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my best friend stole my ex b/f -- sorry so long..


Question Posted Thursday July 15 2004, 12:04 pm

i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot...

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xOBaByKaY answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:39 pm:
*Your best friend is not a friend at all! She's a total backstabber so just forget about her and find a new best friend that wouldn't do that to you because that is not right at all! Now about your ex boyfriend, I know it's hard to get over someone so i'm not going to tell you to do that! You need to tell him how you feel about this situation though! and try to do anything that you can to get him back! Start off by being friends and work your way up from there, and hopefully you guys will have a relationship! Make him want you back! If it doesn't work you might have to move on, even though i know it's a hard thing to do! But if you have to move on, you'll end up finding someone better!* xOxO Kaela <3

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 1:37 pm:
hi, well 1st let me tell u that ur so called "best friend" aint a fraind at all...n she is a backstaber...so put a line accross her name n get ur self a new best friend...someone u can count on for anything n u can trust ;)...bout ur ex boyfriend...i wont tell u to get over him cuz i know how u feel...i know wut is like to think bout someone 24/7...(i'm there..-n-thank god i still have him cuz i dunno wut i would do without him) anyways if u want ur ex back n u know that he still got feelings for u...then do w/e u got to do to get him bak!!!...always wear something nice...n sexy...always have light make up on...lookin good n pretty...always b kool...n close to him as much as u can!!! call him..talk to him...start it off as friends at first...make him get those feelings back for u :) n then HELL YAH GURL...GO FOR IT...i wish u the best n i hope u get him bak!!!...if it doesnt work...then i dunno i guess u have to move on...n count him something as past then present!!! xoxo effy

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drifting_nimbus answered Thursday July 15 2004, 1:02 pm:
Hey honey, I have to say I went through the same thing with my current boyfriend. We had been dating for 4 months and broke up because we "grew apart". We ended up getting back together after 2 weeks, couldn't stand being apart. If you love this guy so much then why arn't you with him? Love is accepting the bad times with the good, this was just a bad. And about your "friend", if she's willing to take your ex that you dated for a year and tell him that you arn't friends any more she isn't much of a friend. My advice: forget your friend, tell your boy how you feel, and see what happens. Good luck!

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kitty143 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:40 pm:
ur best friend isnt a friend anymore how can she do that! that has happend 2 me b4 2 besides the best friend part it old my boyfriend either u treat me beter or im leaving u and that was a 1 and a half ago and i didnt realize how much i loved him till he was gone and every1 said move on move on but it wasnt that simple and he said we will always work out in the future and guess wat after all thos enights of crying were back together again =)....and hopefully that happends 2 u he will realize that he needds u and he will change he will make more time 4 u and u will be the center piece of his life...hopefully..please rate me .please rate me

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BabyPhat313 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:23 pm:
i went through the same situation . i kno how u feel . well mine was diff. sorta . see i went out wit the guy and then he ignored me and went out wit this slut and it pissed me off for a really long time . ive gotten ovr it tho . hun , there is soo many guys out there and u sound like u deserve much beter . guys always say " we'll work it out in the future" . it aint tru tho . y r u depressed b/c of an asshole . and if he's wit ur best friend . dosent ur best freind understand ur feelings about him still . if not then she isnt your friend at all . i'd start over and let go of the putz and ur bitch friend . its funny i still think of my ex all the time 24/7 to . i did for the past 3 yrs.!!!! thats a looong time . it brought me down . my school grades went down , i made bad choices all b/c of a man . hell no , this cant happen to me i sed to myself . u cant make this guy bring u to a point of depression . hope i helped ya .

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swtbabygurlxox answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:17 pm:
sweetie listen sumthin similar happened to me me n my bf have been 2gether 3weeks n ive had to dump him 5 times because of his attidue and flirting with my friends too but it took me till we broke up like u said to realize how much i needed him and thats wut brought us back together u need to sit n talk to this guy face to face get all ur feelings and emoations out because they wont go away n i kno how is it i hope i helped n the friend situation kick her butt 4 real she aint a true friend im me on ghetto osunshine if u need anything xo andrea

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