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moving away
i am moving in like 5 days...and idk how i am going to fit in. how will i make friends? like is it hard? am i going to be able to make friends? like what should i do? should i just go up to random ppl and start talking to them? or should i wait for them to come to me? i am very confused on how to make friends. please help!
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oh i hate that. i've lived in 4 different places, 2 of which in different states, and i know it sucks. honestly, you just have to be yourself. dont shake hands, unless they do that to you lol. and at your table in class, try talking to people (or if seperate tables, talk to people around you) and most of the time at least one person is extremely nice and can help you out. sometimes they even have people you can follow until you get used to it. just be yourself and dont be afraid to start conversations with people, like hi i'm __. and usually they'll be like oh hi i'm ___...where did you move from..ladeedaadeedaa..but if they dont respond, dont waste your time with them. lol. just be yourself. hope i helped
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First off you should remember your first day at a school you didn't know and the people you didn't know. This may have been kindegarten, but you still made friends. Making friends is easy. Yes it is hard and feels sometimes a little neracking and embarrassing, but I'm sure you will meet nice people. Also the people who will invite you into their group are usually the nice people who you can become good friends with for a long time. Moving is tough, I know how you feel. Go up to a group of kids that look nice if you want to start a conversation. Start a conversation like I luv your outfit or something like that. Everyone loves compliments = ] Hope I helped!
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i moved to where i am now last summer, and you HAVE to talk to people. hardly anyone talked to me (only one person, she was new also so i got lucky), and not because i'm weird or anything :]. i finally just got up the courage to ask someone if they could save me a spot at lunch, and now we're like best friends. don't be afraid to ask, it's not lie they're going to be like NO, YOU'RE WEIRD! (unless you are:])but, people probably don't talk to you because they're unaware that you just moved here and don't have any friends. they probably think you have other friends. so obviously, yes, you HAVE to just talk to random people, but make sure they're in a majority of your classes so you don't get attached to someone you'll hardly ever see.
don't worry, i'm sure you'll make friends fast, you just have to be brave and friendly, and very talkative. no one's gonna get to know you if you answer questions with one word answers.
hope i helped
hayybayy :]
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