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I want my ex back.
ok so me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago.(we've been going out for about 10 months). i broke up with him because it felt like i was second best in his life. and now i just don't understand him sometimes he'll call me sometimes he won't but when he does call theres nothing to talk about. and i love him so much and he knows this . he told me not to get a boyfriend cause i shouldn't want a new one.. which is true i don't want a new guy, but i don't want to wait around for him forever. it just seems like he is fine with everything which really sucks cause im not and i feel like i put this all on myself which i did but i thought he was goin to fight for me and apparently he dind't im just so confused i want him back more than anything and im not going to ask him back cause i know he'll just make me feel stupid or play me.
so what should i do? i just want things to be back to normal.. thank you
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Ok, here's the thing. I'm kinda going through the same, only he broke up with me.
And the absolute hardest thing, and the most hurtful, and devastating thing is hearing you need to forget. You don't want to forget, because that means you basicaly waste your time, and that it's absolutely hopeless. It kills you.
But, forgetting will get him back. If you act like you've moved on, and you pretend to forget about him, he will wonder what the Hell happened. Ignore his phone calls. And whenever you feel like that won't work, answer but say your busy. Date someone else, don't be serious, but be with them and try to find the places where your boyfriend will be. Next time you talk, say your not going to talk to him again because he keeps hurting you.
He'll be surprised your taking a stand for yourself, and he'll quit hurting you so much.
It sucks people have to play these games. People can say noble and responsible things like,"Get over him, he's not worth it." But that's something you have to realize for yourself. If you get back together, compare the things you like with the things you don't like about him. That'll help.
And I hope I helped.
PEACE!
-Beth
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Hon, if it would be up to me, i would forget him.
If he does not act to interested in you, then hes missing out on one great girl like you. You deserve someone special. If he makes you feel stupid, then that isnt a very good sign. HOn, really try to forget him. Go to the mall with some of your girlfriends, go check some other guys out, and sooner or later, you life will be back to normal again, with another guy in your heart. Hope i helped. HOpe it works out for you
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