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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?
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could be! maybe she just likes how different you are than the normal date! <3.RaCh
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if she really wants to date you, she wouldnt care about the movie. but if you want to make sure, don't ask her on another date after this and see if she insists on going out again. but i'm leaning on the side that she does dig you.
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naw. most girls would tell u if they didnt like the movie.
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Dude, the 1st date would be the pity date, not the second one. I would like nothing better than to see the Grudge, and I'm a girl. Plus it's around Halloween time. And if it's scary, then you can comfort her, hold her hand, put your arm around her. The scarier the better, unless this girl is a cheerleading wimp. Not saying all cheerleaders are wimps, I know a pretty tough one, but you get what I'm saying. Like a legally blonde elle wannabe, cheerleader, stuckup preppy hollister girl. I have friends that have some of those qualities, but I'm hoping that you get what I mean.
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No... i really doubt it... most people don't put themselves in that sorta position... it's really hard to date sum1 that your not into... she probably does like you...
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I dont think that's a "pitty" date. i'm a girl and i like bloody movies are better than girly movies like legally blonde. Besides, what's better than a "Halloween" movie near halloween. You can keep her company.
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no way- she'd definitly just say no if she didnt want to go on another date. some girls like blood and guts movies because either A) they just like that kind of stuff or B) they feel like "you're gonna protect them" or something.. or so ive heard... anyways- she probably is into you, dont feel like it's out of pitty, and if you are still having doubts.. ask her! she'll give you the best answer out of any of these columnists! =]-ask_anything
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absolutely not. she obviously had a great time on the date and just wants to spend more time with you. i wouldn't worry about it at all. congratulations, you may have a new girlfriend on your hands! :)
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//hannah
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not likely; she's digging your company, face it!
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believe it or not, some girls actually enjoy blood-and-guts movies. i see no reason for you to think this is a pity date. enjoy it, and make sure SHE picks something important about the date this time. if she tries to avoid it, pin her with the "how will i ever know what you like?" question, and if things seem to be going very well, give her the, "well, as long as i'm with you, i don't mind what it is, so you might as well choose."
you dashing boy, you.
and if she cared about the age difference, she probably would have turned you down the first time.
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no she probaly whants to know what you are going to do next.any ways try being romantic you know, flowers,gifts,romantic comedys.and dont be all stiff around her when your out on your date.
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Give her the benefit of the doubt. If that was me and I didn't enjoy a movie, I wouldn't get rid of the guy if I really liked him. Plus, I wouldn't arrange another date if I didn't like him either. You never know, she might enjoy that kind of movie. So arrange to see her again and see how things go.
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No way! Girls don't go on second dates out of pity, trust me. I'm thinking she likes you. Go on the next one and think positive thoughts. She obviously wants to hang out again. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Some girls do actually like those kind of movies. If she said yes for a second date, then she's probably interested in you. She could have said no, or made up some excuse, but she didn't. This is not a pity date.
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