I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how?
LoViny0ux914 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 7:57 pm: idk if telling ur dad 2 divorce her is the right way 2 start things..maybe you should try talking to her first...with your dad there. tell them tht no one can ever take the place of ur mother..so dont try. tell her wut bothers u about her n if she expects to have a good relationship w. ur family then she needs to get herself together n make more of an effort to be all she can be!! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
flip answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:35 pm: talk to your dad privately and tell him wat you think, and try to staighten things out with your step mom, cuz i have the same problem. [ flip's advice column | Ask flip A Question ]
marksbitch answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:15 pm: My dad is dating a 26 year old, 10 years older than me. At first I had a hard time dealing with it, but honestly, telling your dad to divorce her won't help the situation. You want to learn to DEAL with her, not make things worse. Just explain to your dad she makes you uncomfortable & that you DON'T want her to replace your mom. If that doesn't work, try some family counseling. (your school can suggest a clinic nearby) [ marksbitch's advice column | Ask marksbitch A Question ]
Ashley answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:08 pm: Sorry to say you can't tell your dad to divorce her. Also think!, Don't you want him to be happy? If I were you I would talk to your "Stepmother" and tell her how you feel. You both might be able to come up with some type of agreement. [ Ashley's advice column | Ask Ashley A Question ]
**Beanie** answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:06 pm: If your dad is happy wiht ehr then let it alone.. If it is truely bothering you that this women is pretending to be your mom then sit down wiht her and tell her how it makes you feel. Tell ehr that although you are haopy for her and your dad, you would prefer it if she treated you more like a friend and less like a mom. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her about this then talk to your dad.. he'll be able to talk to her. If you dont feel comfortable doing this eihter, then try writing a note or a letter to either "parent". tell them how you feel. that always works for me...
Congradulations to your dad and your new step mom. I Hope this advice has helped
Mackenzie answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:03 pm: First of all, you generally can't tell your Dad to divorce her, sorrie to say. I don't have a Stepmother, so I'm sorrie, but I can't relate to what you're going through. To be honest, I'm not sure what to tell you to do, all I can suggest is talking to HER about it. Just let her know how you feel, and perhaps you two can come to some kind of mutual agreement. I hope things work out. Good luck! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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