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my mom...
my mom is getting married to this guy whos really kool except he like flirts with me and comes on to me. he says stuff like hey sexy, hey cutie, hey pretty girl, and stuff like that and its really uncomfortable.. should i just let it go?
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You should deffinaly NOT just let this go. If you feel uncomfortable around someone in your own home <even in public> then you should talk to someone. in this case it would be your mom. Then see what she has to say and bring it up with him. I mean if you dont bring it up then youll be stuck with ot forever since they are getting married. Mabye hes not trying to be so .... lovey like that but you still need to talk about it to them. good luck and I hope I helped
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talk to your mom about it and maybe even talk to him about it. He may not know that you feel that way so just talk to both of them
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i don't think u should just let that go cuz u don't know if it is gona turn in 2 nething more cuz u always hear about thos storys about rapin them and stuff just talk 2 someone u feel comftable 2 talk about it wit. I hope i help *STEPHANIE*
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Try and do something sexual with him at aproximately the time your mom will come in and catch you.
Watch him cry...
Problem solved...
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no i dont thynk you should let it go you should talk to your mom......just in case so you can b on the safe side........bsides hez gonna b your step dad ewww.....u dun wanna live lyk that.
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Definitely not. You should totally let your mom know about what's going on because you never know if he'd sneak into your bed at night and try to take advantage of you. Have you ever let him know that it bothers you?
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If things he's saying are bothering you, you need to approach him about it. Tell him it bothers you when he calls you sexy, or cutie, or whatever. He might just be trying to get you to smile, or whatever. You gotta talk to him about it, though.
If he doesn't stop once you've talked to him about it, tell your mother.
I say go to the root of the problem, then detour if you can't get through. ^_^
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Hi there,
The main question hear is - is he really coming on to you or just messing about and trying to be friendly. If he is coming on to you - tell your mom. Don't worry about causing world war 3, don't worry about the consequences, they wouldn't be your fault. If he's just messing on it is still not acceptable if he is making you uncomfortable and you should tell him. Just say to him the way you keep speaking to me in this sexualised way is making me very uncountable, I don't find it acceptable and pleas stop. Or if you don't want to speak to him - speak to your mom. But don't just let it go, if theirs a problem sort it. If he is just trying to be friendly he'll probably be upset and very apologetic about the way he's been making you feel.
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No way! Tell him to stop. See how it works..if it doesnt work tell your mom! He should stop..if not ..something should be done!
hope i helped! write to me if you wanna talk more
-meliss-
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NO! don't let it go...the next time he says somethin like that to you , tell him you don't feel comfortable when he says that...and also tell your mom about what he says to you....Hope it helps :)
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Oh DEFINATLY not. If he's saying things like "hey sexy" he's taking it way too far. Definatly you should tell your mom, and let her know how uncomfortable that makes you feel whenever he says things like that. If you think he'll ever try to take it a step further definatly do something about it. This is the man that your mom is going to marry! Him saying something like that isn't being flattering,that's taking it too far.
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I think you should go and tell your mom. He may not mean it in a bad way, but he could! Hope I could help!
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you should definately talk to your mom about it and if she is just like oo no he doesnt and stuff like that then talk to him about it.
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you should defenitly tell ur mom!!! thats not right him talking 2 u like that...i mean thats ur soon 2 be step-dad and should not be talking 2 u like that and now its just talk but it cud get worse and even if hes doin it just 2 do it...its still making u uncomfortable and it shouldnt be happening!!!
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hey...
yOu cant just let sOmethin like that rOll.. thats ridiculOus, talk tO him or yOur mom or bOth of them abOut this! yOur mOm CANT marry sOmewOn that hits on yOu, that is nOt riqht and yOu SHOULD feel uncOmfOrtable, i hOpe i helped and i hOpe that this stOps
Love,
Angel
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