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does my mom care about me or not?


Question Posted Friday July 30 2004, 2:02 pm

hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not?

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justletmebe answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:04 pm:
she cares alot more about you then most moms i would say. she respects you being an adult and wants to help you make good choices. your future is so improtant and she loves you enough to help you make it there without trouble of a child at a young age.

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LagunaBabe answered Sunday May 16 2010, 4:48 pm:
It means she cares, this is what my mom told me as well. It means she loves you enough to know that one day you may not plan to have sex, but things do happen, so she would rather give you birth control pills than not and maybe you would get pregnant, which would be very difficult at a young age.

She cares and loves you very much with this, be thankful you have a mom that is so caring -- because many are not.

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Sunday May 16 2010, 2:02 pm:
Yes, She cares about you.


She is preventing any possibly pregnancy for you at a young age, She's looking out for you and doesn't want you to do something that will end up being a mistake when your young.

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CLN answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:21 am:
Yes she cares about you she just wants you to be safe but if she didn't say that it will be like she don't care cuz she'll be giving you that chance of going through the process of haveing a baby so yes I do think she cares about you. I wish my mom would say something like that to me but yeah good luck bye friend.

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Chellz8 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:38 pm:
it means that she cares and doesnt want any little boogers running around so stay safe ;)

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:02 pm:
It means that she is trying to be open with you about sex and your sexual health, in the hopes that you will return the favour.

Parents who want to talk to their kids about sex in a supportive way love their children deeply, but keep in mind they (like us hapless advice columnists) are not experts. Always think deeply about any actions you take, discuss them openly with your partner and your mother (if you are comfortable doing so), and a doctor.

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 9:25 pm:
Yes, she definetely cares about you. She is looking out for your future so you don't have to deal with that. <3 Steph

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KittyCutie2007 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:24 am:
Heck yeah your mom cares, she's only doing whats best for you by doing that. There's no point in your mom to tell you to not have sex because if you want to do it, you will find a way. By putting you on the pill it will be less risky to get pregnant, but there is still a very very small chance that you still could. There is no 100% fool-proof way to not get pregnant unless you don't have sex. But I'm not here to preach to you about abstinence, but by giving you the option of taking birth control pills your mom is caring about you and doesn't want to see you get hurt, or possibly getting pregnant in the end.

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fallenforyoohxo answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:58 pm:
it means that your mom is watching out for you and wants to be in your life and doesnt want you to hide your sex life from her . she doesnt want you to be a pregnent teenager. you ahev your whole life ahead of you and she doesnt want it messed up.. hope i helped:) plz rate

xoxo steffy

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Jane answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:36 pm:
*I wish my mom would say that. But she does care because she probably doesn't want you to get pregnant and condoms do break sometimes.*

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rainbowcherrie answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:17 am:
ummmm I think that means she cares and she doesn't want you to ruin your teenage years by getting pregnant too young.

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Mackenzie answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:46 am:
It definitely means she cares! Bottom line, she can't stop you from having sex. If she won't let you close a bedroom door and do it in your room.. you'll go somewhere else and do it.. there's no stopping it, and she probably knows it. I believe she's doing what she feels is best for you... just be appreciative. Many kids don't have parents that would be so caring and understanding about this topic; they're the ones that end up parents... Take care!

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alderworth1 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:39 am:
if my parent told me that i would prolly thing that they don't trust me not to and they know i would prolly do it without it anyways so they just want u to be on it and safe when u do it

good luck
Gabe

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:34 am:
That means she wants you to be safe no matter what decision you make.

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stickyfingersonpiano answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:13 am:
hun,
of course that means she cares! she doesnt want you to go out and get hurt and do something stupid and end up with a kid. she cant stop you from having sex but by getting you birth control she can stop you from ruining your life...

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B-Munny501 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 12:17 am:
Your mom cares for you because she wants to help protect you from teenage pregnancy. Some people aren't allowed to take the pill and have to worry about getting pregnant way more. Just remember that the pill still doesn't work against STDs, so encourage your partner to wear a condom.

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BabiiBubbles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 12:12 am:
Good question. I'm religious, and so is my family. I think it's wrong that you're having sex if your not married, but hey if your ready and you think you've found the one then yeah.. She wants you to be safe, but pills or condoms don't fight STD's...

Hope I helped, best wishes

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OnErOxYcHiCkEz answered Saturday July 31 2004, 12:09 am:
yes, because you won't get pregnant, and then no she won't care if you have sex.

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jcsgrlthe1st answered Friday July 30 2004, 7:54 pm:
yes she definitly cares...my stepmom told me that too she said they would necessarily agree with it and they might chain me to my bed or never let me out of the house...lol but she said she was j/k but no really she does care because she doesnt want u pregnant

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 30 2004, 6:49 pm:
Dude, my mom said that too...My mother loves me to death - when I turned 12, she started telling me "If you ever feel like you want to be come sexually active, come to me. We'll get you birth control because if you ever got pregnant, I would make you get an abortion."
Lol
She definitely cares. I would take advantage of it, if you want to, that is. There are very few moms like ours who are openly willing to give their daughters birth control if they want it.
Most parents consider that the "go ahead" to have sex, and try to prevent it from happening (which is why so many people go to PP).
-Siren =)

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*ashlee* answered Friday July 30 2004, 6:00 pm:
yea she cares. ur mom is actually really smart too. most parents wouldnt do that cause theyd either be in denial that this is what their kids are doing or because they just dont want to talk about it. ur mom seems to have realized that this is what kids are going to do weather parents like it or not and she just wants you to be safe. i wish my mom was like that haha

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PheonixFire1234 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:57 pm:
That definitaly means she cares. U don't want 2 become pregnant until u know it's time. Your mom's trying 2 help u not make a big mistake that some girls make. It's hard to be a single mom, especially if you're a teenager. Your mom is trying to help you. And she definitaly cares.

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soljette answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:04 pm:
ofcourse that means that she cares. she doesnt want you to get pregnant

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onlyqtwitdabooty answered Friday July 30 2004, 3:20 pm:
yes that mean she cares if she didnt she wouldnt tell u that she doesnt want u to have kids....sorry bout that Birth Control wont help against HIV/STDS/AIDS but she does love u and she dont want u to ruin ur life if u need n e more advice hit me up on liLWaRrIoRBabI17

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Friday July 30 2004, 3:03 pm:
Your mom really cares. she knows she cant stop you from having sex, so she turns to the next best option to protect you. if you are having sex, you should go 2 her for the pills. she has your best intrests in mind.
xoxo
ali

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LilMia811 answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:49 pm:
Yes it means she cares. She is trying to say, that if you feel you are ready to have sex she will not be on your case about it, but she will make sure you don't get pregnant because she is not ready to be a grandma.

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crystal200022us answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:39 pm:
That definitely means she cares and she's watching out for you. Birth control will prevent you from getting pregnant so she is definitely caring for you. I hope this helps!
Crystal

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xbrunettecutiex answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:38 pm:
she does probably care she just wants you to be safe

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JSunshine143 answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:37 pm:
Uhmm yeah deffintly she dosnt want you tob be pregent damn i wish my mom did that and i could actaully tell her take advantage of it be lucky that she is gunna do that for u and that she cares they cost alot of money to soo that is really good

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HottKarateChic answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:31 pm:
that means that she doesnt want grandkids for sure, but she may not realize that its doing you more harm by giving you permissin to do it. try talking to her, she may think that you wont run off and just do it becuase she sed not to or sumthing. le ther no that ur curious about how she fweels about you. good luck.

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MissJ1414 answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:31 pm:
She cares about you and doesn't want you to get hurt (so she puts you on pills)..and she feels like she wants to be a part of your life and that it's your desicion.

drop one in my inbox if you wanna talk

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jesikuh977 answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:28 pm:
i think that means she cares a lot...either that or she doesnt want grandchildren :) but my mom did the same, i think she cares.

*jesikuh

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666devilgirl answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:23 pm:
yes it means she dose not u to have a babby when u do *it*

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LakerChick answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:22 pm:
Well of course she cares otherwise she wouldnt have offered birth control. Shes just telling u that she wants you to be safe. Cause most of the time even if parents disagree withsex theyll do it ne wayz and they wont be on the pill but this way shes showing that she cares

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