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hey please answer this =) !
im a 14f and ok there is this guy that i met over the summer, he was friends with my guy friends and i met him and i thought he was cute, i dont go for guys because of looks, i go by personalit, and lets say his name is joe.. well joe tells people he thinks im hot and then we talk a little bit and flirt and then like 2 days later my friend Marie calls me and is like hey joe wanted to know if he can call u ... and she mentioned he might ask me out, but i wasnt sure if i was ready to go out with him and i was like ill talk to him tomorrow at the park because everyone hangs out at the park so i decided yeah ill answer him tomorrow. the thing is that he only was gonna stay for like a month so pretty soon he'll be leaving so yeah next day he totally ignores me at the park and later on this girl Jessica is having a party which i didnt get invited to and i hear that everyone gets drunk and jessica gives joe a blow job ... then i talk to joe and hes like idk we were drunk and stuff and then me and him were back on the track until then another girl pops up and he ditches me again, then he tells all his friends, which are my friends too that he was talkin to me on the phone and he said how we were gonna hook up and he makes a bunch of bs up too them, so yeah then he leaves back to Michigan (where he is from) without even saying anything. i talk to some of my guy friends about him and they tell me how much of a player he is and stuff how he brags he likes to be a pimp and all this bullshit but yeah then i talk to him over the internet a lot and hes like so sweet and tells me all these nice things how he misses me and wishes we would of hooked up and how he shouldnt of been with jessica and stuff and he tells me hes gonna be coming in a month but he doesnt come and then next time im online he is like im coming in 10 days so then i get REALLLLY happy but he ends up not coming and now my friend was talking to one of her friends Mark, and finds out that MARk & joe are cousins. and mark is like i heard u hooked up wit my cousin, he says that to my cousin, and shes like ur cousin? hes like yeah joe, he told me u and some other girl and him went partying a lot ... and she finds out more stuff that he is going to come and visit soon and now i dont know what to do.. i've fallin for him and i dont wanna hear forget about him, i need actual advice, i mean i think about him 24/7 and its just getting me mad ... what do i do? thanks a lot! sorry that its long!
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i think you should just forget about him.. obviously he's a player, just like you were told. yeah its hard to just drop him and all, but think about it.. if he was with you, and fooling around with other girls, and all that.. what makes you think he wont do it again? do you really want to go through that again?
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listen sweetie your young ur goan have alot of guyz crazy about you dont let this fool play with your head believe me ive been through it tell him strait up if ur gona lie to me n cheat n shit just leave me alone but alot of guyz will say anything to get what they want so dont always believe what they tell you your probly better off finding someone new hope i help *~* andrea *~*
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Don't waste your time on him. He sounds like a serious player and you are better than that. It'll be hard, because it does sound like you really care for him, but you need to move on. Find a new guy or hang with your friends, but don't get back with him. He's lied too many times.
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Sorry this may not be the answer you wanted to hear, but it sounds like this "Joe" guy is definetly not a keeper. You don't deserve to have to worry about the crap your boyfriend does. In fact, no girl does. I am sure that there is a much better guy out there for you, and I hope you realize this and get past him. I know that you can find someone better.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
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This is a hard situation. Joe IS a player, no doubt about that. He does all this stuff with girls, and then flirts with you and tries to be all sweet. He lives in Michigan, and he might come to visit? Well hooking up with him while hes in your town is not a good idea. Because one, he needs to go back to Michigan and the distance will hurt. And 2, since he's trying so hard to be a player, he'll probably hook up with other girls too. I'm not saying forget about him, but think about what he's doing. He hooks up with chicks, and then trys to be all sweet to you and you think hes the coolest guy ever. But thats his plan, he does that to all the girls he wants to hook up with. Then he leaves them. If you dont want to forget about him, dont. But think about what hes doing and how much he is hurting you. NO girl deserves to be treated this way-you deserve WAY better. And you can probably find someone that is sweeter, and nicer, and hotter! I hope I helped a little, and I hope everything works out. If you need any more help, you can leave one in my inbox!
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