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I really want to help her
My best friend hasn't been herself lately. She has recently been keeping a bit more to herself and has an angry tone towards her friends. She still flirts with guys a little bit which in my opinion is great.
About a month and a half ago she broke up with her boyfriend. They had been going out for about a year and a half. She says she has somewhat moved on but I honestly don't believe her---some days she will tell me she still likes him or will get jealous of other girls. I understand that she is hurt. She is a strong, confident person so seeing her this way really hurts. She tells me almost everything, at least that's what I thought.
A couple days ago I accidently caught her crying in the bathroom. Noone else was there. When I asked her what was wrong she gave me widespread answers such as "everything" or "alot". I tried to ask her more but she said she didn't want to talk about it and I respected that. The one thing she told me that got me really worried was that she admitted she has been crying almost every night.
I want to give her space but I am really worried for her. It is eating me up inside. I honestly can't think of anything else. We are really close and I care about her sooo much. What should I do?
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Hey. Well, i'll tell you from experience. I'm a girl, and we cry, alot. You don't want to ask her directly what's wrong, it makes her[us] feel worse. I agree, it makes us feel really good when you just simply say "im here for you" and you let her cry on your shoulder. Hold her really close if she does decide to cry on you.
Well, there's more but this is kinda long, so if you want more advice, let me know. ♥ Kathleen.
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Tell her, you are there for her. No matter whats going on in her life, tell her you will always be there for her. Cheer her a bit up. Bring her a flower, (sounds corny, but cheers any girl up). Just sit down with her, let her cry on your shoulder. Dont EVER ask her *whats wrong? It will make her feel bad about herself. Ask her like, do you want to talk about anything (or it).
hope i helped
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