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ok me and this guy use to be GREAT friends! See we went out 4 about a week and we broke up because he wanted to be really good friends! He said that he hates relation ships because they get screwed up and the people end up where they never talk again. So he didnt want that to happen to us. Well everything went great until i started likeing this one guy. I told my ex (the guy who broke up with me because he wanted to be good friends and didnt want us to end up where we dont talk)and my ex went ok. Since i told him that i like another guy ive kinda lost my ex as a best guy friend! ive talked to him many times to tell him that we use to be good friends and now we dont even talk! Well its not working. He still never talks to me anymore! Im afraid that im loosing my best guy friend! what do i do instead of talking to him? how can i get him to understand that we are loosing each other! plz help! signed-scared

Okay A.A. (LOL i know this is from u)...
I know that J.M. was one of your best friends but so am I. As a best friend who wouold only want the best for you, I think you should talk to him. Tell him whats going on and see how he reacts. If he doesn't want to be your friend you have to accept his feelings and get over it. But I think you will work things out.. You always do!

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What is a good way to eat healty and nutriously? I dont have good eating habits and need ot cut down eating poorly... do u know any good sites for a way to eat healthy, like recommened nutrious diets?

Hmmmm..... I don't know of any sites but why don't you just try to eat healthy ? Cut down on the sugar and the carbohydrates.... Just eat fruits, veggies and healthy meats and breads but limit yourself on how much you eat of these things.... If I didn't help than just go to www.dogpile.com and search for good healthy diets !

Hope I helped,

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

uh duhh! stop watching scary movies!

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ok... our school is one of 2 high schools in the district... and srry if this is long.. but.. the other one had a "silently loud" protest the other day b/c the principle said they couldn't wear white, black, or pink t-shirts anymore... and the guys had to cut their hair... and the no one can wear black makeup....... like eyeshadow, lipstick, etc..... and now they wanna do that to our school... we are havin a protest on monday and everyone.. well.. mostly everyone.. is wearin black... everything black...... is there any other way to get them to realize that we mean buisness.???? thnx much.... i rate.. InsaneSanityBabi

Okay i agree with you. Whoever made that rule is stupid. And I would like use a Vis-a-Vis marker to write on the prinipals car and u should put FIRST AMENDMANT all over the windshield.

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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)

I will answer your question......

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I've been sexually active for about 6 monthes or so now, and I'm going to the gynocologist sometime this week. Will she be able to tell that I'm not a virgin? I'm only 16. Oh, and if she can find out, are they supposed to tell your parents? PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!

Okay the point of a Gyno is to tell if you have had sex or not. And I'm sorry but you are under 18 so it is illegal to not tell your parents.

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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~

For one, Abortion is horrible. You didn't even say "abortion"! You flat out said "Kill the baby" which is so mean! And for two it is illegal to get pregnant in the US and have an abortion without informing your parents unless you are under the age of 18. So no. I'm sorry.

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What does the term i.e. mean? Does it mean something like "For example"? I'm not sure. If you could help me out that'd be great.

It means Example.

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There is a school dance tonight and i'm not sure if i should go!! i want to but there are these girls who are mean and i'm afraid they might try to pick a fight with me tonight! Should i go? and if i go and they confront me what should i do? what should i say?

Yes! They're fun! Besides... You could probab;y crush this girl!

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OK. Anyone out there have "Irish twins"(basically babies born within a year of each other.)Well, my wife is pregnant with #2!Is it easier or more difficult with the second child?

I'm only 12! Ask your mom!

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do u people think its weird if ur a girl and tell a gurl u luv dem like when they are about 2 get offline? cuz my friend online who is lez said dat 2 me and i said it bak cuz i have known her 4 a while and she is like 1 of my best friends. is there sumthin wrong with that?cuz now that i think about it it kinda seems weird i juss said it witout thinkin.
much luv people!!
holla

Nope. If you love her like a friend, That's okay. But if you really love her... Well that's your own buisness!
Amber

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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

AXE! lol

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Okay, I know that there have been many questions on the subject, but I looked, and I haven't found any other question/answers that were helpful. Okay, well here goes. I've gotten so addicted to cutting, that lately I've been doing it in class. I even cut my initials into my skin. Well today I got caught, and I was telling a friend about it, and my 4th period teacher heard. Well after the test in that class, she called me into the hall because we were allowed to do anything, and I got out a needle, and when that teacher saw she called me out. Then she was all like you know what you do is dangerous and stuff, and I was like yes... and she said other stuff like I care about you, and want you to stop, and I was like yeah, whatever. Well, now I really want to stop, but I can't it's like I'm addicted. I want to end my life, yet I want to live. And so now, I don't know how to stop. And I would bring it up to one or both of the teachers that know, but I wouldn't know how to bring it up, and I'm afraid that they would tell my parents, and my parents wouldn't sympathize, they would get really mad, trust me I know. So I was wondering, how might I get over this addiction, and if I were to tell the teacher that I need help, then how would I bring it up. What would you do to get help, and if you were to ask a teacher for help, what would you say. And if you were a cutter, but no longer cut, I'd like to hear your stories, no matter how long! Thanks a bunch!
Sorry it's so long, but I'm really worried about how far I might take this.

You really need to talk to a counselor. They know what they're talking about!

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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?

Yes!

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hey need some help..any ideas on some good song lyrics or a cute quote or saying to put in my profile under my boyfrinds name..im no good at poetry and iduno what song or quote from a site i should put..any suggestions?? thanx a bunch

If your lookin' for the goodies keep on lookin' 'cause they stay in the jar!

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hi.my names jaylene and i my parents recently just got divoreced and ever since that ive been getting into drugs and cutting myself and my parents(mom mostly) abuse me and call me stuff like a whore all the time. my brother hurts me and does the same as my parents. everyone i no thinks im so happy and i just want to let it all out and tell all of them that im not! and i want to get out of my life and start a new one but thats not goin to happen...theres one good part i love my boyfriend weve been goiing out for 6 months and hes the only one that keeps me going everyday or else who knows whered id be but yeah i dont no wut to do about drugs and abuse and my parents so please HELP me!!! ps i love shawn!!

CALL THE COPS!

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hey i have a real good friend named kristina ! we have been friends for like a year and we can already tell each other anything ! well since the 9th grade came i have kinda changed ! well now im loosing my best friend ! do u think i should change back or just let it go ?

Okay, Here's my opinion....
First of all, Kristina was right when she was liking you for who you were. But when you changed? That was wrong. I think you should be yourself. If you like yourself better the new way, Stay the same. If you like the old you better and Kristina is more important than what you think about yourself, change back. It's all about you babe!

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should i play football in 8th grade yes/no/maybe

It really depends. If you think you like this sport... Go for it! If you suck.... Well, I'll leave that decision up to you!

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Should I buy a Hummer or A Honda?
LoVe, AlIsA!

HuMmEr!!!!!

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Situation: Ex boyfriend moved to another state.. i mean.. i love him soo much! i havent see him since he left... 2 months ago.. And I talked to him recently.. he says hes moving back here.. Hes the guy I lost my virginity to...

Situation: I'm engaged right now.. but I think if my Ex came back... i would do something I will regret..

I know I love both guys..and both guys love me.. so how do I choose?

Pick the more important one!

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