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friend vrs boyfriend
major problem! my best friend(3 years) hates my boyfriend(2 years)it just happend she just started hating him...he thinks she has to much drama in her life..and she hates how he has an attitude...she gets mad that he doesnt let me go 2 partys with her..but i mean i dont blame him what should i do i can so tell shes really starting to hate him shes always talking about him to me like that makes me feel really bad
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i think maybe your friend doesnt want u two to be together anymore so she just started hating me for no reason.....hope i helped rate me
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*It's wrong that your boyfriend doesn't let you go to parties with your best friend so i understand why shes upset! You shouldn't put your boyfriend before your friend because guys just come and go and friends last forever! They may not like eachother, but they have to respect you! You can hang out with who ever you want to and they have to accept that! Maybe you should tell them how you feel about this situation and tell them how they are acting! If you wanna hang out with your best friend then do it and if you wanna hang out with your boyfriend do it! You can hang out with whoever you want to!* xOxO Kaela <3
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I think it's wrong that he doesn't let you go to parties with your friend. I think she has a very good reason to be upset. You shouldn't be putting him before her. You should definately not let him tell you to not hang out with her. They don't have to like each other, but they should both respect you and let you hang out with whoever you want to. If you want to hang out with her, then do it, if you want to hang out with him, then do it. And if you want to hang out with both of them then sometime they should suck it up and pretend to like each other so you can all hang out together.
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I think your friend is jealous of the time you spend with your boyfriend. You should take a break from your boyfriend occasionally to go to parties with your friend.
He is being too controlling if he is telling you what you can and cannot do. You shouldn't ever have to ask permission to do what you want.
In the meantime, you should tell them both how they are acting, and how that is making you feel. Its easy sometimes to forget to carve out some time with friends, but girl time is really important too.
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Just talk to both of them....try hanging out together! like get to and him to comeover or something and just hang...if that still doesn't work talk to them...cause it will prob turn out that you'll have to picl between ur best friend or ur b/f...so settle it before it turns into that!
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Try sitting her down and asking her why she doesn't like your boyfriend and say "You're my best friend and always will be and I want you to like my boyfriend, he's really sweet because I really like him and I mean would you want your boyfriend going to partys too? We can still hang out just as much, we're best friends." Just tell her how you feel about this situation and ask her why she hates your boyfriend. As for your boyfriend, if he does give her an attitude try talking to him about it and saying "You're my boyfriend and she's my best friend, if you want her to like you, you need to stop giving her an attitude because I dont like it and she doesn't either" (that is if he is giving her an attitude) Just tell her how you feel. Good luck. Just ask if you still need help =D
xoxo Kourtney
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