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how can i get him to stop?


Question Posted Friday December 31 2004, 3:46 am

This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..

Love,

WAnt HiM To mOVe On


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:39 pm:
HaPpY NeW YeAr!! Tell him to stop and block him!

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XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 12:39 am:
Tell him that you would make a much better friend to him instead more. Dont be afraid to tell him that u dontnlike when he sends u the poems and stuff.
~Brina~

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crazybrunet09 answered Friday December 31 2004, 6:27 pm:
just tell him you have a boyfriend and that you'd really like if he stop it cause it's giving u the heeby jeebys

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iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:43 pm:
Tell the guy that you dont like him like that and you already have a b/f.and maybe you could hook this guy up with one of your friends or something .And also tell him that it makes you feel weird with him telling you he loves you all the time and writing you poems.

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Brunette27 answered Friday December 31 2004, 12:01 pm:
Tell him you already hav a bf and that you are just not interested in him right now. Tell him that you just want to be friends. If you really don't want him to like you make sure you NEVER flirt with him.
Good Luck!

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AdviceMistress answered Friday December 31 2004, 10:25 am:
Dear Want Him to Move ON,

Take him to the side and tell him your in a relationship now! and you just want u and him to be good friends like you have always been! yeah he's not going to want to talk to you for a few days but that's just cause he will need tiime to himself to think! good luck and happy holidays!

*BeSs*

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Shortie8959 answered Friday December 31 2004, 8:32 am:
Just tell him how you feel. Tell him you're flattered, but you really just want to be friends. You're happy with this other guy. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~

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Alin75 answered Friday December 31 2004, 7:50 am:
Ok, Im going to be honest with you here, the friendship will not work. I have tried this personally and I have seen it with others. When a guy really loves a girl he cannot just be her friend (at least not for long). He will be jealous of your bf, and though he will think he likes to be around you it wont be good for him. If he hangs around you a lot, as a friend, he wont be able to get over you, so the love feeling remains. This will make him miserable, and probably make you feel wierd. I know its not the answer you wanted but, in my opinion, make a clean break from your friendship until after you are sure he is over you. You can even explain this to him. He might be a bit hurt but beleive me its far more painful for him to be really close to the girl he loves, to see her with her bf, and not be able to do anything about it.

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LiLSeXiBrUnNeT answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:11 am:
well i think yOu shOuld just have a talk with him and tell him that yOu Only see him as a friend and theres nOthing yOu can dO tO change that sO yOu think he shOuld mOve On because he wOuld be wasting his time...sure it might hurt his feelings but hey yOu cant help it if yOu dOnt like him and wOuldnt yOu rather have him stOp..

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PleaseHelpMe answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:53 am:
Tell him your flattered but you don't want to have a more love type relationship with him, and that you just want to be friends. Something like that. Be straight forward with him.

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xSammieXlubsXux answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:50 am:
Just be straight up forward with him about how you feel about all of this...if he really cares for you this much then i think he'll understand.

Sammie

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