here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i dont know if im ready to go that far with him. what do i do? someone please help me out.
gemmaholly answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:35 am: does this guy really have a girlfriend or not? and if you dont know you should find out. this will depend on the answer. if he does have a girlfriend then im afraid you should stay well clear telling him how you feel is acceptable but you musnt make a move. if he doesnt have a girlfriend then its up to you to decide if you want to be his girlfriend or not if he said he had a girlfriend just to make you jealous then he may like you, and was maybe testing you to see what your reaction would be. good luck hope this helps! :) [ gemmaholly's advice column | Ask gemmaholly A Question ]
sparky717 answered Monday October 18 2004, 9:36 am: Get drunk! Things always tend to look better when ur drunk...You'll chat loads of shit to some random person, feel tens times better and have worked everything out in your mind...then you might feel 20 times worse, get sick and go to bed with him. He's happy you're happy, we're all happy because you're not pestering us with bullshit problems so everyone will live happily every after. The End. [ sparky717's advice column | Ask sparky717 A Question ]
swtbabygurlxox answered Monday October 18 2004, 9:19 am: dont get pressured into something ur not ready for make shure this guy knows that other wise ur gona get ur heartbroke trust me i been through it and i kno hope i helped xo andrea [ swtbabygurlxox's advice column | Ask swtbabygurlxox A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Monday October 18 2004, 9:09 am: you need to talk to him first. if all he wants is sex, then you shouldnt go out with him. you have to go out with a guy who is your speed, not someone who always has his hands in your pants. if he cant do that, then your not meant to be. [ TrUtH_hUrTs_1's advice column | Ask TrUtH_hUrTs_1 A Question ]
Niiqquhzdream answered Monday October 18 2004, 6:22 am: He obviously likes you and wants to be involved in your life. Are you ready for that? If you want him to be more than a friend to you (it soundz like you do) then you should consider having him as a boyfriend. Boys usually make-up that girlfriend thing to make you want them more so that's normal...If you're completely over your other boyfriend and ready to make the decision to go with him then go ahead! But think about your friendship with this boy too. You're risking all of that if you go out with him. Good Luck!-Tiffany [ Niiqquhzdream's advice column | Ask Niiqquhzdream A Question ]
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