The answer below is me wrong. It's actually from You Spin Me Right Round by Billy Idol.

No one can really tell another person what love is, or how they may love someone. It is truly undescribable because everyone has different experiences of falling in love. It is true that for someone you love, you will care deeply for them and will be very passionate towards them. It's being there for that person and supporting them through whatever may come their way. It's being happy for them no matter what. There are different kinds of love however. The way you love your parents or best friend is most certainly not the same way you love your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, whatever. I really do believe in soulmates though. I believe in this because a lot of people do not realize that you don't really love with your heart, you love with your soul and mind. You feel connected with this person in a way. When they're not there with you it feels almost unnatural and you feel like you lost a part of you. You accept this person for who they are. Many wonder why they call it "falling" in love. I personally think it is because when you fall like trip, it is unexpected and you don't see it coming and love is the exact same way. You never think you will fall in love with someone, it just happens, and that is the most exiting part of it. I will tell you that love can hurt, deeply. It will not always be a blissful time. There will be lots of different emotions and feelings going on. There comes a time when you may wonder if it is wrong or right and things start to get blurry, confusion is very common. I believe that you will always love someone even if you're not with them anymore, you just learn to live without them. To love someone you have to be somewhat mature because you cannot be selfish, you cater to their needs and desires. When you're with that person or even just thinking of them, it's like the whole world stops, and at that very moment, they're all that matters. I really hope I helped :]

I'm the same age as you and I dealt with this last year. My confidence should have gone up because my appearance improved(I got my braces off) so that was a little boost but it didnt last. There were so many things that were wrong in my life that I just focused on that and sulked. I forgot how to be the funny, outgoing, fun girl I once was. I was lost and basically gave up. I thought that if I wasn't the most popular in school that I had nothing. But this year I realized that how would I ever become the most popular if I didn't improve the way I acted? If I were to just remain the girl I was last year, nothing would have changed. I did a lot of soul searching last year and realized what had to be done. At the end of last year, I realized that it was a BAD year to say the least. So I said to myself, this year is GOING to be good, I know I can do it. It was incredibly hard to overcome the feelings and insecurities that I dealt with last year but after a little while you get the hang of it. Just because you're going through a hard time right now doesn't mean it will last. As far as sticking out in the group of your friends, I would say to be funny and charismatic because people are always drawn to someone like that. You want to be known right? So give your opinion on discussions, BE A PART OF THE GROUP. Just don't sit there. Migrate to different people throughout the night, mingle as much as possible. I really really hope I helped. I have faith in you and I know you can do it :]

I really dont think it matters. You're both in highschool, so I don't see a problem. The only thing is if she's not very mature since she is a freshman and all but I wish you all the luck! So go for it. Hope I helped :]

I dont think I can give you too much advice on your acne, you're doing all the right things. I'm sure you know never to wash your face more than twice a day. Honestly, there's not much you can do for your teeth, don't drink a lot of coffee or smoke, it'll only make them less white. Look up makeup styles on google, you'll find tonsss of options especially videos on smokey eyes. I CAN help you with your clothes though :] Shop at Forver 21 = heaven. Literally, they have everything especially the style that you're going for. Also try Charlotte Russe and Mandees, even Macys. They are all fairly reasonable as far as prices go. Hope I helped :]

I have to agree with the advicenator below me. I too really enjoy and appreciate this question. I know that it seems almost impossible to be your own person especially in highschool, but trust me you can do it. Myself for example, is kind of your average teenage girl. HOWEVER, I do NOT wear hollister or abercrombie, I buy tasteful clothes that I like and suit me and my personality. I (usually) type in the full english language besides the occasional "OMG" or "LOL". However I dont see this as a huge problem, it's just typing for god sakes. Tote bags are so overrated, carry around a bag that you love! It will make you feel so confident knowing that you like it. Manicure's I dont see as a big deal, it's just kind of natural for a girl to want to get her nails done, its a time when a girl can truly be a girl and just relax. I am guilty of side bangs but I have them because I LIKE them on ME! Not because the most hip celebrities have them. I learned that if a certain look on a celebrity or another girl looks great on them, it may just not be your style. Scrunching/straightening your hair is your own personal preference, how your hair and makeup looks(your overall appearance) can really boost your confidence. I have never wanted a tiffany bracelet. Why? Because everyone has them! Same goes for the standard Hollister tee shirts. Why would I want to be seen with the same look as every other girl out there? Never owned converse, not a fan. I wear makeup and mascara, but like I said, it's totally up to you and a personal preference. If it looks good on you, why not? People exaggerate the whole extra letters. When typing, I use extras to show how I would actually say it as if I was alking in person. People just do it for the fun of it, and honestly it can get kind of annoying.

As far as the "popular crowd" goes, it is sad to admit but let's face it, the most important aspect of highschool is fitting in and being well liked. The problem with this, is that people most likely girls but also guys, go to the extreme. They lie, become two faced, fake etc etc. They begin to lose their identity and who they really are. It is hard to find really good friends these days because one day you could be so close of good friends and the next you're friendship is over. And you may not have done anything to deserve it. So many people are utterly immature it makes me sick. No one has their own opinion or say, they follow what they're friends say just so they aren't singled out. But that's not me. I say how I feel and I don't care who disagrees. People will actually respect you more for having your own opinion rather than being the replica of everyone else. I am a sophomore in highschool, just turned fifteen, but am probably more mature than the seniors in my school. I use big sounding words, I make sarcastic jokes, blah blah blah. However, I am a girly girl and do enjoy wearing makeup and have a deep love for fashion. But I don't talk about my friends or people I like behind their backs because I know better. It's okay to be you and I know that it can be extremely hard to be yourself in situations like this but it will be worth it, I promise. I really hope I helped answering your question :]

I would definetely say 1.foundation because it's hard to choose your exact shade at a Walgreens without trying it on. 2.Lipstick & 3.concealer(especially eye concealer). So you pretty much had the right idea. They're all on here for the same reason, you can't try them on at drugstores and the most important and happen to be the most expensive usually! You can get pretty good mascara and eyeliner at drugstores. Try Maybelline, their mascaras and eyeliners are great. Hope I helped :]

The thing is, is that you can indulge in once awhile. It only becomes a problem when it's a daily thing. If you eat oreos, cake, burger king, etc. everyday, then you're guarenteed to have problems. You do have the right idea however about taking in small amounts. If you deprive yourself from junk food for too long, then you'll wind up just going crazy next time you get the chance to eat it. So it's better to eat junk once in awhile but don't think just because you haven't eaten it in so long means that you can eat as much as you want. A diet should be a lifestyle. You should try to eat healthy most of the time. It's all about making smart choices and decisions. When you're out, get a bottle of water instead of soda. These types of things will save you so many caloris and plus soda is just so bad for you as it is. Hope I helped :]

People are obsessed with tanning because of the media. Since all the celebrities are tan, they have to be tan as well and will do anything to achieve the look. I don't see anything wrong with tanning once in awhile but when you do it frequently, it becomes a little too much. Self tanners are a little more difficult, and they don't always come out good. I get frustrated with self tanners myself, because you have to apply it so precisely and it leaves streak marks. The problem is though is that it becomes an addiction. You do it once and you go, "oh it's not that bad." It becomes a constant habit and people don't realize it. I admire you for being so smart about it, keep it up. Hope I helped :]

I've been there, I know what you're feeling. I went through this phase last year and it was hard as hell. I know that it seems almost impossible to feel like you're going to get through it, but trust me you will. Take one thing at a time. Start with you friends, to me this is the most important thing. Try not to think about all the horrible things going on in your life when you're around them. Say to yourself, "Just forget about it, I'm having fun, there's no need to drag my problems around with me." Get in the habit of this and you'll be fine. As for grades, you probably have this attitude of "oh whatever screw it" but trust me you need to turn this around before it's too late. Put a little more effort each day, week, whatever. I'm really sorry about your boyfriend and I'm guessing that that was what caused all this. Enough sulking, it's time to move forward. When you think about it, where is moping around and eating everything in sight going to get you anywhere? I say this because like I said, I've been there so please don't think I'm being too harsh. If you continue this, then you're just letting your ex win. Show him that you can deal with it and you're not affected by it. You'll get through this, I promise. You just have to stay focused and keep positive. Good luck! Hope I helped :]

There's a few factors that you have to take into consideration here. Firstly, it depends on what you'll be drinking. If you're drinking beer then you can down quite a few, heh but still don't go too crazy since it is you first time and all. Hard alcohol(vodka, rum etc.) be very careful. It's not going to taste the greatest so please do not have a lot of that. All you need to be concerned about is just getting buzzed/tipsy. You do not want to be to the point of throwing up, blacking out, the list goes on. When you're in the tipsy stage you still know what's going on around you, therefore you'll for sure know when someone tries to get with you. I cannot stress enough of how much you need to be careful about how much you have. After you have one or two beers or a few shots, wait a little and see how you feel. A common thing that goes wrong is that people(including myself) keep on drinking because we don't feel anything at the moment but it takes a little bit for the alcohol to kick in. That's how you end up passing out and throwing up, ha fun right? As far as someone trying to get with you, if you have any doubts in your head then just don't get with them. Most likely though, you'll want to get with them as well. Don't go tooo far, haha. So just be careful and have fun! Hope I helped :]

Well...it sounds like he likes you! I mean I can't be sure obviously but these are all signs though. Is he dropping hints like doing subtle flirting? Pay closer attention to exactly what he's saying and HOW he's saying it. The teasing sounds like he likes you because guys are known for teasing girls when they like them. However, I would watch out and make sure Kris doesn't become too clingy or attatched. I mean he does sound like he likes you and really sweet but sometimes they take it TOO far. Trust me I've been there, done that, and it's not fun. I say this because of the fact that he calls you multiple times throughout the day, also because you said he laughs at EVERYTHING you say. I encourage you to follow your heart but just be smart. Good luck! Hope I helped :]

Haha yeah I totally get what you're saying. You probably just have a really good all around personality. I'm guessing your're pretty outgoing and maybe even funny, and these are all great traits to have because this is what guys like in a girl. They don't want anyone who's overdramatic or anything. Teasing is a good sign that they like you. And yes boys love making girls laugh! It makes them feel good about themselves knowing that they made a girl laugh. It seems like you're doing great with the guys, keep it up. Hope I helped :]

The same thing happens to me. This happens when you constantly go to sleep with the same side of your face face down on the pillow. Make sure to change your pillowcase every few weeks because of the produced oil. Hope I helped :]

I completely disagree with the person below me. I don't think it matters how long you've been together or been dating. When you feel that intense pain of not having them there, it feels unnatural not to be with them, you get this breath of fresh air in your body, etc. thats when you know youre in love. To me, you can fall in love at any age. I used to think different but I learned when I myself fell in love at a young age. The thing that most people don't understand is that there is no definition for love. Trying to describe your love for someone is like trying to describe how water tastes. You just can't! Love is different for everyone, and everyone has different experiences. When you fall in love with someone, it is like nothing else matters when you're with them. I do agree that you do have to be very mature about it. You have to be understanding towards their feelings and care for them. I hope I answered your question well enough :]

Completely. I've had it for three years now and that is my basic cycle. It starts out heavy for the first two days and usually stops or goes really light around the fourth or fifth day and then it starts back up again. Mine last usually just about a week(7 days). You have nothing to worry about! Good luck :]

NO BAGELS! I'm sorry, but is that girl insane? Bagels is equivalent to almost twelve pieces of bread. Yeah, twelve. Bread is very fattening. Stick with fruit like the first person said and organic cereal is great too, I enjoy it myself.

I personally think that falling in love is like describing water. You just cannot explain it no matter how hard you try. It is just this wonderful feeling and you catch yourself smiling just by thinking of that person. When you're not with that person it feels almost unnatural, like you're missing a part of you (cliche I know) but it really is true. Sometimes you won't be able to sleep because all you can do is think of that person and counting down the time until you see them again. Everything may not be perfect, but love is irrational and it doesn't always make sense. Trust me, you'll know when you've fallen in love :]

Those are aviators. You can pretty much get them anywhere but try Macys, Charlotte Russe, Mandees, stores like that. They are soo cute. Hope I helped :]

Noo not at all. It's completely fine to leave it in. I would just make sure that you don't wipe too hard because you don't wanna yank on the string or anything. Hope I helped :]

Heyy I'm Jenn. I love helping other people, I'm a great listener too. I welcome everyone and I'm open to basically any question you may have. I promise to answer your question the best possible way I can. I've always been told that I give great advice, so that's how I stumbled upon Advicenators. Don't hold back, ask me anything! :]


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