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stuck between to great guys
hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P
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Well, I would tell Matt and if Matt gets angry then you should go to Tyler. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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Try to go with Matt first,'n if it doesn't work out with him, then turn to Tyler.He said no matter who you choose he'd be by your side.Hope I helped!Good Luck!
-tori
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If it was me in that position, I would try thinqs with Matt first, jus because u dont kno how he`s qonna react, nd you`ll jus needa try thinqs out. nd if thay don`t work out with Matt, qo to Tyler, he said he`ll be by your side no matter what.. so he`ll be waitinq for you. So that way, you`ll qet to have a chance with both boys, nd no one will qet really upset bout it.
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this is going to be really heard... i mean there are pros and cons of being with both guys... matt is good beccause your mom actually approves of you dating him, but then again it should be easy for you to convince your mom to let you date tyler because, well hes only a year older than you. In my opinion, from the sounds of it it seems as though you like tyler more, because he sounds a lot more understanding,etc. Whereas, you already have gone out with matt and, why did you guys break up? a lot of the time, if it didn't work out the first time, it's just not going to work out overall. and im guessing that you guys broke up for the summer because you wanted to be able to party and fool around, or maybe one of you were going on vacation or something... but if you guys broke up in the summer because of that, he sounds like more like a fling opposed to a good long lasting boyfriend. i think that you should explain to matt, but be sincere about it and just make him understand what you're thinking... go for tyler! i hope i helped!:D good luck
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I think you should tell Matt and see how he reacts, because if he acts the way you think he will then the obvious choice is Tyler because he seems more mature, also I don't know how strict your mom is when it comes to dating, but if you explain to your mom that Tyler is very nice and treats you right, she might just agree with you...
Hope I helped!
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