I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help?????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:34 pm: hi, well since he thinks ur hot n everything then i bet u got a chance...try to b as close to him as possible.. n w/e u do just b ur self...da guy needs to like u for who u are not for someone ur not...if he likes u for who u are then u guys ment to be if not then forget him n move one...there are planty of guys who wants u n everything...so basically just let him know that ur interested by the way u act n w/e w/e....dont tell him u like him till u b sure he likes u back or w/e...just show him ur interested flirt wit him...n everything ;)))) hope it works out...but if it doesnt trust me its better to move on :))) give other guys a chance :) who knoes who that mr.right is!! ;) xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
allyorlo21 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:30 pm: maybe hes just trying to make you jealous by going after your friend, or maybe YOU need to make HIM jealous. cuz if he thinks your hott and you guys hang out and get along well then theres got to be something there. maybe he just doenst know it yet. -- hope i helped ;] [ allyorlo21's advice column | Ask allyorlo21 A Question ]
swtbabygurlxox answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:24 pm: ok sweetie i been though this kida thing alot so i hope i help if i guy says u got a great body n flirts alot hes deffinatly noticeing you he just doesnt seem to kno if he likes u enough to tell u yet give the guy time n try not to rush things! he may not be mister right ya kno keep lookin just in case
hope i helped xox andrea [ swtbabygurlxox's advice column | Ask swtbabygurlxox A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 4:30 am: Well thats a tuffy you cant make anybody somebody like you unless you become the person they want you to become but you shouldnt change for anybody-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
bRuNettEwOndEr34 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:21 am: Yeah, all girls hit this point at some time or another. I went through this not too long ago. It sounds as though he likes you though, if he doesn't thought and he is doing so much flirting, That's really not too cool of him to just lead you on ecspeicially if he knows you like him. Try just explaining your feelings to him and just let him know how you feel, because he could just as well like you and is too afraid you dont like him!! Just give it a shot, If it doesn't work out, theres plenty of other boys that im sure would love to go out with you!! [ bRuNettEwOndEr34's advice column | Ask bRuNettEwOndEr34 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:11 am: Well, atleast he said you're hot, you have a great body, and you're fun to hang out with! Look on the bright side. But he needs to know that your friend doesn't like him. Once he knows, he should get over her! And move on to maybe YOU!!! But you can't just get a guy to like you, you don't have that kind of power, which would come in handy sometimes huh?! lol. Well, just flirt with him, show him how great your personality is, and get to know him more, and hang out with him ALOT! But ALWAYS be yourself, never be someone you're not. But just hang out with him a lot. Good luck hun! You'll get him, just be positive!!
superstar10 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:42 pm: omg i am going through the same thing rite now. i know exactly how u feel. but u see u cant make some one like u. especially if they already call u hott and stuff. just be u. and if that guy doesnt like that than hes not worth it. dang i think i should be listening to myself. anyways just be urself. u cant force a relationship, it just doesnt work. [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
sweetiixx3 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:35 pm: im not really following everyone elses responses here. if he tells your friend the same things hes telling you do you really think you want to be with him? .. i mean maybe you could find someone else whos interested in you and not your friend. you need someone who can give you the same love back not someone who will tell you he likes you then goes and does stuff with other girls. ive been in this situation before and its really hard to go through. i dont think that anyone should be hurt like this. just follow your heart and you cant go wrong hunn.
- Dr. Katie [ sweetiixx3's advice column | Ask sweetiixx3 A Question ]
Ksapp answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:24 pm: You want that boy to like ya...
get down and dirty for him show him a good time...sorry babe thats about has easy as i can put it [ Ksapp's advice column | Ask Ksapp A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:20 pm: hi, well there i dunno wut to tell u but since he thinks ur hot n everything u might have a chance there...u might wanna show him that ur interested guys usually like dat ;) ...they like attention so :) xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
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