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i'm tiffanie :) i'm that girl that loves to make a fool of herself and just laughs it off. 16, sophomore at WHS and i will be a licensed driver in the spring!
i will hold my own and won't get pushed around.
please don't underestimate me, i always go after what I want and i won't stop until i get it.
my heart is entirely too big for my body.
i like people with high expectations that don't settle for anything less.
i've got good intentions but they don't always come out that way.
i don't regret a thing i do. and i mean almost everything i say.
times are tough but i still run this shit :)
basketball player, water girl for football, and stat girl for baseball, and i love every second of it.
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Ok im a girl and i have mastrobated and popped my cherry, am i still a virgin? Also can a guy tell if you are a virgin or not. I want to know because when i decide to have sex i don't know how to explain that i mastrobate.
just because you don't have your cherry, doesn't mean you're not a virgin. if a penis hasn't went into your vagina, then you're a virgin.
and guys usually can't tell.. it just depends on how you act and so forth.
im 17.f
i haven't popped my cherry yet because i don't use tampons & i haven't had sex yet. Say when i do have sex it could pop. Has this happen to anyonee? do you just like bleed while having sex? if you do, how embarrassing is thatt?
thank you!
yes, and alot of peoples cherrys pop when they have sex.. that's usually how it happens. as long as you're comfortable w/ the person you're having sex with, it won't be embarrassing at all. just make sure to lay a towel down the first time you have sex.
Now I know that everyone has their own personal preferencese when it comes to dating. My question though is, is there something wrong with a 17 year old guy going out with a 15 year old girl? I mean do you see anything wrong with it? I know i'm going to get many different answers and that's what i'm hoping for. There's just this guy that I really like, but he said that youngest he would date is 16, and i'm 15, and he's 17. He's a really great guy. We both have a lot in common, and are a lot alike. I'm not saying that because of these things that we belong together or something I just want to know everyones ideas on this. Any and all answers are greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance.
i don't think this is wrong at all.. 1 of my ex's was 17, when i was 15 and we dated for close to 7 months. and another 1 of my ex's was 18 when i was 16, so it's the same age difference.
you just need to find out if your parents will have a problem w/ this, at first mine didn't like it at all then they got to know him and pretty much fell in love with him, so it really all depends on their opionin. but i see nothing wrong with it, good luck :)
is there any meaninq to qettinq yer nose peirced on thee left err riqht side ?
ha. juss curious.
no, i chose to get my nose pierced on the left side because i have bangs on my right and that would just be alot on 1 side.
what is spooning?
it's a way of cuddling.. 2 people are close together facing the same way, usually the man is in the back and the woman is in front of him.
i got my curse this week (my period) and I have REALLY bad cramps. I don't know what to do to make them better!
help please
15/f
Put icy hot patches on your stomach, you can wear it to school and everything! it makes it feel SOO much better, trust me. :)
I just got my license the other day and I only drive my sisters to school.
Am I allowed to drive them!?
I live in California, if that helps at all.
yeah, the law is if you're 16 then you can only have 1 non-family member in a car.. so really, you could have your car completely filled if it's your family.
16/f/bisexual
okay.so i know this is gonna sound bad but please just give advice
so my girlfriend is 14 and a half
my mom found pictures we had taken of eachother not naked..but close
now shes saying we could get sued for stagatory rape?
idk this just doesnt make since to me
help me?
i'm sorry sweetheart, but your mom has NO clue what she's talking about.. my boyfriend is 17&i'm 15&1/2 (which is the same age difference between you two.) and there is nothing wrong with it.
you two can have sex and everything, as long as you are both under 18, and lets say that you guys date all the way until your 18th birthday, you could still have sex with her when you're 18& she's 16&1/2 because it's a pre-existing relationship, and you can do everything the same after you turn 18.
what are some ways to help quicken the recovery time for mono i know theres no cure and that alot of rest is requred but i unfortunatly dont have that option to rest alot i have to work. so is there anything else that anyone knows of that helps quicken it?
the people down there have no idea what the hell they're talking about.. I had mono& I was out of school for a month, all you need to do is rest& drink alot of fluids.. there's no way you can quicken it you just have to wait it out, have your mom or something rent you movies, and drink alot of liquids, (espically gatorade and apple juice.)
ok im a guy that has a 6 inche penis and im getting ready to turn sixteen and i was wondering if that was normal?
this can be googled.
ok so i have a couple questions..
1) how do i know if i am clinicly depressed or just sad and miserable often?
2) is being 13 years old and weighing 134 unhealthy? even if i am active all year round. btw im 5'8
3) if the answer to number 2 is yes i am unhealthy what can i do to become healthier?
4) is there a possible way to make your matabolism become faster?
5) is it strange that i have nearly A cups when im 134 lbs?
6) how can i make my boobs grow?
7) should i have my period if im 13? is something wrong because i dont?
PLEASE HELP much thanks
1) you might just be having a sad time in your life were you're upset alot, if you think you're seriously depressed then you'll think of sucide& if that happens then tell your mom/dad/ or a counselor because you might need real help.
2) no, you're perfectly normal- espically for being 5"8. don't worry about all the girls that are 90 pounds, it's disgusting& if you're cuddling with a guy he won't want to feel bones, he'll want something to hold onto.
3) if you want to be healthier just start counting calories and eating salads and yogerts- lay off the chips and whatnot.
4) no, you're born with it.
5) no, your breasts just haven't delovped yet, they're not done growing until you're in your early twenties, so you don't need to even worry about that yet. :)
6) you can't, they will mature when the times right.
7) people get their periods at different times, I got mine at 13 when my mom got hers at 16, it's all about the girl- ask your mom when she got hers because it's possible that you'll get yours around the same age due to genetics, but you also might not, but it's nice to have a idea. :)
you give horible advice!!!
my b/f broke up wiff me because of your advice
btw the boy you like hates you!!!
betch
=]
oh well, you'll live.
hm I bet that sucks doesn't it. :)
& you don't know who I like, I don't like kyle like everyone thinks I do, so get it right next time sweetheart. ;)
what is a douche?
it's something a girl uses to clean her vagina.
alright im a 16 year old guy and i was wondering if when u shave ur pubes do they leave pickly things??? and if they do how can i prevent that
yes, most peoples leave "prickly things", but you need to either wax& I wouldn't reccomend using nair because it would burn and is not ment for there, so you can buy a homewaxing kit and you won't have to wax as often as you shave& there won't be pricklys.
okay so the other night, i met up with my new boyfriend at this elementary school thats close to our house to just hang out. my younger sis came, and two of his friends and mine that i knew from 7th grade ( we're all in 11th now) were there too. now its been since june that ive seen him because he was in nc with his sister, staying with his dad for a large portion of the summer since his parents are divorced.
so my sis and i were there and my boyfriend is in the middle of giving me a hug when we see my dads car pull up. he gets out and its soo obvious he was mad.
so my sister and i get home, and my dad lectures me telling me that i should call and tell him who i hang out with. and he was also bugged about how my boyfriend "had his paws on me"
My mom gets home from work that night and the first thing she did was come in my room and ask for my cell phone. i give it to her because i knew she would look at it to see if there were any from him.
later that night, she was saying how she doesnt want me hanging out with scum like him. she assumes that since his friend isnt big into education like we are that my boyfriend is the same.
she is finding every possible reason for herself to not like him. since im going into a better private school that costs well over 10 grand, she believes he's going to "distract" me from getting good grades.
yesterday she was mentioning how i should date people who have money and are close with their family. this really made me angry because back when my mom and dad were dating, my dad couldnt afford much and he was not close with his family.
shes basicaly told me she doesnt want me to see him. my boyfriend and i have known each other since 7th grade but we've been talking for about a year and before he left for NC we were quite close and we have strong feelings for each other. we've both decided to fight through all this.
I justt need help with how i can convince my mom to allow me to hang out with him?
has this happened to you before? what did you do?
thanks very much.
well, this has never happened to me before but try to convince your mom to let you have a chance with him, maybe invite him over to dinner with your family so instead on judging a book by it's cover they can get to know him& how nice of a boy he is, and if they won't even give him a chance then it's not worth trying to convince them, just see him anyway- without them knowing, yes I know it's bad but there isn't anything else you can do you've tried to be reasonable with them and they won't even give him a chance.
good luck. :)
hello-
okay so my ex boyfriend is dating this girl, & i don't really like her but i keep my opinions to myself. but anyway she always comments me& asks me about him and stuff& i don't like him but he use to be like one of my best friends& yeahh i miss him as a friend& like i was saying she always tells me her problems with him& i don't want to get in between them so i don't really anwser them.& he hates me now because she said i always tell her that i love him& i am trying to break them up& i'm deff. not because i'm not like that- but she always breaks up with him telling him that he should be with me,& he gets mad at me because he thinks it's my fault & idk what to do i mean i really don't like her but it's his choice& i'm not trying to break them up& yesterday he told my friend that he hated me & shit & i don't do anything & he says that all the time him & his girlfriend are on the phone she always brings me up. :\ & i really don't know what to do& every one knows i don't like him but she just doesn't get it& she like brags to me about him& i really could care less you know? i just don't know what to do help please?
theres not really much more you can do, other then tell her that you don't like him& if she mentions him don't seem interested at all, or if she comments you or something don't comment her back& maybe she'll get the picture. :)
Okay so i'm not the sweetest one in the bunch. And please don't tell me it will change or my fav... make or find new friends. I've tried waiting for it to change and making new friends which doesn't work out either. I think I'm going to delete my myspace because no guy ever talks to me or anything so what's the point? I'm just really sick of guys not liking me. It makes me so mad. I try to make them like me but girls arent suppose to do that anyways. i'm getting tired of people telling me I'm pretty. If I'm so pretty than I would have a boyfriend by now of at least guys would like me. Okay so I'm not 15 or 16. i'm 14 and a half. One year doesn't count. i'm sick of seeing ugly girls with guys. It makes me wanna puke. How did they get a hott guy anyways. They're ugly. I hate to be a immature but I want to die. no there isn't much more to life than guys. Not to me! Guys are like all I ever think about. I just don't understand. i'm tired of waiting for this. I want guys to like me now! It's no fair. Every other ugly girl has a boyfriend. I just really don't understand. I hate school. I hate me. I hate the GUYS that don't pay any attention to me. I'm not fat. I weigh 100! I'm not that ugly. God! Just someone please help me understand why this is happening to me?
you're sounding very shallow right now, who are you to decide whos ugly& whos not? maybe they have something you don't, like a decent personality, so try to be a nice girl& not a bitch whos completely full of themselves& then you might not have any problems. :)
EDIT; you asked for advice& I gave you some, end of story. I don't care if you like it.
does anyone know where i can get a myspace layout (dont give me sites unless they have exactly this please) a black default myspace layout? please give me a link for a site or something it would be very helpful :]
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=158044526
they have all different color default layouts, including black.
if you get your hair chemically straightened can you still curl it?
I don't know, i've never had my hair chemically straightened, you'll have to ask a public question.
im really the prude & i get realllly nervous around guy i like if i know he knows i like him.
is there anyway to change this?
just try to be yourself, talk a little more, flirt some more. :)