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Am i too young?
Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ?
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if you're questioning it, then it's likely that you aren't yet mentally mature enough to be able to handle it.
then again, if the love is as strong as you say, there's nary an age at which you would be able to handle it calmly. there are certain loves that are so strong they can scare you.
i personally don't think age has anything to do with it. it's all about mental maturity. i know plenty of adults who are less mature than most of my friends - though i should mention that i'm dreadfully picky when it comes to those i befriend in the first place.
just be careful. i had a love that sounded rather similar when i was even a bit younger than you, and it hurt terribly. was it worth it? of course. we had sex, and i have never regretted it. if you love someone that strongly, with all of yourself, and you're responsible, you should live every day as though it's going to be the last one of your relationship. hold on to it as tight as you can, darling, because if it's as strong as you claim, and you lose it, you will never stop regretting letting him go.
i know. it's been years, and i still cry. just be careful.
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No sweeti, I don't think your too young at all. You n your boyfriend have something special that a lot of people look for in life, don't throw it away 'cuz one day you'll regret it. Losing your virginity w/ him near your aniversary is wicked sweet. You should be lucky to have such a great relationship.
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Well, in some places the age of conduct is 18. I do think it's too young, but it's the 21st century. However, if you don't regret it, and believe you both ARE madly in love with each other, then it's all good. :)
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*Nope, your never to young to be in love! Age is just a number! It's great that you love someone so much and you have no regrets about losing your virginity! I understand that your scared because of how much you love him, but thats natural! Just don't worry about anything!* xOxO Kaela <3
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no not at all!!
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What's done is done. You sholdn't regret it and it's goo that you dont, I know plenty of people who are younger then you and have already done it to more then one person, and i've also thought that 16 was the age to at least consider/do it. So no i do not think you're to young.
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Of course not
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Oh, do I relate to you...Lol
I'm sixteen too. My boyfriend just turned eighteen. We've been together for 8 months today. Lost the virginity thing, but don't regret it. Age is a state of mind, not being. People who don't know me talk to me and guess me in my laate teens or twenties.
My boyfriend and I have the connection you and you guy seem to. Love each other with every fiber of your being? Can you picture yourself with him forever? I do and can with my guy.
As I said, age is a state of mind. If you don't think you're too young, and you're ready for these emotions - you can handle the way they make you feel - then it doesn't matter if your sixteen or sixty. Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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* i think that if u feel confident about it, its not*
<3alwayz,
*Anggie*
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Well i think your a little to young but if you honestly think that your love with him is real than go for it but you know your only teens if your love doesnt last than dont be bummed about it for too long there will probobly be other guys better than him
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Alright listen If you have a strong realtionship and it scares you somtimes then its fine..you guyz are young adults and its perfectly fine to have a relationship like what you are having..Good Luck Gurlie :D
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No , you are just about the right age and plus if you love him ( forget everybody else ) and just do what you think is right
i say stay stick with him
lOVE ASHLEY , PLEASE RATE ME
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You are NEVER to young to find love. You're just lucky you found it at your age. Sometimes it takes people forever to find the one they love. Yea, sometimes that feeling can get scary that you love someone that much that you would do anything for them. But, thats okay, its natural to feel like that when you're in love. And you guys seem like a really cute couple! Good luck with him I'm sure you'll marry him!! =P
xoxo Kourtney
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Well i guess you can love at any age but maybe having sex was a wrong mistake but just dont keep doing it-trix
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Honestly, if you know you love him... And you know he loves you, its right. 14 months is sumthing big, it's hard to find sumone who is willing to stay together for that long. So as long as you know you are getting sumthing out of this relationship, then follow your heart.
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sometimes love cant wait!!! your never too young to care about someone...its ok to be in love! age is just a number..and you'll grow up faster than you think! good luck with ur relationship!!
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