OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD**
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOBaByKaY answered Sunday August 1 2004, 1:34 pm: *Honestly you need to stop whats going on because if you keep this going its only going to hurt you more and more! I understand you like him a lot and i know its hard to let go when you love someone but you need to! You just need to go back with being best friends! If hes a player and he cheated on you then its really not even worth trying to keep starting over because more then likely the same thing will happen and you will just get hurt! If he really liked you he wouldnt cheat on you and hurt you because thats not even right to do and you dont deserve that! And since your giving in he might only be saying he likes you because you are having sex with him and thats what he wants! Im not saying thats what it is for sure but that might be a possibility! I think the best thing for you is just to be friends again because it will be better for you in the long run and will stop you a lot of heart break! hOpE i HeLpEd! =)* xOxO Kaela <3 [ xOBaByKaY's advice column | Ask xOBaByKaY A Question ]
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