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I am 17 f and my boyfriends friend always wants to talk to me about sex and he always tells me how much he loves me and needs me in his life but he knows that i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend is like his best friend I dont know what to do cuz I like my boyfriends friend but only as a friend do u think i should tell my boyfriend what his friend is saying to me? or should i just let his friend talk to me the way he does?
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wow this is a sticky situation but if I was you I would first talk to my boyfriends friend and tell him that since your dating his best friend you can keep cannot keep telling that he loves you. You value the friendship between you two but that's all it can be is good friends but NOTHING else. And if that doesn't work then tell your boyfriend but it won't be easy bc the friend could dein (sp?) all of it and your boyfriend may have to choose between his girl and best friend. I hope this helps and good luck !
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don't do either. you don't want to interfere in their friendship no matter what. if your bf's friend is making u feel uncomfortable, tell him to stop. then if he duznt stop, get up and walk away and start talking to sumbody else.
hope i helped, <3 Niki Lyn (plz rate me!)
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if his friend is making you uncomfortable and saying this he isnt being a friend to your b/f let alone a friend to you..tell your b/f..you and him will be better off with this guy out of your life..if you dont want to take that extreme measure then tell the guy you dont like him and you want to stay with your b/f...
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Tell your boyfriend's friend that he's putting you in an akward position everytime he talks to you about sex or tells you how he loves you. Ask him to stop, and if he doesn't tell your boyfriend about it, because he isn't being a very good "best friend"
Hope I helped :)
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Maybe you should talk to your boyfriends friend first .. and if he doesn't stop then tell your boyfriend what he's doing .. tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable .. Good luck!:-)
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My personal opinion would be to tell your boyfriend what he is saying because sooner or later ur boyfriend will find out that hes talkin dirty to you and then hell prob think ur cheating on him with his best friend!!! So come clean and see if theres a way yall can talk this out and make it clear to the best friend that u like him as a friend and that u rnt comfortable with him talking to you like that and it doesnt do anything for you so it needs to stop...hope it helps let me know!!
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thats an incredibly not cool situation that guy is putting you in. i know if i was in your shoes, i would say something to him about how you don't like him like that AT ALL ( make sure there is NO point in that conversation where he would think he has the slightest chance) and how your boyfriend and his best friend wouldnt appreciate the whole lady-stealing. if he doesnt stop, definetly tell your boyfriend how uncomfortable you are in that situation. guarantee, your boyfriend will probably re-think who he hangs around with. but DEFINENTLY put a stop to that NOW!!
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If I were you I'd talk to my boyfriends friend and tell him he cant say these things to me, and that I dont have feelings like that for him, and that isnt not going to be anything more then jsut friends with us. And if worse comes to worse and if he doesnt stop then tell your boyfriend. I hope I helped <3 Jesi
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You should tell ur boyfriend about it.
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