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Im r3alli confus3d nOw


Question Posted Thursday July 15 2004, 7:58 pm

I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you...

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Ugahottie321 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:03 am:
U r SOOO not overeacting!!!! i feel soo bad for u!i no wat ur going thru and its really hard to see it urself but other ppl can. and wat i see is that u deserve WAY better!!this guy is a jerk u may like him and im sry he prob has sum good qualities but its hard to b nice about this cus u seem SO much better then him!! and good for u ur a virgin! i say go u, u deserve a cookie lol. anyways tho this guy needs to go im sure thers sum1 out ther much better then u now jus go find em! good luck write to me sumtime!
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storageanddisposal answered Saturday July 17 2004, 12:18 am:
You are most definitely NOT overreacting. He sounds like he's fooling around behind your back, and doing a horrible job covering it up. If you have these suspicions, and you think he's probably not the right one, then I think you should leave him.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:15 pm:
Well your story should be a bit more cleared up because i didnt follow through with it alot... but i will try to understand i dont think you are overreacting because everybody cares about their bf and what happans to the relationship and i am sure you dont want to get hurt in the process so thats why you are being parannoyed but its normal but i dont think he seems like a loyal bf or anything good so i would think you should dump him and find someone better-trix

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BabiiCakes514 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:05 pm:
it seems to me that the guy that your with is a complete @$s and i don't think you are over reacting because im sure every other grl would react the same way and well i think it's about time that the two of you go your seperate ways... for good -- you shouldnt be treated like this.

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WisconsinGal42 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:37 pm:
I really don't think you should go out with this guy anymore.

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JessieV answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:31 pm:
dear confused,
To me it sound like your boyfriends a really big player if your friend was there and they saw everything then thats who u should believe because if you believe ur b/f the ur friend will not like you anymore and if you believe ur friend ur b/f will not like u anymore but i would go with my friends opinion because even if sahe is wrong its worse to loose a friend then a b/f.
Sincerely Jessica V

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:10 pm:
hi,well listen if u cant have trust,communication n feeling comfortable wit ur partner then may b u should find someone else that u can feel all those stuff for...i think from wut i read that ur b/f is a flirty type n he might chead on u wit other gurls...n when he said"i dont give a fuk if u belive me or not belive ur friends n not me" he might be doing that just to make u feel bad...n to make u think n belive him even though he is not sayin da truth...if i was u i would talk to him n if he gived me attitude...i would dump his ass in a heartbit!!!...xoxo effy

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GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:56 pm:
Now I'm not expert but from my point of view it really seems like he might be cheating or flirting alot with other girls. You really need to talk to your boyfriend about it because thats the only way to know. Tell him, if you really love me, you'll be honest if youre cheating on me. Boys are so ridiculous, hes definitly not worth going through the trouble of keeping him around! I dont like the sound of this kid already and I dont even know his name! LmAo! Anyways, talk to him and if he is cheating or your suspectful, I would dump his butt. Good luck sweets!!

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