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Question Posted Thursday July 15 2004, 5:34 pm

my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!

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Additional info, added Thursday July 15 2004, 5:50 pm:
my parents werent home!.

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xXaShXx07 answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:07 am:
well if you are being abused by your brother you need to tell your parents and if they dont do anything about it tell an aunt or an uncle bcuz no1 has the right to abuse you like that...i hope your okay! if it happens again when ur mom n dad arent home i would go to a neighbors house and knock on the door and try to get away from your brother...if u have another question just drop it in my box!
xox ash xox

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blondekisses answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:18 pm:
this is really serious n u should really tell someone that u kno that u can trust! wen ur parents came home didnt they even ask about what happened to ur face?? (if it was bleeding) well n/eway he has no right to be hitting u if u didnt do anythin to him. next time he does it call the cops dont be afraid to call them bc in the long run it'll get better after u call the police or tell ur parents or someone! well good luck with whatever u choose to do and please please please keep me updated jus drop me a line in my inbox! thanks!! and GOOD LUCK! <3
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RainWindFireIce answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:23 am:
Do your parents know? If they don't you need to tell them as soon as possible. Where were they when this happened anyway?

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jinx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 11:40 pm:
tell sum 1 immediatley!!! that is considered abuse and it is illegal!!!
~i hope i helped u~
~jInX~
~*KATIE*~

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jOrDaN04 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 10:54 pm:
tell your parents when they get home?

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xOBaByKaY answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:05 pm:
*Tell your parents right away! You don't deserve to be treated like that! What he is doing is wrong and illegal! If you don't tell someone he might think its okay to do it again, and it's not! If it happens again you might want to call the cops because if you don't you might be in a lot of danger and something serious could happen to you! I know it might be hard to do since he is your brother and all but its for the best! gOoD lUcK!!!* xOxO Kaela <3

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chelseaw285 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:20 pm:
tell your parents!! thats abuse and brothers dont do that kind of crap. even if youre parents wernt home.. call them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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**Beanie** answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:17 pm:
You need ot tell soemone right away! this is called abuse and it is illegal! tell your parents or a loved one immediatly because he needs to eb stopped before he causes you permanent damage...

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:08 pm:
tell u rparents when they get home...but when he does that dont just stay there...man if it was me...i would hit back! shiu...n everyone here knows that if they were in ur place they would like fight bak...so i'm tellin u if he hits u hit him back as hard as u can!!! xoxo effy
anything else then holla at yr gurl

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 7:56 pm:
tell ur parents when they get home! but you cant call the cops on ur brother..they cant like arrest him or anything because technically thats not a felony..*hope i helped* <3/Dakota

[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My InBox]

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dancer_freak05 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 7:40 pm:
Kick his ass harder. Nah..... Im joking.... Just tell your parents or something and they can straighten the little punk out

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S_C answered Thursday July 15 2004, 7:39 pm:
it's called abuse(not trin to say that in a rude tone)

u need to inform authority whether it be cops parents or a friends parents, or a totally trusted nayber!!!

he needs to be taken care of, maybe he has anger manegment, maybe not, but sumthin caused him to, IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT, just let sum1 in higher authority know, and he will be taken care of, u have to do this for your protection!!!!

also, is he old enuff to know wut he's doin is wrong, if so u need to let sum1 know IMMEDIATELY

so they can see the bruises and so they'll believe u

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Lizzy answered Thursday July 15 2004, 7:32 pm:
Call the police, don't hesitate, that is so against the law if you aren't hitting him back. Just make sure you don't touch him and call the police, show them your bruises, no one should treat you like that
Lizzy

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Here-To-Help answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:49 pm:
How old is he and how old are you?? You should really tell someone and make sure you're not left home alone with him...you don't know what could happen...

Good Luck
*hug*

<3 Gessyka

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KangarooGrl answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:29 pm:
hey well you shoudl tell your parents the same thing use to happen to me and i know how it feels to be hit like that. If your parents wont help tell someone who you trust and can help you..
<3 Me

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marksbitch answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:17 pm:
What you described is family abuse, probably stemming from anger problems. AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (before your injuries fade) show your parents what he's done to you and explain how he acts when they aren't home. If they don't respond well to the situation, speak to your guidance counselor at school & try to get him in an anger management class.

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Mackenzie answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:59 pm:
Oh, gosh, Hun!! I know you said your parents weren't home, but do they know about this?? If not, you MUST tell them the VERY next time you see them! This is something VERY serious!! Your brother has MAJOR problems if he thinks that this kind of behavior is acceptable. That is sooo disgusting. I'm so sorrie!! You don't deserve this. Between you and your parents, you MUST put a stop to this! This can't continue!! I can't MAKE you do something you don't want to, I'm just trusting you to be smart and courageous and make the right decision! If you EVER need to talk.. my email is [LovesPixieKanDi@Yahoo.com] and my [AIM : SimpLy x GiRL]. I wish you the very best! I'm sure things will begin to look up for you. Just do the right thing, keep your head up, and seek help.. for you.. AND your brother. Take care! And be in touch!!

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DANIELLESadvice3239417 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:52 pm:
If I were you I would call the cops so I sugggest you should! That is abusing and dangerous

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kitty143 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:51 pm:
its ok babe next time just call the cops u can do it

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Ashley answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:41 pm:
Where were your parents? If they are there then talk to them. If he does this when your parents aren't home its time to call 911. You don't know what he may do next.

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DorkyJay27 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:39 pm:
Tell your parents,Or someone you know that can make him stop. B/c that's just wrong, he shouldnt do stuff to you like that. If he does somethin like that again then I would call the cops if I were you.b/c that's abuse, and technically that's ileagal.

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jbdreamer answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:39 pm:
Where are your parents? Talk to them about the seriousness of the situation. Then they can decide what to do about it, and if police should be involved.

Next time he attacks you it could be worse. He is abusing you, don't just take it and then do nothing!

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Rockwell888 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:38 pm:
First of all, why would your brother hit you? Is he on cocaine/crack or something? You should call the cops! It's not safe living with a brother like that! Rate me.

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xokristabelle answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:37 pm:
You need to call the cops next time. I know it's hard but you have to...what if he accidentally kills you?! call a hotline (search google for crisis hotline)...how long has he been doing this for? if more than a year you might need counseling too. good luck and hang in there!

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allyorlo21 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:37 pm:
what your brothers doing to you isnt right and you need to tell someone about it before it happens again. i know hes your brother and it could make things akward but you need to tell someone.

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