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im a 14f and ok there is this guy that i met over the summer, he was friends with my guy friends and i met him and i thought he was cute, i dont go for guys because of looks, i go by personalit, and lets say his name is joe.. well joe tells people he thinks im hot and then we talk a little bit and flirt and then like 2 days later my friend Marie calls me and is like hey joe wanted to know if he can call u ... and she mentioned he might ask me out, but i wasnt sure if i was ready to go out with him and i was like ill talk to him tomorrow at the park because everyone hangs out at the park so i decided yeah ill answer him tomorrow. the thing is that he only was gonna stay for like a month so pretty soon he'll be leaving so yeah next day he totally ignores me at the park and later on this girl Jessica is having a party which i didnt get invited to and i hear that everyone gets drunk and jessica gives joe a blow job ... then i talk to joe and hes like idk we were drunk and stuff and then me and him were back on the track until then another girl pops up and he ditches me again, then he tells all his friends, which are my friends too that he was talkin to me on the phone and he said how we were gonna hook up and he makes a bunch of bs up too them, so yeah then he leaves back to Michigan (where he is from) without even saying anything. i talk to some of my guy friends about him and they tell me how much of a player he is and stuff how he brags he likes to be a pimp and all this bullshit but yeah then i talk to him over the internet a lot and hes like so sweet and tells me all these nice things how he misses me and wishes we would of hooked up and how he shouldnt of been with jessica and stuff and he tells me hes gonna be coming in a month but he doesnt come and then next time im online he is like im coming in 10 days so then i get REALLLLY happy but he ends up not coming and now my friend was talking to one of her friends Mark, and finds out that MARk & joe are cousins. and mark is like i heard u hooked up wit my cousin, he says that to my cousin, and shes like ur cousin? hes like yeah joe, he told me u and some other girl and him went partying a lot ... and she finds out more stuff that he is going to come and visit soon and now i dont know what to do.. i've fallin for him and i dont wanna hear forget about him, i need actual advice, i mean i think about him 24/7 and its just getting me mad ... what do i do? thanks a lot! sorry that its long!
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listen sweetie your young ur goan have alot of guyz crazy about you dont let this fool play with your head believe me ive been through it tell him strait up if ur gona lie to me n cheat n shit just leave me alone but alot of guyz will say anything to get what they want so dont always believe what they tell you your probly better off finding someone new hope i help *~* andrea *~*
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here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i dont know if im ready to go that far with him. what do i do? someone please help me out. (link)
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dont get pressured into something ur not ready for make shure this guy knows that other wise ur gona get ur heartbroke trust me i been through it and i kno hope i helped xo andrea
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Ok, so there is this guy that I think I'm in love with. I can't really say that I am in love because...I've never been in love before. Today at school, my band class was out on the football field going over the marching show we are going to do, and me and a bunch of other people were talking. Then all of a sudden my friend...let's say his name is Juan, says that I'm in love with the guy that I really, really like. So I go and get all embrassed, but the thing is that right after Juan said that, he (name is...Frank) said that he loved me. He said that he truly loved me. And the look on his face was extremely serious, but the sound of his voice was kinda a smart alec-y voice. I want to know what you think he ment. Was he just playing around, or was he being serious? If you can help at all, thanks in advance.
Signed-
Confused Heart (link)
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go and ask him strait forward be 4real tell this guy how u feel about him you cant go wrong n i hope i help xo andrea
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is it ok to have a boyfriend that dosnt live in the same state and that u have met on the internet?!?!?!?! bcause i have one and now im sort of scared (link)
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umm it depends like if its close then maby but becareful people arnt always what they seem to be especially 1 you havent met that can be dengerious u should proli break it off hope i helped xo andrea
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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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i would go with clear or white thats ur best bet xo andrea
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i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with? (link)
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ok ive been bebysittin for along time so i know put the kids in time out if they dont listen hun i watc h 4 kids believe me lock them in there rooms untill they decide to listen to you works every time
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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that. (link)
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dont let your bf pressure u into sumthing your not ready ofr and explain that to him
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my plant, gromie, just winked at me. it kidna scares me. i am really upset with his behaviors! what should i say to my naughty naughty venus fly trap? should i tell him to be a good boy, or just ignore the cute little guy? (link)
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throw it out thats creepy
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Hi,
I'm a 26 years female married from 3 years and a have a lovely happy family one baby boy.
I met a new colleague at work he sexually likes me and tried so many times to have some sexual relation with me,
After i refused so many times,i'm feeling that i'm getting along with him and i'm falling in love with him i can't stop thinking of him I want to be with him all the day.
I need your advice. what shall I do
Thank you
Bouba (link)
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dont do something your going to regret be shure u kno wut u want first
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I am 24 year old college student and I just spent the weekend with a girl that just moved in across the street she is going to school here. I have talked to her a little before, but this weekend she came to my house and wanted to go hang out. So we did and we had a great time we spent almost the wole weekend together. We watched a movie togeterh she feel asleep and we just cuddled and slept until morning no sex or anything. I really liker her and we get along great, but when she comes over or I go obever there she acts like she doesnt want a hug or anything, but whene it is time to say goodbye. She gives me a long hug and doesn't want to let go but acts like she does't want a kiss so I just kiss her on the cheeck. This is confusing because she still comes around. I though mabey she just did not want to kiss so. The last time she was over I just gave her a hug. Then she came over later and acted different and gave me a half ass hug. This is confusing. What shoul I do? (link)
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ok take it from me us gurls can be very confuseing she probly isnt shure if she likes you or not if its realli bothering you ask her whats going out
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Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.
well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games. (link)
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wow this is tough sit ur mom down exlain u cant be fightin like ur lil kid because ur the kid n shes the adult n its seems the other way around n dont apolgise if u didnt do anything wrong try talk to 1 of ur friends moms about it have them talk to her for you maby that will work hope i helped xo andrea
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
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1st rule of dateing never! see a guy under a year younger than u take my advise on this 1 find sum1 ur age or older ur way better off hope i helped xo andrea
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hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do? (link)
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he's juSt playing hard to get just like a gurl would i went out with this guy once who was the same way he flirted wit me n when i asked if he liked me he always said maby or i dunno n finally i had to ask him out and he said yes so to answer ur question wait n see wut happens give it time when ur at the movies try to hold his hand or maby try to kiss him on the cheek nothing drastic trust me hope i help xo andrea
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot... (link)
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sweetie listen sumthin similar happened to me me n my bf have been 2gether 3weeks n ive had to dump him 5 times because of his attidue and flirting with my friends too but it took me till we broke up like u said to realize how much i needed him and thats wut brought us back together u need to sit n talk to this guy face to face get all ur feelings and emoations out because they wont go away n i kno how is it i hope i helped n the friend situation kick her butt 4 real she aint a true friend im me on ghetto osunshine if u need anything xo andrea
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i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo (link)
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heyy listen i kno how ya feel but being ur self is the best person you can be and if its ment to be hell see that if push comes to shove then just tell him to his face i like u do u like me back it worked for me hoep i help a lil bit xo andrea
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hey well my boyfriend and i have been going out not even a month yet but we've gone out longer times before. well sometimes i feel like we're drifting apart and then we come back together. what should i do and how should i feel. when i feel like we're drifing apart, i want him to know that i still love him but when he says it back, its as if he doesnt really mean it.... but then somehow we go back like normal...what should i do?? is this like a sign that i cant read or is it just the way he is? (link)
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i kno how it is sweetie me n my bf r the say way i wont talk to him 4 2 days then he calls out of no where n wants to see me look tell him how u feel thats wut i did n it worked out pretty well hope i help xo andrea
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I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help????? (link)
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ok sweetie i been though this kida thing alot so i hope i help if i guy says u got a great body n flirts alot hes deffinatly noticeing you he just doesnt seem to kno if he likes u enough to tell u yet give the guy time n try not to rush things! he may not be mister right ya kno keep lookin just in case
hope i helped xox andrea
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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP! (link)
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well sweetie all i can say is i was in the same situation a couple times so i hope it helps when i met this guy i liked him alot after chillin 4 a while my friends were like ask him out n i was like i dunno if he likes me so i would flirt with him a lil bit every day hint a lil bit n 1 day he came up n put his arm around me n he finally asked me out soo all i can say is try flirting if he dun get the message hes just plain dumb!
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