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why do people hate me???
Okay so i'm not the sweetest one in the bunch. And please don't tell me it will change or my fav... make or find new friends. I've tried waiting for it to change and making new friends which doesn't work out either. I think I'm going to delete my myspace because no guy ever talks to me or anything so what's the point? I'm just really sick of guys not liking me. It makes me so mad. I try to make them like me but girls arent suppose to do that anyways. i'm getting tired of people telling me I'm pretty. If I'm so pretty than I would have a boyfriend by now of at least guys would like me. Okay so I'm not 15 or 16. i'm 14 and a half. One year doesn't count. i'm sick of seeing ugly girls with guys. It makes me wanna puke. How did they get a hott guy anyways. They're ugly. I hate to be a immature but I want to die. no there isn't much more to life than guys. Not to me! Guys are like all I ever think about. I just don't understand. i'm tired of waiting for this. I want guys to like me now! It's no fair. Every other ugly girl has a boyfriend. I just really don't understand. I hate school. I hate me. I hate the GUYS that don't pay any attention to me. I'm not fat. I weigh 100! I'm not that ugly. God! Just someone please help me understand why this is happening to me?
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Well, contrary to popular belif, looks arent everything. I'm sure you're very pretty and I'm sure guys have been interested in you before, but it all depends on how you put yourself out there. Guys like a chase not an easy catch. If you're throwing yourself out there and basically saying you'll take anything that will take you, its like a big red flag to guys that you dont have any respect for yourself, and that you just want a relationship just to have one and not for the right reasons. Also, things like this will attract the wrong kinds of guys to you. The ones that will use you and then leave you. Also, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Have you and your best friend ever disagreed on how cute a guy was? I'm sure you have. Just because you don't think they're pretty doesnt mean that they arent. You're entitled to your opinions but you shouldnt judge. That's not a very attractive quality to have. Guys want a compassionate girl who is genuine and nice and down to earth, not a girl who will pass judgement. You want your guy to feel comfortable around you to be himself. He wont if he feels like he's being judged. So you dont want to come off that way. I know you've probably heard this all before.. but you're still so long. Theres so many years to have so many dates and find so many different types of guys so when you're older you can decide the type of guy to marry, just let things happen, focus on being happy with yourself first, and find something you really love. Don't become dependent on a relationship for personal happiness. Because that will backfire in the long run.
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I'm sorry but like the last girl said, that is not very nice and also it sounds like you are very jealous of the other girls. I am sure you have good intentions, but the stuff you are saying is not going to get you any guy. Sure, guys care about looks. But the guys that will REALLY care about you do not. If you act nice and like you care also they will like you. And how can you say they are UGLY?!?!? It may sound kinda corny by now, but everyone is pretty. Or at least has the means to be pretty. Most people who arent good looking usually piles makeup on their face.. and guys dont dig making out with makeup... its kinda gross. And the people who DO have unfortunate acne or facial features, that doesnt make them ugly. teenagers all go through awkward years. Hey, I wouldnt be surprised if you got a big pimple every once in a while or a batch of acne. It doesnt make you bad in side. YOUR attitude, though, is NOT going to get you ANYWHERE!!! No offense, but maybe if you stop trying so hard the guys will like you more. I had a VERY hard time a few years ago - your age - with friends and boyfriends. I was trying too hard to be someone I wasnt, I was trying too hard to be popular and pretty, and I ended up turning mean to people I used to like.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and love yourself. I am not saying YOU are ugly, but you should think before you call others that. And caring guys like girls that are THEMSELVES!!!
HOpe I HeLPed!!!!! ACe
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it sounds to me like your just going through a bad period right now. i know what you're trying to say that not the best looking girls are getting all the guys. its either because they just have a great personality or they're total sluts and guys know the girl will do anything to them with out the girl caring. i'm sure you're not ugly but with a low self esteem its not going to get you anywhere, seriously. i've felt like this recently because i have friends who are kinda slutty and thats just not me and they're always the one who get the guys. but i learned that a great guy will find me. and putting other people down is not going to make you feel better about yourself. be outgoing and funny.keep your chin up and you'll be fine. i hope i helped :]
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you're sounding very shallow right now, who are you to decide whos ugly& whos not? maybe they have something you don't, like a decent personality, so try to be a nice girl& not a bitch whos completely full of themselves& then you might not have any problems. :)
EDIT; you asked for advice& I gave you some, end of story. I don't care if you like it.
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