Im a really big guy. Im 7 feet tall, im 450lbs. My questions is, why is it that girls just want to be friends with me. They dont want to think about anything more than a friendship. I thought girls didnt care as much for looks as guys. Big guys need loving too.
ESPECIALLY when they do they whole thing when they spot me leaning against some wall and they stand in front of me and lean towards the wall , and put both their arms on either side of me and lean down , so they are only a few inches taller . eeeek . makes me feel cornered .
so i don;t lean against walls anymore .
my advice for you : find a nice tall model like girl , like 6 feet tall or more , and ask her out . trust me , as long as you are pretty hot , she wouldn't mind . girls like that like guys a lot taller than them .
oh yeah , and go work out , if you haven't been . work towards having a good body .
arlo answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:09 pm: well, you'll find someone soon, someone like me that doesn't care about looks so much. ya if you're a good looking guy it helps, but that definately is not all that matters. if you're a sweet guy, buy a girl you like flowers, if you're a romantic, write her a poem, if you like a chubby girl buy her some chocolate(just kidding) i hope that my advice helped at least a little, good luck.
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kissablefunk answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:33 am: because they see u as a good friend that when they break up with their boyfriend they can come and cry on ur shoulder because u probably have a big heart, dopnt worry..i m sure that their are girls that are attracked to u
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jokerzgrl answered Saturday October 23 2004, 10:24 am: Wow! You're tall. I'm only 5'3. so anyone taller than me, I consider tall, not to make you feel bad or anything. Personally, I like a tall guy *growl!* Try blantantly asking a girl on a date, don't beat around the bush. Most guys do that and end up in the predicament that you're in, regardless of height. And to be honest, 7ft tall and 450lbs, isn't something you see everyday, and most people are afraid to break away from the norm. You seem nice, so show people how special you are, and let all your other qualities shine through like the sun breaking through storm clouds.;)Sorry, I'm kinda into poetry. Everyone has something different about them, whether it be their personality or something physical, in your case, height, and somebody is gonna like that you're different. Don't worry. Sorry this is so long, I had to get my point across.
Mad Love,
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HaPpYdUcK8989 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 1:28 am: Look at it this way. You can find so many peopke out there who love you! You just gotta find the right one... And I'm a girl so I would know that looks are important to the best ones! So deal with what you get, But I have a feeling that what you get will be great. [ HaPpYdUcK8989's advice column | Ask HaPpYdUcK8989 A Question ]
ElementaryHustler answered Friday October 22 2004, 11:54 pm: Aww keep looking. You'll find someone thats not shallow. Them damn biatches. Try playing hard to get? Works for some people, maybe it will work for you. If not keep your head up buddy. Some girl will come along one day. :)
Always answered Friday October 22 2004, 11:17 pm: Okay, that just sucks! I'd totally go out with you, lmao. I DEF. suggest watching the MTV show 'Made', because two weeks ago there was one shown about this guy, and he's in your exact situation. The show shows how to work through it, etc, I think it'll help ya! :D [ Always's advice column | Ask Always A Question ]
hyperaimee92 answered Friday October 22 2004, 10:39 pm: Well maybe ur not the type that girls need or like. Most girls hate when guys r desperate... if u act like ur desperate that may be y. But lots of guys judge girls on wut they look like and so girls get back at guys....im not saying ur ugly cuz ive never seen u but thats y ...k well hope i helped!!
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charmed-cherry21 answered Friday October 22 2004, 10:31 pm: Because most girls would be embarressed and actually girls care more about looks than guys.
xpilzex answered Friday October 22 2004, 10:30 pm: hey this isnt my answer to ur ques...this is my ques on your ques....ok so errr how u become 7 feet?
milk? everyone in my school that are tall dont drink milk or sleep early....and uhhh im like 5'7 reight now im 13 do u think i have a chance to be at least 6'2?? [ xpilzex's advice column | Ask xpilzex A Question ]
Sherry answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:40 pm: Well some girls dont care about looks, and some girls want their man to be muscley and all. personally, I dont really care. I know a lot of big guys and they just look like huge teddy bears that i want to hug l0l! You just have to wait for the right person to come along that doesnt care about your height or weight. And trust me, there are girls that dont care! You just have to be patient. I know it sucks to wait, but thats all you can do. Good luck! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
panther_grl03 answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:36 pm: Of course! Almost everyone need to know that someone likes them. I think it all depends on how old you are. If you are in high school then it wouldn't surprise me because most girls in high school are shallow like that. And, if that is the case, don't worry about it too much. I am a small girl, but I have never had a serious relationship. If you are older, I wouldn't worry about it then either. I believe that there is something or someone out there for all of us. Don't worry, you'll find yours eventually.
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