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still a virgin


Question Posted Tuesday July 6 2004, 3:14 am

well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl

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ppcrn answered Monday October 25 2004, 9:58 am:
eat a lot. chubby girls are hot.

and wait till you're confident. you're friends are crazy, ditch them. the right guy is the most important thing, and if they tease you for your morals, tell them to go swallow sperm and stop oppressing you.

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pocohantaz answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:13 pm:
FINE THE RIGHT 1 1ST...DONT JUST GIVE IT UP TO N-E-BODY. OR U WILL GET A NAME... U WILL GET A BAD REPUTATION

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QtRockinDaPink answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:41 pm:
i think you should deffinately wait for mr right..dont do something just bkuz other ppl r doing it..i mean if ppl tease u about juss go right bakk at them dn say they`re sluts nd wat not kuz honestly they kind are..don`t let anyone pressure u into doing anything okay..dont worry..ur day WILL come..

-Heather Lynn-

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ballerina04 answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:57 am:
wait! don't let your friends pressure you to do something you dont want to do. you'll regret it if you just have sex with a guy just because your friends told you to

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xOBaByKaY answered Monday July 12 2004, 2:10 am:
*Don't let your friends pressure you into something that you aren't ready to do! If these people tease you they aren't your true friends anyways! Don't just go out and have sex cause everyone else is doing it! Wait for that special someone to come into your life! and wait til you are comfortable! Having sex is a big step in life so just wait til you are ready* xOxO Kaela <3

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PiMpIn_In_PiNk answered Sunday July 11 2004, 1:06 pm:
dont let them get to u!! just relax and wait for the rite guy!! and wen u feel comfortable enough ull do it!! and if u dont wanna be skin and bones but still skinny just eat a lil more!! but yeah reli dont let ur frends push u wait till UR ready!! ((rate me)) XoXhAyLiEXoX

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sweeeetiepie5 answered Saturday July 10 2004, 2:04 pm:
Listen when u are ready with the person you love. you will know they dont care about ur body. and if they do ur better off alone. dont just go have sex for the sake of having sex. have it because ur in love and feel like the greatest gift to give him is passionate sex. not a one night stand ok

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ClurBur answered Saturday July 10 2004, 11:49 am:
So what if your a virgin? Alot of girls your age are and be careful some of your friends may just say their not to act good and to impress your friends! Dont let others influence you.. you'll know when your ready! :o) xx

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xoxChloexox answered Thursday July 8 2004, 2:19 am:
Hey
I really think that you shouldn't allow people to presure you into having sex. Losing your virginity is a big deal and a big step in life. For girls it's always more of an emotional experience than it is for guys. Anyways you should think about this before you do anything. It just might be better to wait and find a guy and wait until you are comfortable enough in your relationship to have sex for the first time. Just thin about it and make your own decision not anyone else's. I hope I helped!
-Chloe-

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dancer_freak05 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:05 pm:
Be proud to be a virgin, its special...

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HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 5:44 am:
ok dont do it because your so called friends tell you to... Seriously people that try and pressure you into that stuff isnt your true friend! I know how it is to be the only virgin and have everyone pressuring you... and to tell the truth i want to wait for mr right myself... Just remember that even though they pressure you that they will never get to get their virginity back! I know so many and heard of many people that wish they would have waited... dont be one wishing you waited too! Dont just lose it to some guy that means nothing to you make your frist time special! also... Sex is so overrated! Dont listen to those people keep your head up hun! Good luck and i hope things work out for the best
-Holly-
Hope I helped

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 2:03 am:
Mr.Right thats all i have to say you shouldnt just follow the crowd cuz as it looks that crowd is going in the wrong direction-trix

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selectopaque answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 11:43 pm:
Don't let your friends pressure you into having sex just to be able to say that your not a virgin. Thats a stupid reason to have sex. You can only lose your virginity once and you should wait until it's with someone special. It can either be a really good memory, or a really bad one that you regret. Either way you will probably remember it forever. So wait until your ready and have found someone you really care about.

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XxSmileyChickxX answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 10:09 pm:
You are 15 so you are still young. I think you should wait because you have your whole life ahead of you to lose your virginity. I believe you should wait until you are ready, but you should wait till you get a bit older. And dont listen to people who are teasing you about it because you are doing the right thing by waiting for the right time and for the right guy. So I think you should wait to lose your virginity and I think you shouldnt listen to your friends when they tease you. Just ignore them.
*Zoe*

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 10:06 pm:
hi, listen i'm a vergin 2 so wut? i dont care wut other ppl say...i actually am proud that i'm a vergin...dont loose it just to anyone b carful n lose it to someone whos special for u n that he feels the same way bout u...Dont just loose it n get it over wit...first time its always to b remembered...somethin special n romantic!!! so dont listen to ur friends...when ur ready do it!! xoxo effy

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TweetyWife answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 7:45 pm:
Dear VIrgin GIrl,
Well you may feel left out but who cares. Those other girls just give it up because everybody else is doing, like its some kind of trend. But until you find the right guy who makes you feel special and can tell you when your ready im ready then thats the guy you wil prouly give yourself to. Your first time should be special, romantic. Not just doing cause its there. And then later on regret how your first time went. So when they tease you just proudly say i'm gonna wait until the day when the perfect guy comes along to give myself to. Look at Jessica Simpson she waited to her wedding day.
If you have any other problems just e-mail at
TweetyWife1@msn.com
Sincerly
TweetyWife

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 7:14 pm:
I have the same exact problem I mean everyon is soo into doing it..And im like the sweet inncocent one..lol..and actually I have thought about it its like I want to but then again I mean I dont want any of the consequences because my friend actually her and her boyfriend decided to and the condom broke..and she ended up pregnent and he neva told her! But just stay virgin best bet until u know u know fo sho thats the one because ur only a virgin once there is no going back! specially not wit mistakes because mistales are very easy to do!

-Stephanie

x0x Hun!

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