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Hey SARA! Dang I cant believe that we start skool on Monday! WOW..Anywayz..I have summin to ask you. Sara lately I have been getting depressed. Like..at the wierdest moments 2. I wanna know how to get out of it when I get them. I am scared Bcuz I take Zoloft and I still have them...whats going on? Well help...Love you babe:D (link)
I took Zoloft for almost a year in 8th grade. I stopped because they make me hide my emotions, maybe this is the same situation. You have these bursts of depression. Or maybe its not even depression, think about what is really bothering you. Love you.


Hey do guyz like gurls who where thongs more than ppl who dont? (link)
You kno, it depends on tha guy really. I mean, do what you wanna do, not what guys want you to do. I wear them because they are comfortable for me, not cuz I want tha guys. With or without, dont matter. Be yourself.


how did you know she had a kid already? Do you know us? (link)
No, you said that already in your post.


I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.

Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...

I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.

What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught" (link)
Let people know, and it would make your relationship with him much easier. Most people will understand the way you feel. If not, screw them.


hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?

~diamond~ 17 (link)
Well, talk to him? See how he reacts when you let him know how you feel. This way, you can see how he really feels about it. Try to avoid arguments unless its totally necessary.


see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!! (link)
Umm.. Make friends? Um yeah...


Where to begin? I was seeing this girl off and on for 9 months. She was "using" this 55 yr old arab guy for rides and stuff. I didnt condone of the usery but I didnt feel like it was my place to tell her how to live. After about 5 month into the relationship I moved to miami( we are in VA). She came to visit for a week and it was like a honeymoon without the marrige. Everything was great. When she came back she told me she was pregnant. I sent money up there to her and had my friend drive her to the clinic. I sent her flowers everyday for a week afterwards. So I came back home and while we were spending time toghether through much over hearing the wrong conversations I suspected there was more to her and his relationship. I was right. In short the kid wasnt mine and I was being played the whole time. the break up was awful and I am emot. wrecked. I took her back only to find out she didnt give him up. Now my head is spinning and my heart in shattered. Any advice? (link)
Umm... Wow! How old are you? Anyways, besides the point. Um, well first of all, if a chick cheats on you, then they are not worthy of your times. Second of all, if she has a kid by sumone other than you... Its her problem, not yours. Third of all, she sounds like she wants money from you for her kid. Do you want all that?? Think about it.


whats the best thing to clean ur ears with BESIDES store solution?? hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol? let me no one of the 2 plz. thank u much!
Megan (link)
The best thing would be the store bought solution but if thass a problem then just use hydrogen peroxide. Its better for you.


Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it? (link)
Everyone goes through those stages. It may occur for a long period of time. But try and get out and do things and I'm sure you'll be fine.


ok well i just got an inground pool done at my house and i do like having my friends come over and swim in it...but one day my friends just came over and expected me to ask them to come in it...then when they're done they just get out and leave and go to someone elses house to hang out..does this mean they're just using me and they're not REALLY my friends? (link)
Ooh Wee... Thass mean! Yes, I would say you need to talk to those friends or get rid of them. They are no good.


I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much! (link)
Go to your doctor and get a food chart and follow it. Thass what I do. It's fun. Eat salad whenever you get a chance.


okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!

-so confused- (link)
Tell them to stop hatin. Lol Stop being jealous


sisters mad becasue i went out witt her x boyfriend which is now again her boyfriend what do i do? (link)
Tell her to let go of the past and get over it lol!!


Me and a girl started talkin about a month ago.....but she has a boyfriend...........and i am friends with her boyfriend and me and her talked about kissing cause i really lik eher and she says she likes me but i dont want her boyfriend to find out!.........should i kiss her? or not? P.S. i really like her alot!!!!!

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Kiss her! I mean, its alright to like sumone. I know that you would feel sooo guilty but if you really like her, she'll understand! Life is short, so live it!


is it ok to call guys...my bf calls me alot...but i get really nervous to call him idk why...wat do i say...btw im a lil shy...i dont kno wat to talk about!! i get nervous to call him!! (link)
Act like hes one of your friends... Yeah you can call him of course! Call him even when you dont want to, you HAVE to get over your fears. You'll stay like that for a while (shy) but you can help it just become a phase that you are going through.


my friend is going out with this girl, he never really hangs out with her and she always hangs out with other guys! it makes me mad cause he could get a WAY better g/f! he lets her walk all over him! and when we tell him about what she does! she denys it! and tells us to watch out! it makes me so fucking mad! he deserves someone better! how do i tell him?
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That pisses me off. Let him get hurt and we'll see who was right. Just watch, he'll come crawling back to you and say you were right. Just let him get hurt. I know its hard but what other choice do you have?


Hey babe I need your advice....Theres a really nice and the hottest guy in the world that I know and he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend does he like me or no? (link)
Alright. Well, its a hard question considering that T... I mean this guy has a gurlfriend Lol. Well, do what you've been doing previously, dont change just because he just recently got a gurl. I cant tell you if he likes you, Sorry. But I can tell you that if he flirts with you even when he has a gurl, he definately is interested in you. Luv ya!


My and my friends are setting eachother on a blind date but do u know where the best places to go would be.......?Remember were only 13 LOL (link)
Wow... This is easy! When I was 13 we'd go to movies or to the mall. Just go sum place where you would go with a group of friends. Member, it doesn't matter where you are, it just depends on you. If you know how to have fun or not!


i completely forgot the html code to upload a picture onto a w/s. someone post it please! (link)
Yeah, I can help you. It's... "img src="picture.jpg"> Just replace the "picture.jpg" with the name of your picture like... Beach.jpg. There you go. Good Luck.


i have had a best friend for 3 years now...we have gone throught everything together...are 1st kisses..are ex friends...are heart breaks...u no all the best friends type of things...i recenetly got back with my ex...we have been togheter for 2 years on and off..but now its been 3 months str8..and i stil hang out with my best friend..just now i have less time since i have him and all..it seems like sometimes she gets jealous cause she says "come on u dont need ot hang out with him, he gets so annoying, how annoying u hang out with all couples" like i no if she got with the love of her life she would do the same wat should i do? i feel so bad (link)
First of all... Dont feel bad. If she isn't happy for you, then she is not a very great friend. Think about it! Also, I'm really happy for you and your man, but dont let anything get in the way. But member, hoes over bros. So consider calling her up and chillin wit her only for a day. Go do sum gurlie stuff!




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