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furend probs...PLZZZ HELP!
hey i have this problem with one of my friends because whenever i ask her to sleepover she says ya i can and then like 30 minutes later shes like i cant go anymore my dad said that we have to do family things and then the next day i find out that she is at someone elses house and she always almost always does this to me and she ditched me on my birthday and she always makes up an excuse and it always sounds so convincing so i just say ok but inside it bugs me and i dont really know what to do should i stay friends with her and see how it goes or should i not be friends with her anymore?
thanx!
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Thats unfair of what your friend is doing. Your ebst bet is to sit down with her and confront her of her actions. Tell her that it really bothers you that you ask her to do things and shes says ok and plans are made but then she breaks them with an excuse and goes over someone else's house. Ask her why she is making up excuses, or why she doesn't want to sleep over your house.
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Well talk to her about it or say well let me talk to your dad (if u 2 have a good relationship) and say cuz i need to talk to you or something that way she gets the point but you should sit down and talk to her about it and ask her how she would like it if she was ditched by her own friend-trix
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go tell her that u no shes not reeli busy and it reeli bugs u wen she lies to u. and if she keeps doing it then shes not a good friend so find better that wont li to u.
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Well, i do just about the same thing, maybe she just doesn't want to spend the night, and that she doesn't want to tell you that she doesn't want to spend the night or come over, because you would ask why and sometimes ppl like her or me don't exactly know why. And when you tell people that they don't understand and it turns into a big fight. She does it for the best. Maybe if youinvite another person and then invite her, she may come over i usually come over when another person will come over to. but whatever you do don;t trick her into coming because theen she doesn't feel comfortable, and it is evan harder telling you that she wants to go home. PlZzZz tell me how it goes
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maybe u and her r moving apart ...i think u shoudl try to look for new friends and just be a friend 2 her if she needs u....and stop askin her 2 cum over cuz eventually it might hurt u.
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itz prolly not gunna b easy... bu really is anything? wellz i think u should talk to her about it. if itz sum reson u dont think itz tru make sur 2 tell hurr that u think that.
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Try talking to her about it + telling her that you're not dumb and you know she's been lying and such. If she keeps doing it, that's *not* being a good friend, and I'd stop trying to make plans with her if they never work out. Good luck!
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Well if what shes doing to you is bugging you or makeing you sad then you should either talk to her about your feelings or make new friends. Im sure that once you get everything out in the open theres and explanation for it.
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