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i need help with my boyfriend
hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?
~diamond~ 17
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u know i think he does love u and everything i guess u could say he is confused on what he wants
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things aint right if yall dont fight!! haha my lil rhyme...but yea if u dont fight evry now n then..things arent right!!!
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Well, talk to him? See how he reacts when you let him know how you feel. This way, you can see how he really feels about it. Try to avoid arguments unless its totally necessary.
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i totally know what ur going thru. DONT U HATE IT?! its like just shuttupppp already damn. but the thing is, he keeps fighting with u, meaning that ur being weak, and LETTING him fight with you. u may not see it, but even if u agrue back, that basically invites him to agrue even more. on the other hand, are u sure he isnt fighting about something worth fighting over? are u doing something thats bad for the relationship, etcetc..but if its the other case, be STRONG, dont fight back, just tell him this, [exact words]say, "CALL ME WHEN UR NOT GOING TO ARGUE, BUT TALK ABOUT IT IN A CALM WAY" and every time u guys fight, thats what u tell him and just hang up on him and DONT call him back until he calls u in a calm manner.
love kristin
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its jus the way it goes.......but if hes acting weird beware he might be cheating on you...prolly not but maybe..?
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Ok well lets start wit a quote ok a relationship can't be a sucessfull relationship without fighting." Meaning small fights just get some built up anger out and should not be taken to seriously. If however they are larger fights then the two of you should try sitting down and talking, not fighting avoid fighting. As i've stated before talking doesnt solve everything but it solves alot of things. HOpe i could help
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find a common ground between the two of you.
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Girl! tell him that you are sick of fighting..i know that when people fight they say they love that person and its might be true but just sit down and talk to him and tell him the fighting has got to stop..good luck :)
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well all good couples have fights every now and then...its normal ;) let me know if you need any advice! column: allyatyoservice <3<3
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guys are just stubborn like that... they like to start shit for no reason... dont really stress it.. if it really bothers you, just laugh in his face instead of arguing back... that will really piss him off lol :)
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Hey! Relationships hit bumpy roads sometimes. That really sucks when you have to go through it, but its not going to be a perfect relationship, I mean even married people fight, but have you ever watched what your parents do? Most parents, they talk about it and get threw it. I dont' know how your boyfriend is, but if he's yelling, try to be the calm one in the situation, because yelling makes the situation worse. But, just try talking to him and telling him how you feel, just be like "I love you and you know that, but I'm so sick of fighting, we don't need to be fighting anymore, I mean I know we'll fight every so often, but I don't want to keep fighting like we are..." Just say something like that. I hope this helps and good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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Maybe he has a reason for fighting. Are you doing something to make him angry? If you're the one starting things, maybe you should try to look through things from his point of view and try to understand. If it's him starting them, you should not give into his arguments. Stay calm and talk things through. The best thing to do is to probably talk it out with him. Tell him how you feel and hopefully things will get better. If he says he loves you, I'm sure he does. Just give it some time, work things out with him and I'm sure things will be okay.
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every now and then great couples have their fights and arguments. fights can be good, because once theyre settled, you can love them more for sitting there and compromising. as long as he love you and you know it, then dont worry about it. no relationship is absolutely perfect
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