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when you edit an answer does it show up in the other person's page as "Your Questions (1)"

yes. but remember the other one you said before doesn't show up anymore


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hi, well where can i get these in red and black? thanks

http://www.ebtm.com/p-5875-criminal-damage-trousers-mallet.aspx

ummm, my best guess is probably in hot topic, freestyles, or spencer's. if they're not in the store, try their online websites.




http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/index.jsp

http://www.spencersonline.com/




sorry, i can't find freestyles' website



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hayybayy

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i am moving in like 5 days...and idk how i am going to fit in. how will i make friends? like is it hard? am i going to be able to make friends? like what should i do? should i just go up to random ppl and start talking to them? or should i wait for them to come to me? i am very confused on how to make friends. please help!

i moved to where i am now last summer, and you HAVE to talk to people. hardly anyone talked to me (only one person, she was new also so i got lucky), and not because i'm weird or anything :]. i finally just got up the courage to ask someone if they could save me a spot at lunch, and now we're like best friends. don't be afraid to ask, it's not lie they're going to be like NO, YOU'RE WEIRD! (unless you are:])but, people probably don't talk to you because they're unaware that you just moved here and don't have any friends. they probably think you have other friends. so obviously, yes, you HAVE to just talk to random people, but make sure they're in a majority of your classes so you don't get attached to someone you'll hardly ever see.
don't worry, i'm sure you'll make friends fast, you just have to be brave and friendly, and very talkative. no one's gonna get to know you if you answer questions with one word answers.


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hayybayy :]

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How can I get my hair to be really sweet like that? Kind of like Jason Dolley's from Cory in the House...

Thanks.

btw: 16/m

the guy above me - jack, can't be that accurate. it might work for him, but that's only because his hair is naturally straight. all he said was let it dry and then brush it. if you don't have perfectly straight hair, it's just going to be the same - curly or wavy and frizzy. even though straighten it doesn't sound very in depth, that's the best way to go. it is kind of weird for a guy to do that, but you want it straight, so you have too. also, jason dolley's kind of flips out so when you straighten it, when you're at the end of your hair, angle it upwards.

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PLEASE!!!!!!????? You seem so awesome!!!

NO!!!! quit being a weirdo

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15/f. i know that in order to lose stomach fat you need to eat healthy and do cardio. so i already eat healthy, and my stomach is almost flat, but not quite there yet. so what is some cardio exercises that i can do in my house?

I already do about 150 crunches and 100 bicycles everyday, but now i'm reading that this wont get me a flatter stomach, it will just build muscle. so what can i do differently? and i would like it to be something that i don't need to buy and can do indoors. thanks :]

leg lifts - i think that's what they're called. it's where you lay on the ground and life up your legs together - it works your stomach a LOT. and also stand up holding dumbells (can be light) and bend down sideways both ways

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hayybayy :]

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O.K. So I have a HUGE problem. Right now at my school there is this guy that I really like, but he has a girlfriend, is so popular, and is two years older than me. I know he doesn't like me because I have a disorder that makes my hand move around randomly really fast. One time I walked up to him to say hi, and when I put my hand up to wave I accidently slapped him so hard that I gave him a HUGE bruise. What should I do?? PLEASE HELP ME!

ok. since he already has a girlfriend, you're just going to have to wait at first. but he probably is mad at you for slapping him. talk to him inprivate somehow, like say, "hey, ________, come here" like in the hallways in between classes and tell him, "I have a disorder. When i slapped you the other day, it was on accident, I promise. Sometimes I just can't control my hand." and then gradually start talking to him more and more so you become friends. if he really likes you he'll break up with his girlfriend and ask you out. If he doesn't try to br friends with you once you keep talking to him, then he doesn't deserve you.


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hayybayy :]

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What should i do...one of my exes started ignoring me after a while and wouldnt respond to stuff, and i think i stil have feelings for him. But the thing that bothers me is he only talks me when he wants to..and he says stuff liek he's sorry and that he cares..but should i believe him? i dont know...just maybe..you could help?

FORGET HIM!
he doesn't like you anymore and he's just a jerk. he only talks to you sometimes because he realizes that you're a great girl obviously, if you were ugly or something he wouldn't say anything to you. He's just too stupid to be nice enough to take you back, he doesn't deserve you.

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hayybayy

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name cool ska and punk bands?

uhhh....


korn
papa roach
metallica [maybe too hard]]
slayer
slipknot
saosin
rise against
nine inch nails


a lot of those are really hard core - if you don't like them some softer ones are:
hinder
fuel
nickelback - older stuff
red jumpsuit apparatus
evan's blue
three days grace



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hayybayy :]
third eye blind

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what are good punk stores to shop from OTHER then hottopic??i want to get nightmare before christmas clothes and emily the strange.Any ideas where i can get that?

freestyles

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Lol yeah I know this is random but I have trouble falling asleep and what I do is create a story in my mind and plan out every scene and what everything looks like. It helps me fall asleep. Like I just think of a subject and then I picture it happen to me but go like full out detail and it helps me fall asleep. For example: picturing myself living in a really cute city apartment in NYC, my room all how I would like it, and then its about me going to a school dance or being picked randomly on the street for a role in a movie because I'm 'perfect for that role'

Anyways, my question is anyone who can think of more ideas for a story while I fall asleep please put them here. Sorry if you don't understand what I'm saying. Its crazy idea, I know, lol, but it helps, you should try it.

Anyways thanks so anyone who can help me think of more ideas are all accepted and I'll try them out

-you're walking down the street and it starts raining money
-you're sitting with your friends at school and this REALLY hot guy just walks up and talks to you
-you help someone whos choking to live and then you get famous on the news, newspapers, talk shows, everything.

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hayybayy

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Im 16/f. And I weigh 47 kg. (103 pounds if I've converted that right.) Is this normal for my age??

the normal weight is:
5 ft: 100lbs
and then for every inch after five more pounds. i have a feeling you're a little underweight, but it could just be your body type.

5'1: 105
5'2: 110
5'3: 115
5'4: 120
5'5: 125
5'6: 130
5'7: 135
5'8: 140
5'9: 145
5'10: 150
5'11: 155
6'0: 160

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I am 13 and i can't stand my body, my legs are to short. I am the shortest one in my grade, only 5 foot and i don't no what to do, my family doesn't exactly have the money to give me a shot that will help my growth and they say that i am normal height but i had my period over 2 years ago and i'm not supposed to grow anymore. Is there anything i can do that will make me a normal height?

hey
you should be glad you're short!! it's a great thing to be - it makes you feel petite! also, im 13 and am only 4'10. i know a girl who's 15 and 4'6. no lie. so don't sweat it - it's not even that bad.
wear short shorts. they make your legs look longer. bermuda shorts: NO-NO. they'll make you look at least a half a foot shorter.


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hayybayy

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My friend kept it quiet that i was cutting because she loves me, but when it got so bad she told. i completely hate her, is that alright to hate her? now we dont even talk... i stopped cutting, so i guess she stopped my pain.. so i still love her..?

ABSOLUTELY.

she is a great friend if she told. you could have hit a vein or something - so in a way she saved your life. you should never cut yourself, and like the person under me said, the only thing she did wrong was not telling sooner. sometimes you do stuff you don't think is that bad, and that's why you have friends - they help bring you back to reality.

you should tell her you're really sorry you were mad at her and you know she's a true friend. you're really lucky to have a friend like her.


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hayybayy

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I really want to wear it yet at the same time I don't want others laugh at me. Individuality is very important to me, but I want to be accepted too. What can I do?

well it depends what it is
i mean i wear stuff that isn't "in style" all the time

u should be able to tell if it's like TOTALLY hideous but i bet no one will even say anything - it's not like you're gonna where a cape or something
well, at least i hope not

=]]]


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What are some good older songs that are good and make you want to dance.

i have my sharona, video killed the radio star, manic monday, i melt with you, etc. please name some others?
thanks.

oooooo
like the most awesome old song ever is
ain't no mountain - marvin gaye

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what was the best book you have ever read when you were 13? or best book in general... that a 13 year old could read and comprehend? i feel like i've read all the good books. i've always loved reading since i was little.. im not like a geek/nerd or anything, some are just really good. uh.. my favorite kind of books are ones that are about kids like around my age.. doesnt matter the gender, going through life and etc, and... just like are good page turners. i dont care how long it is.. just not like 300 pages please! here are some of the books im already interested in and have read (uh.. i forget alot of others though lol)

- Shug by Jenny Han
- Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
- The Clique by Lisi Harrison
- How to be popular by Meg Cabot
- Avalon High by Meg Cabot
- Princess Diaries series by Meg Cabot
- Hoot (the novel)
- harry potter series
- a wrinkle in time
- any book by roald dahl
- junie b. jones - barbara park (haha i love these)
- any babysitter's club book
etc.

and please dont say like gossip girl, the it girl, a series of unfortunate events, and the chronicles of narnia.

THANKS!

PS: why do so many kids of today hate reading so much, anyway?

tiger eyes by judy blume - favorite book of ALL time besides harry potter series

ANY books by mary downing hahn, really good ones are stepping on the cracks and following the mystery man
shes a REALLLLY good author

lol don't feel bad i love reading too


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hayybayy

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hi. i'm really bored. what's something i can do that
would be actually not a waste of time that i can do on
the computer? like something to do besides giving
advice to people who need it? thanks in advance!

hey it's me again - the one that told you about kitten cannon
yes i know it's cruel i think it is too but it's really fun lol.
thanks
hayybayy

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Okay I have been trying FOREVER to get those loose wavy curls that look natural but everytime i do it they come out spiraled and tight. Any Ideas???

ok this is what i do.

after you take a bath/shower, dry it off so it's not totally soaking wet but still pretty damp. then put it all upin a bun - it doesn't have to look good, it's actually better ugly looking. you're going to be sleeping in it anyways. so you do that, and sleep in it. then when you wake up, take it out and it should still be a tiny tiny tiny bit wet, which is good because when it dries it'll stay. then put a tiny bit of mousse - but not too much since you want it to look natural - just enough to hold it. the mousse i recommend is garnier fructis or aussie. they're the best.

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hayybayy

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there's a led zeppelin song that i cannot think of and i've asked like 50 people and no one can think of it..it's a pretty famous led zeppelin song they play it on the classic rock station a lot and the only way that i can describe it is that it's really light and it has kind of a piano type thing in the background in the chorus or something...and i remember it being something about love. yeah does anyone know what this song might be??/

i'd say "all of my love" or "dazed and confused". do any of these sound familiar?

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