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Mom trouble
Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.
well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games.
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you should just ignore her eventually shell talk to you .. try doing something you wouldnt usually do thatll make her talk to you
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wow this is tough sit ur mom down exlain u cant be fightin like ur lil kid because ur the kid n shes the adult n its seems the other way around n dont apolgise if u didnt do anything wrong try talk to 1 of ur friends moms about it have them talk to her for you maby that will work hope i helped xo andrea
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This question seems to need more explaining. I want to say that maybe your mom needs some counceling, or some kind of family counceling for the two of you. But I don't know if thats the case. Does your mom get depressed? Is your mom upset that you went to visit your father (I'm guessing thats where you were for the summer) Is she depressed about that. Either way you need to find some way to get her to talk to you and tell you what is wrong. Maybe you could try talking to someone else. Perhaps an older family member, like an aunt, uncle, grandparent. Or maybe theres some really close friends of your mothers that could help you. But make sure you dont' talk to just anyone. You dont' want her to get even more mad at you for talking to other people. But it does sound like you need some help with this one. I don't really understand what it is that you did wrong, unless there's something that your not quite explaining, it seems like it's her that needs to apoligize, not you.
But I've been depressed, and I've had to deal with my mother when she was depressed, so I can kind of understand why she can act like that... If that is the case of course.
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well this question is kinda hard to answer because i dont know exactly what happend or whatever.. but i think you should just have someone talk to your mom or buy her a really nice gift or flowers or something and tell her your sorry for whatever you did... hopefully things will be better after that!!
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TO: Mom trouble
i dunno wat otha ppl told you buh heres wat im going to...if you think wat you think and feel wat you feel then you should keep on thinking and feelin thah way...buh try to keep it more to yourself becoz it dos gib your mom some bad reputation and thahs not exactly tha kind of thing she mite want...
also...if she dunt wanna talk to you about wat you did and stuff then you hab to hab someone talk to her..you definitely hab to let her noe wat you thot and felt and how (as you sed) she started PO-ing about tha lil things and it annoyed you...if you guys dont hab any mututal understanding and stuff as an afterwards then like things can get pretty ugly between you two in the footoore and you prolly wanna avoid thah as much as possible...ya noe?
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Well it would help if i knew what was going on because that would help me get more of idea and help me out more with giving you advice but keep on talking to her and maybe write a letter and put it on her bedside so she wakes up to see it but your mom cant go on not talking to you forever because your her child and maybe point out that you could be gone anyday now and she'll regret not speaking to you-trix
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I knw how it is I'm stuck in the same situation. Its horrable. But I've spent so much time tryin to get my mom to be more nicer or understandin that now I just go on w/ my life I mean you only live once. Sooner or later she'll come around again. It just sucks cause she throughs stuff way off poportion its very difficult being a teen!!!!
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Well that is a tough situation but maybe make her breakfast(or lunch or dinner) in bed(or on the couch or wherever) oneday and write her a note since shes not talking to you and tell her you want to gain her trust again and youll not make a mistake like that again and if that doesnt work come back to me! but i wish the best of luck for ya
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This is common. I went to camp every summer when I was 11-15. For the time I was away, I never had to clean up, or do chores, etc., and when I came back it seemed like my parents were the ones with the attitude problem. Then I realized it was ME, because I had to adjust to being back at home and all the responsibilites. Your mom is probably really hurt because you're her little girl, and when you say awful things about her, it's like saying she is a bad mom. try writing her a letter and leaving it somewhere she'll find it, or organizing somewhat of a "family meeting". If nothing works, try free family counseling sessions.
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