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i`m 14 yr old from Mass... ive been thru anythen nd everythen. ive been thru cuttinq.. styll qoin thru it..ive had tha whole love thinq.. tha best friend betrayal thinq .. so i can basically help you wit anythen you need.
E-mail: PuNkPrinCesS_x3@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mass.
Age: 15
AIM: PieCezS Of mE x3
Member Since: July 27, 2004
Answers: 18
Last Update: July 27, 2004
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ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him? (link)
you should tell him u cheated on him, it wood be better cominq from you, so u can tell him honestly instead of someone else tellinq it twisted nd fuckd up.


I don't know what to do..im not fat.. but im going to be someday if i continue my eating habits... i wake up in the morning and I say okay no junk food 2day.. but by the end of the night im eating a bowl of ice cream.. or i hate a whole bunch of peanuts or sumthing.. i try to maintain my wait by drinking alot of water but im afraid thats not going to be enough to keep me the way i am... I bike ride with my friends sometimes... and i only go to the gym when my mom wants to but she hardly goes... i dunno what to do.. how i can tell myself that im not going to eat junk food and actually stick with it!.. plus i think i eat out of boredum.. how can i stop that...( i mean im sitting in front of the tv and i automatically go into the kitchen for food)

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u need to find sumthyn to occupy ur time .. it seems lyk when u qet bored u reach for food.. for example .. u said u sit in front of tha t.v nd then qo for food. find sumthyn to keep ur mind off of beinq hunqry .. or when u do eat .. try to find sumthyn thats qood but its healthy.


can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something? (link)
maybe ur depressed ova a certain boy .. or its bcuz most teenaqers qo thru a whole depression staqe .. its teenaqe hormones .. perfectly natural.


I am VERY picky about what I eat... I won't eat most meats... only Peperoni on my pizza (if i have to) and hamburgers. I like junk food ALOT and I eat alot of it... I won't eat most foods other people eat. I have alot of problems when I stay the night with friends because I usually don't like what they are having for dinner.

I am about 5'3-5'4 and i only weigh about 135... it may sound like a lot .. but i have alot of muscle too...

What kinds of foods should I try eating so I will stay healthy?

Is there any way to make myself like more healthy foods? (link)
u can try foods that are low carb but are like candy nd stuff lyk that. so theyre foods that u wood usually eat.. but ur losinq weiqht at tha same time.


hey im a 14 yr. old girl and i use to the jet thingy on my pool to get an orgasm, is that safe?? (link)
i thynk its safe, but i thynk u miqht be a little younq to be worryinq bout orqasms. but yes its jus water.. perfectly safe.


well im VERY big on track like i have ran it for 5 or 6 yrs now. i run for AAU (amateur Atheletic Union) its a summer league and u go thru a current amount of meets that lead up to the junior olympics which tons of scouts are watchin u.but every yr i ALWAYS get to the last meet which leads into the junior olympics but when i get on the line everything jus goes wrong.either im uncomfortable which is a bad sign when u r sittin in the blocks. or i jus cant get my mind off the crowd i dont kno how to block them out n it always messes me up cuz thats who i listen to i jus hear the crowd when i should be focusing on the track what do i do to get it off my mind (link)
when u r in a sport as competitive as track, you hafta be able to qet ur mind in a certain mind frame. u hafta be able to focus only on tha track nd tha speed ur runninq. i kno its nerve-rackinq to be in front of a whole crowd runninq lyk crazy. but jus focus on tha finish line. jus practice settinq ur mind frame. nd u shood be all set from there.


im bored... what should i do?? Quick b 4 i hurt my brain from jus sitting here! (i have a.d.h.d.) (link)
you should have somethinq handy to keep urself busy. cook sumthyn, that`s always what i do when i`m bored, i eat, or play a qame, talk online to someone interestinq.


me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'( (link)
honestly, i know you don`t want to, but you should tell your boyfriend. honesty is key, and jus explain to him exactly what you told me. because i`m sure u would rather him find out from you than from someone else when thay cood mix up details, because u kno how qossip qets around, it qets all twisted, so let him hear it from you first, nd jus see how it qoes from there, jus tell him exactly what u told me, he should be able to understand. but u should have never cheated on him in tha 1st place if u loved him that much...i`m not tryinq to criticize.. i`m tellinq u that`s what he`s qonna say to you.


hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P (link)
If it was me in that position, I would try thinqs with Matt first, jus because u dont kno how he`s qonna react, nd you`ll jus needa try thinqs out. nd if thay don`t work out with Matt, qo to Tyler, he said he`ll be by your side no matter what.. so he`ll be waitinq for you. So that way, you`ll qet to have a chance with both boys, nd no one will qet really upset bout it.


I had sex with my boyfriend 2 nights ago (4 times)and yesterday afternoon i started bleeding in that area. I'm not supposed to get my period for another week .. and im still bleeding..

can sex cause u to start your period early?
or is it because i was having sex for only the second time and i got my cherry popped?

why am i still bleeding? (link)
if u only have sex for tha 2nd time ur cherry can styll pop. by tha 3rd time u have sex u shoodnt be bleedinq. but it cood be because u qot ur period a lil bit early. jus keep usinq tampons or what not until tha bleedinq stops.


Hey everyone. I'm a 16 yr old female and I've been living with a weight issue all of my life. Both of my parents were big people and of course I ended up the same as them. I've been teased a lot my whole life because of it, people do it without realizing how much it hurts. Right now I'm about 5'7-5'8 and weigh about 190lbs. I really want to lose weight but every time I try, I can't keep up the motivation. I try not eating junk food, I don't drink soda, but I still cant manage to lose the weight. I walk a lot, but the problem is I guess that I don't have people that are behind me in this. My mom keeps buying junk food, and if it's here I'll end up eating it and feel bad for it afterwards. I really need help in doing this alone but I don't know how. I'm hoping someone can help me before it gets worse. I'm hoping to lose a significant amount of weight maybe before next summer. I rate also, thank you so much. (link)
losinq weiqht is always a tuff issue... bcuz its not as easy as u want it to be. but theres so many ways to lose it. u jus hafta have tha riqht motivation nd stride to do it. if u really wana do it... then low carb diets work awesome. u can take 2 walks a day, while beinq on tha diet. there`s so many ways. jus tell ur mom to stop buyinq junk food. tell her ur serious bout losinq weiqht nd u want her to start buyinq low carb stuff.. even tho thay taste horrible. its better than nuthyn.. do not qoin to starvinq urself or anythen .. jus stay healthy. but jus put urself in tha riqht mind frame .. nd push urself to be serious bout losinq weiqht nd u can do it.


its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?

please answer....i always rate well :)

-britski- (link)
if you qet a feelinq that he`s lyk u back.. then u shood open up nd tell him.. u cood end up reqrettinq it sooner or later .. ur not ronq for makinq an assumption. u shoold jus talk to tha quy bout it , that`s tha only true way to tell.. nd if ur a shy person talk to him online or sumthyn.. but there`s always sumthyn u can do bout it.. jus qo for it .. nd thinqs will turn out as thay meant to be.


I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
help please? (link)
u shood liqhten up.. if there`s nuthyn ronq wit u.. u shoodn`t be so shy. it sux always feelinq lonely... nd there`s always someone for everyone.. if u open up to people..then u`ll find someone sooner rather than later.


i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
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no no no .. if u havent had sex there`s no way u cooda been preqnant .. when u have ur period tha 1st couple of times .. it`s very messed up.. it cood not come for lyk another month. tha 1st nd 2nd periods are very weird... thay cood be lyk 3 weeks apart or even lyk 3 days apart .. so u can never expect when it comes back. but jus be prepared. it comes unexpectedly.


k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...

~*NINA*~ (link)
okay well, i can tell u that i qo thru/went thru what ur qoin thru for a whole year. nd it sux. tha dude u like is playinq mind qames wit u, because if hes qivinq u a reason to make u thynk that he likes u, nd then hes an asshole to you, hes jus tryinq to play wit ur mind. nd hes tryinq to make u thynk that he likes u to keep u likinq him. but he`s qonna tell u all he wants .. lyk "i thynk bout u all tha time" or .. "were so close... we have a 'unique' kinda relationship" .. or w.e .. nd he`ll do that to keep u attached .. but u shood def. ditch him.. he`ll only cause u depression or make u extremely mellow.. ya he miqht make u happy sometimes.. but u will be mellow 10x more than happy. so jus move on .. he`s not worth it.


Hi she I met this gurl at a place called Teen Camp , but see we became really good friends practilly best friends, but she lives in TN. My other friend who used to be my best friend is made at me bc all I talk about is my other Best friend..... What doI do???
PLZ HELP (link)
you sho0d tell your otha best friend, to not qet upset about you talkinq bout your otha best friend. jus tell her that it`s not lyk u don`t lyk her as much. it`s jus that you can have other friends too. and she shouldn`t be so jealous. nd if she qets mad bout that, then she obviously isn`t it as qood of a friend as u think.


ok there is this person i REALLY like and we have known each other for like 2 yrs now.well last summer this person asked me if i would ever go out wit them but i said no b/c at that time i didnt really think much of being more then friends.but now i cant stand be be away from them i think about them all the time and they do kno how i feel but like they are on and off one week they will like me then the next they dont but when we are alone its like we are together but they always end up havin a gf how do they really feel about me idk cuz they are so on and off i cant tell but then they are always like yeah i like u when we break up then me and u will get together well it still doesnt happen (link)
okay, well i`ll tell you that i know exactly how u feel.. i went thru tha same exact thinq for a year nd four months, beqinninq in last summer. nd it`s not worth it. nd i kno u dont wana hear this, but u hafta move on. bcuz dude`s lyk that are only qonna make u depressed nd feel so mellow, nd at times he`ll make u feel happy, but tha happiness won`t last, nd tha dude you`re really likinq is a doq. whether he wants to admit it or not, he`s playinq mind qames with you, nd trust me you don`t want that, it sux biq time. so i say you should move on, even tho that`s probly wat u don`t wana do, but it`s what u shood do. dude`s lyk him don`t deserve a chick lyk u. ur too qood.


Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks. (link)
Okay, well 1.) you shouldn`t worry so much about what people think. 2.) if that`s who you are--a person who will do their best to make anyone lauqh, then stay that way, because its a qreat personality trait to have in a person.




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