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crushed...
im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?
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Try writting him a letter about how you feel just say something like "I was too shy to tell you this, so thats why I'm writting you instead, I don't know how you feel about me, but I have feelings for you and I have for 2 years now, and I just want to know how you feel about me." Just say something like that and how you feel about him. If you want you can tell him how much you love him and stuff. Just tell him how you feel and ask him anything you want to know! Good luck!! If you need help writting it, just leave a message in my inbox or something.
xoxo Kourtney
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get a friend to talk to him. ask them to be your messenger and ask him why he doesn't like you. then change those things.
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*I know it might be hard to tell him how you feel, but if you really like this guy you need to tell him! If you don't later in life you might regret it! The only way anything will happen between you guys is if you tell him! He might be just as insecure as you! Guys don't always make the first move and he may be afraid to tell you how he feels cause he might think you don't feel the same way! It sounds like you guys like eachother but you need to find a way to talk to him about it and not be shy! You need to do this soon though before it's too late!* xOxO Kaela <3
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You need to move on. You sound like a sweet, romantic girl, but if you have been chasing him for 2 years and he isn't taking the bait, he obviously isn't interested in you romantically. You deserve a guy that chases YOU, not the other way around. I know that love hurts sometimes, but I promise that once you start looking at other guys, you'll feel better.
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If you "neeeeeeed him" so baddly, then you need to overcome your shyness and talk to him about it. Be firm, and really let him know exactly what you're feeling. Also, it would probably be a good idea to tell him not to throw the words "I Love You" around if he doesn't truly mean it. I hope things work out. Goodluck! =D
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All you really can do is talk to him. It should help you both get closer. :-)
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The only thing you can really do is talk to him...but b4 that try to get get closer to him and see if he backs off or not.
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i know its hard to tell someone how you feel, but its the only way you can make things happen. guys are less likely to make the first move and hes probably just as insecure as you are. from the looks of it you both like eachother and somehow you need to find a way to not be as shy and talk to him about it. and the sooner you do it, the better... before he decides to move on because he doesnt know you feel the same way.
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A guy saying "I love you" is everything! What more could you ask for? If you feel that he doesn't love you the way you love him, just talk 2 him. Don't be shy!
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gurl....listen if u want him real bad...n u need him...then dont b shy n go tell him wut u feel...hopefully he feels da same way...n he likes u the same way so u wont b rejected...but if he rejects u trust me its better regreating something u did then something u didnt do!!! i hope eveyrthing works out...xoxo effy
TALK TO HIM!!!
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just let go of ur shyness n tlk 2 him!! i kno thtcan be hard..but if you care about this guy oso much you should talk to him! maybe he likes you too and just needs a reason to tell you, and what more reason duz he need than knowing you like him ;) i say you just tell him how u feel..that way either way he knows, and you know that you did something about it instead of sitting back and doing nothing!! trust meit sbetter to feel rejection rather than regret!! good luck hun ;)
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