hi.my names jaylene and i my parents recently just got divoreced and ever since that ive been getting into drugs and cutting myself and my parents(mom mostly) abuse me and call me stuff like a whore all the time. my brother hurts me and does the same as my parents. everyone i no thinks im so happy and i just want to let it all out and tell all of them that im not! and i want to get out of my life and start a new one but thats not goin to happen...theres one good part i love my boyfriend weve been goiing out for 6 months and hes the only one that keeps me going everyday or else who knows whered id be but yeah i dont no wut to do about drugs and abuse and my parents so please HELP me!!! ps i love shawn!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? TheLovex8 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:28 pm: aww thats cute well you can't base your life only on your boyfriend you must depend your life on you if your not good enuff with out the boyfriend what makes you think your good enuff with him? All boy Friends aren't for ever. i think you should tell child abuse about your parents and your bother or see your school advisor.. i think you should see someone about it befor it gets worst and if you have time search on the net to watch tis video its called Concrete Angel by Martina Mcbride i listen to everything so don't diss on me cuz its country!x0x0 Kay [ TheLovex8's advice column | Ask TheLovex8 A Question ]
SweetBabi answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 6:19 pm: im sooooooo sorry!! omg... abuseing a child is never a way to hlep anything!! but dont worry but life sux to... not as bad as yurs tho... and muh b/f keeps me going to (johnny)... all i can say is stay outta their way till yur outta that house n try not to cut n do drugs anymore... i hope i helped yew...
!SwEeTbAbI! [ SweetBabi's advice column | Ask SweetBabi A Question ]
dinoold answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:26 am: woah...
If your Mom abuses you..you need to tell someone. You need to tell your dad...can he take you?Or is that not a good thing?
If you cannot tell him..tell an adult..you have rights...
And if your brother hurts you you need to get the Heck out of there..
Mothers and siblings DO not HURT their daughters or siblings!! Ok..that is NOT normal..in FACT that is against the law!
Do not do the drugs...if you want an adult or your father to take YOU seriously on this..you have to be clean. If you are not clean..your loser MOM and sicko brother can use the drugs as THEIR excuse.
Start documenting when they hurt you and you will have proof.
kmankilla answered Monday October 25 2004, 10:30 pm: Ok, first of all, would your boyfriend be capable of "beating up" your brother, but not actually do it, as long as your brother is scared of him then he'll leave you alone, second, stop the cutting and drugs, it's just as bad as your parents abuse. Third, stay away from your parents, and give them as little as possible to be mad at you about. But if it gets too bad seriously contact authorities. [ kmankilla's advice column | Ask kmankilla A Question ]
Fizzywater123 answered Monday October 25 2004, 10:18 pm: hey jaylene. its jilli...me and u have known eachother for such a long time and i never thought ur parents would get divorced and i had no idea this was going on.....i know ever since this school year has started we havent exactly been best friends but i still wanna know whats going on with u and i think u really need to get councling. pleez talk to me about it more later so i can keep trying to help u. bye [ Fizzywater123's advice column | Ask Fizzywater123 A Question ]
hyperaimee92 answered Monday October 25 2004, 8:05 pm: jaylene, its aimee!! u need to get help....i cut(still..) and its hard for me to stop and my parents used to abuse me and i know its hard but u need to get help if it still happens...i never did get help and i have a really bad life...u dont want to end up like me!! (trust me about that)...i also used to drink and now im really fucked up!! so plz get help and get a better life unlike me!! *-x-*AiMeE*-x-* p.s. i wont tell ne one if u dont want me to!! [ hyperaimee92's advice column | Ask hyperaimee92 A Question ]
panther_grl03 answered Monday October 25 2004, 7:53 pm: Well, first of all you should NOT be doing drugs. That is really really bad, and you will end up learning that the hard way if you don't quit now. As for your mom, no one deserves that. You may need to tell someone seriously. Yes, it may be really tough, but you can't handle that sort of thing on your own. Our school has a safe school help line, or you could talk to a trusted teacher or guidence counceler. I wish you lots of luck, Ann [ panther_grl03's advice column | Ask panther_grl03 A Question ]
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