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hey. wut are some good songs about love, or boys that you can't have? lol. this is weird, but w/e. and also, what are some songs about bad lifes. for an example of the songs i'm talking about, i really like the song "Catch me when i fall" by ashlee simpson. and also "because of you" by ne-yo. i love both of those songs! and by the way, i would rather have today's artists insted of like oldies. like i do not want anything with elton john for example. thanx! (link)
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Hi
try *eamon-fuck it.
he sings about how the person cheated on him. Its kinda a love song.!
hope i helped.
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THIS IS MY COUSIN
I have recently moved away from the guy I may have loved, and I am uncertain to wheather or not I can continue the relationship or not. I moved to Michigan and he lives in Atlanta. I am afraid that he will date someone else while we are in a long distance relationship, I want to be more than friends with him, but I'm not sure what to do... (link)
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Your worried that he will cheat on you? Well, did u give him something before you left? like a picture or so? because guys tend to stick to the person they love, when they left something behind for them. Seems like you are always there for them. Sounds crazy huh?
Try a long distance relationship. Find a good sight, for both of you to chat on. Figure out the time difference, and set up a chat *date.
Its hard in the beginning. And if you want to test him, make him wake up at 3 am and chat with you. thats how you can find out if hes loyal to you, because he willingly wakes up that early.
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ok my bff and i have been bff for 2 1/2 years now we are in a major fight. I started ignoring her a week after she started lying to me and changing big time. Shes acting like someone shes not. She finnaly got the clue today and she cant see whats wrong i've tried everything! My other bestfriend is agreeing with me and when my bff talked to her she was saying i was only ignoring you because of this one kid. and i know that is a lie because i am never with that kid because we are in diffferent classes. SHe keeps lieing to us and keeps denying it. i have no clue what to do i have tried everything but she just wont listen! We used to tell eachother everything.
And plz dont msg me saying that shes probably having problems at home because we tel eachother everything and i know her problems at home and i help her vent through them so yea.
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sorry about that. L.O.L
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I am 43 years old and have been married to a loving, thoughtful man for 16 years and we have a 14 year old son.
Unfotunately,a recent argument has spurred my husband to suddenly decide to take an overseas civilian contractor job in Iraq for 6 months! The original source of the argument was petty (I moved a drinking glass) but he says that he's short tempered because he's been under a lot of stress lately over the deep financial debt we're in. (We have an astronomical mortgage payment and three vehicle payements which take up practically our entire paychecks.) He says this job will pay $8000 a month and we can have all the cars paid off in 6 months and will be able to live a little more comfortably.
To make a long story short, I'm so angry and scared over this that it's making me physically ill. We've had several fights over this and I'm at the point now where I can barely stay under the same roof with him. He says I'm not being supportive while I think he should have looked into local job options or let me take a night job. Most of all, I think he should have given this more thought. (My husband has a long history of doing impulsive things only to regret them later - which is why we have the three car payments and the huge mortgage!) Instead, he let his friends talk him into this and only three weeks after the initial incident which started all this, he's all processed and is set to fly out on April 29th. So much for giving this some thought!!!
I've got no one to talk to about this and have been pretty much keeping to myself over the past couple of weeks. I just don't know how to cope with this. He slapped me with this so suddenly and expects me to be cool with it.
Am I being unreasonable? I'm so confused and so full of resentment that I can't think straight. One minute I'm crying and the next minute my blood is boiling in rage.
Any advice would be appreciated. I know that you military wives are in a different situation because your husbands have no control over where they are sent and you are put into a position where you HAVE to cope while my husband will be going over there voluntarily. But I'd still like to hear how you cope. What emotions did you have to deal with?
And if there are any other overseas contractor spouses out there in the same situation I'm in now, I'd definitely love to hear from you.
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HI
wow, you should actually be happy to go over sees. I grew up oversees. Im an american, too, but all my life i grew up in a place next to afghanistan, in the middle of the war (just in the beginning).
so your probably like freeked out of all the war going on over there, and that oyu have to dress weird? Sorry, but i didnt quite understand. Or is your husband just going? If you want some help from me, i would be happy enough to give you a lot of details, because my father can ask some people which he used to work with. just go to my profile and click on the question thingy. sorry that this doesnt make sense. hope i kinda helped..and i'll talk to you later. Take care
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So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??
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Well, if you jus started getting your period, then you have nothing to worry. Some people get a very heavy period. If it keeps running like that then talk with your mom , or see a doctor. But just to be safe, look and see if its actually comeing out of the place where you pee, or the actual place. Gross to talk about this, but check. Because some people have this.
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recenlty i have been having stomach problems....when i eat i get bad heaart burn...and even if i do not get this my stomach feels like it has blown up and my chest hurts and i feel like i am going to throw up...any ideas what this could be? (link)
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Im not sure what it could be, but try taking heart-burn pills. You can find them in any dollar store. Or maybe your just bloating. I know this sounds weird, but have you been like furting lately? Because sometimes, the gas builds up inside, and it hurts really badly.
If it doesnt go away in so 5 days, go to the doctor ok? hope i helped! :)))
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my bf and i just got back together, we took a break for about 2 months. but he is out of town and can only come back once in awhile. we talk on the phone everyday, and we argue a bit about the past. but eventually get over it. last night we were talking and no arguement occured. he was being the same old sweet jon i used to know. he asked me if i have had sex with anyone since him and told him no. which is very true. he is the only guy i've had sex with ever. then i asked him the same thing, and he was like well i've had a gf while we were broken up but i broke up with her cuz i missed you too much, and we never had sex. but for some reason i don't believe him, i want us to get tested when he gets back but im worried to tell him that. i also have to tell him that while we were broken up, i had to have an abortion, with his baby. how do i tell him that. he will probably hate me, but im only 16 and it just happened and my mom made me. i would've kept it, but my mom said i have plenty of time to have a baby. what do i do.
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wow, sounds really hard. First, its good that you want to get tested. tell him, you trust him, but you want to get tested for hygenic reasons. If you guys have done it a couple of times, you should test it , to stay on the healthy side. So just tell him that. Your a girl, and you have your worries. Then about the abortion. tell him you want him to comeover. Let your mom be there so she can tell him. If she FORCED you, then it was not your intention. It will probably brake him down, but you just have to be there for him. tell him the truth. if he is your boyfriend, and he loves you, then he will understand and forgive. Hope i helped!
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OMG! I haven't seen my period in like 3 months..and it's freaking me out. It happened before but that was when I first got it and I went to the GYN and he ssaid it's just cause it's around the first time and also cause I'm too fat!
This time I got fatter but i doubt that's it cause I know REaLLLY fat people and they get it..an that's twice my size. I think it's stress cause this christmas I had alot of problems! How do I get out of the stress...or get it back! nd please don't mention go to the GYN...anyother ways????? (link)
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Actually, when you are "fat, you get more period then normal people.
So i doubt you are really fat.
but, its probably because you are stressed. If you are in your first year, then it will come irregularly. Dont worry if it doesnt come for a while. Be happy lol. But DO go see a doctor, or a womans doctor if you still dont have your period for 5 months.
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13/F.
When I get my period, the blood has lots of clots and clumps. So these just slide past the tampon and cause a leak. The menstrual cups aren't working for me right now. What tampons actually absorb the clumps and clots?
What else would you suggest? Like what are the best tampons? (link)
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The best tampons would be O.B, They are european, but you can get them easily in walmart. Use the Super size. Its a normal size though. these ones dont have a push-up, i know gross. but they absorb clums. They have this opening on the front. you dont see it, but after you pull it out, it gathers those clumps on the top of it, and so, thats how the clumps cant slide off.
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ok, so i was invited to this party, and it is a b-day party for a fairly good friend of mine, and we are suppose to dress up. Its like a hollywood themed party. So i have this really cute dress, but it cuts low on my chest, and shows about all of my dress.. and i have mild acne on my back chest, neck and face. My face im not worried about, but seeing the acne on myself makes me really embarrised, and i want to go to the party, but im not sure how with the acne.. And dont say that people wont notice, because i have some good guy friends that tell me that they think that acne on girls make them less attractive.. Oh yea, there are going to be guys at the party.. So does anybody have any ideas of what i should do?? Any good cover ideas? And we will be dancing too, so i dont want to wear a jacket... (link)
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Well, go grab a light skarf, (i dont know if i spelled that right). Put it both ends of it, over your shoulder, and let it sit there very loose. it looks elegant.
most indians and pakistani woman do that to their dresses.hope i helped
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I have NO idea why, but my tailbone (or the hard flat bone thing right above my butt) has been hurting reallly bad lately. It especially hurts when i sit down and then REALLY bad when I stand up. I haven't don't anything to injure it lately like any type of exercises and I haven't fallen on it. I don't know what to do because it seems like sitting makes it hurt worse but I have to sit all the time at school. The whole area and one specific spot in the middle just feels VERY sore! What should i do?? (link)
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I had the same exact problem. When you probably stood up, or turned around, it probably pulled a muscle or something else. Did it suddenly start hurting? then yes.
what to do:
-take pain killers.
-sit, or lie, on one of those massaging things. U know,the ones for cars or a massaging chair.
-if you dont have that, take a ice pack, put it on your back, for 30 min. and then hot one. Do it freequently
-stand up slowly, and down, and do a little excersise like that daily.
it will probably heel in like 5 days. hope u feel better
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I am a girl and for some reason i started shaving my stomach even tho the hair was really light...the problem is that i started getting ingrown hairs from that and when i pick them out they leave my skin red and scarred...how do i make these marks go away? also, are there better hair removal methods that aren't expensive and don't irritate the skin? i've tried shaving, waxing, and cremes. (link)
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Well, wow, you already tried waxing and shaving and cremes, so the last thing i would do, is leave it. let it grow, and then take a scissors, and cut it till its really short. then, tan. get a bit darker. Tan in the sun though, that way, it will make your hair lighter.
Or, take a hot hot hot shower, and then pluck most of the hair out. then put some relaxing creme on it. Its not that exspensive. Hope i helped
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when I was little doctore said I will have Sinus problem when I get older. so I did last summer Had alot of headhaces. and now this summer and I having a cough that not go away last 4 months. I don't smoke I never will. I do have alot of allergy plus I did take medince help not cough alot. but its not like loud cough. more like try get air oru something. i don't have ashma or brointa I can' spell it. but how ever my chest be sore from coughing but i never get fever or sick, just like cough its so annoying now and then.. my mom think maybe be a nerve cough but i not stress over anything. I mean right now i am 21 years old and lving at home, I dn't drive becouse m disbities and that I do have a job I work at a mall, i want to go cummity collage or online course but i need get money for it. sorry i change subject but maybe could be nerve cough but i am postive about alot things and plus its could be my sinus? sorry this maybe confusing.. if it is let me know i try explane it other way. i hope someoen understand..
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i dont thing its a sickness. There are some coughs you can get, that can last up to 3-5 months. I forgot the name of it in english, but if u go on an online translating text, and then translate this word, and then you can find it online. its a german word : *Keuchhusten
I had it, and mine lasted for 3 months. Im sorry, if i like got it all mixed up, and i hope u feel good soon!
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Sorry this will be long but I'LL RATE!...
Well I'm going to my friends house this week end where the guy I like will be there two and the 3 of use are gunna jut hang out, and this morning (2/28/06) and I'm going over there this Saturday and I'm fine being there with my period and all I'll just go to the bathroom every 4-5 hours, he'll think I'm weird but o well. And she asked me to spend the night and I never gave her an answer because I've never spent the night at a friends house while I was on my period (I'm 14) and I don't know because if the flow is heavy then I def. don't want to cause while I'm sleeping it might bleed through (I use a pad becaues I can't wake up ever 5-6 hours to change a tampon) and I don't know weather or not my flow Saturday night will be heavy or not and I REALLY wanna spend the basically then week end with my friends and the guy I like because he goes to another school than I do and I don't see him very much. So I don't know what to do at all, all I know is that I'm going over there Saturday day but I don't know if I should spend the night or night I want to but I scared to with my period and all and not knowing weather it will be heavy or not cause if it's not I'll sleep over cause there won't be alot of blood and shouldn't bleed through. So someone please give me so adivce on what to cause I'm totally clueless....once again sorry for the length (link)
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Oh, you actually DONT have to go to the bathroom every 4-5 hours. Its not the urge to go pee, its just the blood coming out, so just ignore that, unless u urgently have to go. And nope, you do NOT have to change your tampon evry 4-5 hours either. Use the O.B kind. The *super kind. It fits easily, and you can wair it up to 8 hours.
dont worry, your crush, if he finds out, wont thing anything bad. just turn it into a joke. hope i helped
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This past week, I've had two dreams with basically the same basis. Fire. And I'm not exactly sure why.
The first dream happened around Saturday-ish. I had a dream my aunt's next door neighbor's house got caught on fire. And then I was at the corner of the street with my car [and I don't even drive yet] and my car started to be caught with fire. So I ended up miraculously putting it out, and my parents just came out of nowhere. Then we were driving, and my dad's seat caught on fire [he was driving], and I told him to jump out of the car. So he did, as did my mother and I [where my brother was, I've got no clue], but then the car blew up. And we were on the corner of a pub near my old house. And then I woke up with a feeling something bad was gonna happen. I have a little bit of an ESP power because I know when someone's gonna die, or when something bad is gonna happen. My feelings usually are right. But nothing's happened yet.
Now just yesterday, I was taking a nap, and I had the most horrible dream. My cousin who's my age just had her son in January [I'm 16, she'll be 17 in June], but anyways. My cousin, her sister, her parents, and her son were in my dream. I dreamed they were living in the house I moved out of 7 years ago. The house caught on fire, and the only person I managed to get [I was sleeping over in the dream] was the baby, and I tried getting everyone else, but they just wouldn't wake up. They weren't dead because they were snoring, but I just couldn't wake them up. My cell phone wasn't with me in my dream, and it took me forever to find a phone to call 911. They were all okay even though the house was in a horrible fire, and they were breathing everything in. I woke up with a bad feeling about that too.
I feel like something bad is gonna happen, and I'm not sure what it is yet. I've never dreamt of fire before, so this is quite the eye opener, and I'm scared of fire so maybe I'm just trying to face a fear in my dream, but I honestly doubt that's it. Because of these bad feelings, I've turned off everything that can cause a possible fire, and I've kept my room clean so nothing can spark a fire. I'm extremely cautious of it. I don't want my house to set on fire, because I value my things, but I can't help but to feel something bad's gonna happen.
Why am I dreaming of fire, and why am I so paranoid [though I suffer from it]? I don't want my house to set on fire, or my aunt's neighbor's house to catch fire. She's a lovely woman & she's been friends with my family basically since my aunt was a little girl. I don't know what's gonna happen, but I keep having this feeling. =/ Sometimes I hate knowing when something bad is gonna happen. I've been trying to warn people to be careful because something bad is gonna happen, but when they ask what I can't tell them because I don't even know myself. I'm hoping my dreams can lead me to something, but all they lead me to is a bad feeling, and bad thoughts. =/ Ugh, help? (link)
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It somehow, seems that in both dreams, the fire was IN, or Next to your old house right? That kind of points out, something could or is happeing at only your old house. Try telling the people and neighbors in your old house, to be careful of things that might start a fire.
I know, this might sound weird to you, if you are not a Christian, but seriosly pray to God. No matter what, just ask him to help you figure it out and do the right thing.
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okay,i need help on makeing friends..kind of. im already in a "group" but, i don't think im much like them. there all really close and then im just there. its like i dont exist sometimes. its just because,im kind of quiet. and im not exactly like, them. but i'm still with them,some how. i mean,i have NO sense of humor,and there very humorous. how do i make things funnier? how can i speak up? and, if you must label us, we would be the random,skater,whatever, group. i just,have no close friends what so ever. and i dont know how to make them! this has been going on for probably 2 years. and i'm starting to get really sad that no one cares that much for me. how do i make them care for me more? thanks so much,i really need help on this one. oh and i dont remember things,i suck at it. also,i find myself so lost,i dont know how that might help,but yeah. (link)
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HI
Well, sounds like you really really want a sort of best friend. Why, dont you talk it over with your friends. Tell them how you feel about this. Tell them you feel left out a bit.
Join some sport activities, or just any public activity that is fun for YOU. That way you can meet new people. Be yourself, and get more involved. Or, try online friendship. You can find a lot of online friends all over the world. And when you feel down, go buy a big world map, and stick on stars, where all yor *online friends are. With them, you can talk about anything.
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ok so me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago.(we've been going out for about 10 months). i broke up with him because it felt like i was second best in his life. and now i just don't understand him sometimes he'll call me sometimes he won't but when he does call theres nothing to talk about. and i love him so much and he knows this . he told me not to get a boyfriend cause i shouldn't want a new one.. which is true i don't want a new guy, but i don't want to wait around for him forever. it just seems like he is fine with everything which really sucks cause im not and i feel like i put this all on myself which i did but i thought he was goin to fight for me and apparently he dind't im just so confused i want him back more than anything and im not going to ask him back cause i know he'll just make me feel stupid or play me.
so what should i do? i just want things to be back to normal.. thank you (link)
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Hon, if it would be up to me, i would forget him.
If he does not act to interested in you, then hes missing out on one great girl like you. You deserve someone special. If he makes you feel stupid, then that isnt a very good sign. HOn, really try to forget him. Go to the mall with some of your girlfriends, go check some other guys out, and sooner or later, you life will be back to normal again, with another guy in your heart. Hope i helped. HOpe it works out for you
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Tomorrow is Pirate day in my school and we are suppose to dress up as pirates..
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Grab some old town up Jeans and make 1 leg side into a capri, and the other short. Then put on a white shirt on. And then one of your dads funky looking shirts and tie it over the white one, kinda like a bikini, but with sleeves. then put on gold hoope earings and maybe color one eye black, or get a eye patch. lol, hope i helped!
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My best friend hasn't been herself lately. She has recently been keeping a bit more to herself and has an angry tone towards her friends. She still flirts with guys a little bit which in my opinion is great.
About a month and a half ago she broke up with her boyfriend. They had been going out for about a year and a half. She says she has somewhat moved on but I honestly don't believe her---some days she will tell me she still likes him or will get jealous of other girls. I understand that she is hurt. She is a strong, confident person so seeing her this way really hurts. She tells me almost everything, at least that's what I thought.
A couple days ago I accidently caught her crying in the bathroom. Noone else was there. When I asked her what was wrong she gave me widespread answers such as "everything" or "alot". I tried to ask her more but she said she didn't want to talk about it and I respected that. The one thing she told me that got me really worried was that she admitted she has been crying almost every night.
I want to give her space but I am really worried for her. It is eating me up inside. I honestly can't think of anything else. We are really close and I care about her sooo much. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her, you are there for her. No matter whats going on in her life, tell her you will always be there for her. Cheer her a bit up. Bring her a flower, (sounds corny, but cheers any girl up). Just sit down with her, let her cry on your shoulder. Dont EVER ask her *whats wrong? It will make her feel bad about herself. Ask her like, do you want to talk about anything (or it).
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I have stretch marks on my inner thighs. I today just bought vitamin E gels and opened them and put them on my marks. Some one gave that advice to some one else so i tried it. I didnt see a difference yet but if someone could tell me when they will start to fade that would be very helpful. I also want to loose weight. Does any body no any good work outs. I have an exercise ball but i am unsure how to use it.
I also would like to know what to eat and what will help me keep the weight off. (link)
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hi
stretch marks will never completely fade away. What i would try is cocoa butter. And put lotion on daily. And yeah, im sorry, but i dont know to much about the excersise ball. But about the healthy issue, try the south beach diet. It actually is one of the healthiest diets around, and if you dont want to diet, you do phase three, where you eat VERY VERY healthy.
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