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How come one best friend can like another best friend more than one you have known longer?
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Hey!
Sometimes after you've known a person for a long time and you've been friends with them for a long time sometime you both just grow apart. It's normal. It's not a matter of whether or not you like one best friend more than the other. Sometimes you ahve more in common with one than the other or you've grown apart from the one you were once really close with and have known for a longer period of time. Try and talk to your best friend and tell him/her how you feel. Most likely you can rekindle that friendship and understand everything. Good luck!
-Chloe-
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if u poured your heart out to somone and theyshut u down like a reject wat should do??? if that one person ment everything in tha world 2 u and they say neva shall we be!!! wat do i do. if life is like a butterless roll wat should i do??? i lost all respect fa my self i feel like i'm a kno body i can't even get a simple gurl to notice me wat should i do?? (link)
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Hey!
There isn't much you can do about rejection. Everyone has experienced it at some point in their lives. I think you should look on the positive side of things instead of this one girl ruining everything and allowing yourself to feel so bad. You should tell yourself that you cna do better and be confident. There are more girls out there. You could even learn to accept that you're single and be happy with it and talk to a bunch of girls and get to know them before getting into a relationship. Just think about it and dont let her bring you down! Good luck!
-Chloe-
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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I really think you should tell someone. Your dad shouldn't have raped you. What he did was wrong. Talk to you mom. Tell her what happened and tell her that you're afraid he'll try and hurt you. And ask her to take you to the police or someone who can help you. This shouldn't have happened and you should never keep quiet about it. Get help asap. I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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Well I have this friend at my new school and she would always say hi and talk to me in the halls but now she hangs out with these 2 girls that are mostly popular, because she had a fight with her other friend [which she is my friend, too] ,and now she never really talks to me the way she used to. Plus she really never notices me it makes me feel really left out. why doesn't she talk to much anymore? (link)
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Hey!
She might feel as if you aren't her friend because you are friends with the other friend who she got into a fight with. I think that next time you see her say hi to her and talk to her and ask her how she is and all that. Then if she doesn't talk to you still ask her why she's acting that way towards you and maybe you'll figure things out. Maybe it's all a big misunderstanding. I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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Dear wipeoutsmile,
Hi! i have this problem. Well, let's be honest and call it BOY TROUBLE. Well, i like this boy and i think someone told him. I'm not sure. Well, i feel like i want his attention without changing how i am. I want him to know how i feel, i tried writing it in a note, but i chickened out this time. So, can u pleez help me????? (link)
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I think you should be brave and talk to him and tell him yourself from your own mouth not anyone else's or from a piece of paper. It's better that way. Don't change who you are for a guy tho. I'm sure that if you talk to him you just might be able to get his attention. Good luck!
-Chloe-
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Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!
Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol) (link)
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Hey!
It's perfectly normal to like aguy and barely know him. Obviously you are really attracted to him and maybe he's attracted to you. I don't think that you should ask your friend to ask him out. I think you should ask him to go get coffee or lunch to get to know him better and see where it goes. If it goes well take it to the next step. I think you'll do fine! Good luck!! I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher (link)
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Well honestly I don't think they were your real friends. If they were willing to get up and just leave you like that for no reason then they weren't. I don't think that you should waste your time in trying to get them back. You should find new friends, better friends. You're better off and you cna make real, true friends that won't ditch you. Good luck!
-Chloe-
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My best friend "Cara" is honest. A little too honest. In that sort of brutal way. She tells everyone the truth, but she does it in such a mean way. Me, Cara, & our other friend "Kandi" all went shopping one weekend for swimsuits. I tried on a bikini, & Kandi said I looked great, but that I should get a blue one instead of a pink one. Cara, on the other hand, said that it made me look chubby (even though I'm super thin) & that I should get a one-piece, like she is. Later that day, she criticized me & Kandi bcuz we were pigging out on pizza, while she only ate a salad. Another weekend, me, Kandi, & Cara went to see The Stepford Wives. On our way to Kandi's house, Cara was whining the whole way there. Even Kandi's mom agreed that Cara is a pain in the @$$. I have to see Cara again on Friday. What should I do if she's bitchy to me & Kandi again? (link)
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Hey!
I have a friend who is a lot like your friend. Have you tried talking to her? When my friend was always brutally honest in a mean way I told her how I felt. I told her that I didn't like the way she said things and that I would appreciate it if she was nicer about things and that it hurt my feelings. After talking to her she'll see how she acts and most liekly she'll change and not say those things. And if she doesn't change and she isn't nicer to you then she just might not be a true friend (sorry to say that). Well I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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ok well i dream stuff alot and it happens and i know that happesn sometimes but mine are like real and sometimes they will be of people i will meet the next day so i think i am dreaming of complete strangers but they turn out to be people i meet idont know wut do think of this cuz i can answer these peopes questinos before they ask them cuz in the dream they have already given me the answer
plz tel me if this happens 2 u 2 (link)
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That's pretty crazy! But it's also pretty neat. I've had simliar dreams but they were never exact. I don't believe that it's anything to worry about. It's normal and maybe you're just gifted. If it freaks you out too much maybe you should talk to your doctor. But I think you'll be okay.
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
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VIrgin GIrl (link)
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I really think that you shouldn't allow people to presure you into having sex. Losing your virginity is a big deal and a big step in life. For girls it's always more of an emotional experience than it is for guys. Anyways you should think about this before you do anything. It just might be better to wait and find a guy and wait until you are comfortable enough in your relationship to have sex for the first time. Just thin about it and make your own decision not anyone else's. I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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