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im confused!
ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help.
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Hmmm...there are alot of things you can do. You can ask around the neighborhood and see if anyone needs their car washed, their dog watched, their kids babysat, simple stuff like that! Then you can buy a few school clothes with the money you make if your parents can't buy you any. I know it sounds really bad, like you have to buy your own clothes. But when it really comes down to it. You need clothes and thats a way to get them. And when school starts, ask the counselor to help you out. They really can do alot even though it may not seem like it. They can get your parents help with money and stuff like that...but meanwhile...try to talk to your mom or dad and just say that maybe you can have a few dollars every week and if you save up enough you will be able to buy some more clothes. but i would be glad to help you out some more so if you do want me to then just type it in on my advice column!!!! i really hope you arent so stressed out!!
xox ash xox
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Well get someone thats really close to you talk to them about it and if its something you cant talk to thats older then you like parent or something then talk to a older cousin or something one thats more around your age or a good friend or one of us adivenators because we care even if we dont know you and thats a fact! But your older bro could get a job and help out with the money and if your old enough you could get a job to like babysitting or working at a fast food place. just work to help out with the money prob. Your probably in a mix of stressed out and depressed but more along the lines of stressed.. just keep in mind your fam. is in need of help and everything will work through. Just try to not to revolve life around money.. You could ask advice for your problems and you'll get answers im sure-trix
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Try getting a job, it can help keep you busy, and you'll have money for new clothes.
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the perfect solution is to get a job. it will take your mind off your troubles and after youve forgotten your troubles you get paid! i would think the best job would b a job that requiers interaction w/ other people. this way you can think more bout them and ur paycheck then nething else.
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It sounds alot like how the beginning of the school year was for me. I talked to my best friend about it and she really helped. At first I was hesitant to because I knew she had her own problems but it ended up working out well. We both told eachother how we felt and we really started understand eachother more. Maybe all you need is a shoulder to cry on. Also, find a new hobby or talent that you can work at and can keep you busy. Hope I helped and hope you feel better.!
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Okai well see Im thinking that maybe you or your older brother can get a job like an easy one if you cant get a hard one and just go helping out ur parents and that way you guys can fix up your house and maybe have enough to get clothes and other things you may need but start on this before school starts the other thing is that maybe you can just call up someone, a friend or family memeber someone close to you that might consider helping you guys out I mean your hosue can get fixed up but you diffently need to get ur clothes and things for school. And so does ur brothers. So thats all the things I can think of right now if I was put in ur situation if I think of anything more Ill come back and tell you. Hope everything goes alright!
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im sry u feel lyk tat.. but its better to cry about than to hurt urself in any way.. talk about ur problem to ppl.. pll u trust.. if not rite in a journal every single feeling u feel and its lyk talking to sumone else.. everyone has problems and its hard to deal wit it .. i noe.. but look if u dont have n e 1 to talk to u can certainly talk to me and ill b more than glad to help u! much luv.. angie
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hey i've been there before, it was becaused i was very depressed. you may be good at dealing with things but sometimes you don't really need a reason to be depressed. sometimes a person can just feel down and not really know why. hope i helped
*~*shan*~*
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maybe ur depressed or sumthin
is there a lot of stuff happenin in ur life
if u can't handle it, and yall have enuff money, maybe u can see a shrink, or psychologist or however u spell it
maybe it's just depression, and u need medicine
or maybe it's stress
talk to ur mom or dad or gaurdian, and see if u can go to the doctor, or ask them wut they think
GL hope u feel much better, like this :-)!!!
well i would say get a job, but if u have 2 OLDER brothers and 1 of the OLDER brothers is 12, then your not old enuf to work
maybe u can see if sum1 will hire you to babysit, that way u'll have money for clothes and all that
thanks for the good rating :-)
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can u tell us the problem
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