other twO guys that yOu dONt pick just tell them yOu'd rather be friends. but make sure yOu gO fOr the guy who will treat yOu right and respect yOu. [ LiLSeXiBrUnNeT's advice column | Ask LiLSeXiBrUnNeT A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:04 am: Tell guy3 you just want to remain friend you dont want to risk that and as for those other guys go try to figure out which one you like and pay more attention to that one but guy1 what happaned after you said no... bring it up to him that you regret it and you want to go out-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:00 am: I would say go out with the one who treats you like you are a person and with respect and the one you like the most if that dont work go out with the cutest one hehe
kevin1986 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:43 am: Ok my best advice here is to date as many of these guys as you'd like,but tell each one of them that you're also going out with the other or others. If the guys dont like it,tough shit. Tell them you'd like to go out with them but you aren't ready for anything serious. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
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