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me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'(
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hes ur everything? wut wus he to you when u were cheating on him.. you oviously werent thinking too much of how he'd feel while u were out doing ur shit and its something u oviously once wanted so its kinda sumthing ur gunna hafta deel with if he finds out.. shit happens
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if yew cheated on him den yew dun relle like him as much as yew think yew do. Also known as fake love. I know alot of ppl tht r in fake love. Yer in fake love unless yew cheated on him as part of a dare or if yew were stoned or drunk wen yew cheated on him. But if dat wuz da reason , den he shuld undastand .. bc den yew culdn't relle help it. `nd if yew 2 went out for 2 yearz den he shuld love yew enuff to understand y yew did it and forgive yew. `Nd if he dusn't..den its just not ment 2 b..hope i helped ya :) rate me plz.
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Well i can tell that you are upset and i can also tell u love him and u have to define what he does that u dont like it could be a bunch of things-if its something that is illegal then my advice would be to talk to him about it and tell him how much u care about him and how much u want to be with him but what he does really bothers you and u need to tell him that u did something with someone else cause wouldnt u want him to tell u if he did something with someone??-take it from me i dont do drugs but my boyfriend did and he sold them he got into alot of trouble with it and he loved me but i wouldnt go out with him unless he stopped now weve been together for 2 years and hes been clean for that long...So talk to him and explain how much u love him and that u dont want to be on and off u want to be with him and no 1 else-if u can prove that to him n talk to him about his issues then maybe u can help him to get help and he will thank u in the long run for sticking by him like i said i dont know what his problem is but if u want to talk more IM me on AIM @ babycakes9357 and i promise i will help u figure this out hope i helped on here if like to talk to you more though i really think i can help...hope everything gets better for you!! xo *Sam
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Wow-e...OKay hunny look. I know you love this guy to DEATH but one thing you dont know is that trust is the main thing in a relationship without trust you have no relationship...i think you better tell him the truth and if he dumps you then he really didnt love you in the first place but if you tell him and he understands and you guys get through it then he is very loyal.
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you have to talk to him. like, you have to tell him how much you HATE what he's doing, and you HAVE TO tell him that you cheated on him, explaining exactly what you did with this other person so he can rate how bad it really was. Also, if you have the ability to cheat on him, and if its on and off, it's only your mind tellling you that he is the one for you, it's not your heart talking. after you talk to him, he may break it off with you, but then after that, don't try to get back together with him, keep yourself single and look around, you may notice ppl and things that you didn't notice before. believe me, on and off relationships never work out in the end, and there is someone out there that is going to be PERFECT for you, you just have to be strong, break yourself apart from this guy and move on. it will all turn out for the best, but it will take time. i hope i helped!:D good luck
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you just need to talk to him, and tell him how u feel (ahhh cheesy fo sheezy well anyways,) and that u need to spend more time togetrher, cuz ur drifting apart. if ur thinking of being together for a long time, and he really is "the one" then catch him, b4 he's gone 2 far.
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honestly, i know you don`t want to, but you should tell your boyfriend. honesty is key, and jus explain to him exactly what you told me. because i`m sure u would rather him find out from you than from someone else when thay cood mix up details, because u kno how qossip qets around, it qets all twisted, so let him hear it from you first, nd jus see how it qoes from there, jus tell him exactly what u told me, he should be able to understand. but u should have never cheated on him in tha 1st place if u loved him that much...i`m not tryinq to criticize.. i`m tellinq u that`s what he`s qonna say to you.
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I'm sorry you cheated on him but why would you do that if this guy is your everything and you love him so much? That doesnt make very much sense... I honestly think if you tell your boyfriend, he'll want to end the relationship but if you feel like you should, then be completely honest with him! Tell him everything and why you did it.. hopefully you were drunk! Good luck with your boyfriend!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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Depending on what you did with this other guy you should talk to ur boyfriend about it..tell him if he loved u he wud try n forgive you..obviously say sorry and tell him no one cud ever take his place and u have no clue why u did that.. Also try telling him that you dont want the two years of emotions to be gone..hope i helped and good luck<3
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i dont kno if you'll want to do this but you should tell him what happened and why it happened (because he was never around) and you should ask him if he can take more time to be with you so it wont happen again..and if you tell him he won't have tofind out from somebody else cuz that'd be much worse xox hope i helped
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