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my ex... could we become more?
hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do?
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i think maybe u should just wait cause u might ruin ur friendship since he told u he doesnt liike u more then a friend..and if u are meant to be u are and he'll kno he made a mistake once he sees u wit another guy just watch...hope i helped
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hi, well listen u said that u told him how u feel bout him a couple of times n he always told u that he loves u to death but only as a friend...dont u think thats tru...may b he doesnt see u like dat anymore..may b he sees u as a good friend...as his sister...someone he could count on whenever he needs 2...n may b u love him the same way...but u think u love him as a b/f...i mean i think it would b good if like u guys gived it one more try...n see if it could work...actually talk to him n tell him that u feel somethin strong for him ...n u dont know wut its is...tell him to give it one more chance...n if it doenst work then b friends again the way u were b4 ;) dont u think thats a good idea?!?!/ xoxo effy good luck!
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Honey, by what you said it sounds like he has made it clear that he doesn't want to be anything more then friends. If you push him he may just stop talking to you completely. My advice: be his friend, be there for him, and when he's ready he'll realize that you are an awesome person and he may just want to be more the friends. But until then, don't try anything serious- just flirt like mad!
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he's juSt playing hard to get just like a gurl would i went out with this guy once who was the same way he flirted wit me n when i asked if he liked me he always said maby or i dunno n finally i had to ask him out and he said yes so to answer ur question wait n see wut happens give it time when ur at the movies try to hold his hand or maby try to kiss him on the cheek nothing drastic trust me hope i help xo andrea
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i'd talk to him again about it.. tell him u really like it and ur just really confused.. as for asking him out i'd wait to see his response--maybe hes just leading u on or something?? if all he wants to be is friends then maybe u should just try to move on hes just not worth ur time and some guys are like that.
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Well I guess if y0u really like him and he doesn*t its just best for you to back off... Cuz if y0u keep pushing it he'll just end up leaving y0u alone f0r good!! If he doesn*t like y0u then he*s missing out..!! Good luck*
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Ask him to the movies as friends, if he likes you more than likely he will try to make a move, just show him that you are interested, and dont be too flirty
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