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how do i tell him...
my bf and i just got back together, we took a break for about 2 months. but he is out of town and can only come back once in awhile. we talk on the phone everyday, and we argue a bit about the past. but eventually get over it. last night we were talking and no arguement occured. he was being the same old sweet jon i used to know. he asked me if i have had sex with anyone since him and told him no. which is very true. he is the only guy i've had sex with ever. then i asked him the same thing, and he was like well i've had a gf while we were broken up but i broke up with her cuz i missed you too much, and we never had sex. but for some reason i don't believe him, i want us to get tested when he gets back but im worried to tell him that. i also have to tell him that while we were broken up, i had to have an abortion, with his baby. how do i tell him that. he will probably hate me, but im only 16 and it just happened and my mom made me. i would've kept it, but my mom said i have plenty of time to have a baby. what do i do.
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I definately think you should get tested. Tell him that you believe him, but you want to do it for health reasons.
I think it would be best if you didn't tell him about the abortion. But if you really want to, I agree with the person below me.
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wow, sounds really hard. First, its good that you want to get tested. tell him, you trust him, but you want to get tested for hygenic reasons. If you guys have done it a couple of times, you should test it , to stay on the healthy side. So just tell him that. Your a girl, and you have your worries. Then about the abortion. tell him you want him to comeover. Let your mom be there so she can tell him. If she FORCED you, then it was not your intention. It will probably brake him down, but you just have to be there for him. tell him the truth. if he is your boyfriend, and he loves you, then he will understand and forgive. Hope i helped!
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