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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????
-X- Caitlin -X-
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If you love him like you say you do.. of course you should trust him.. but hey if hes a flirt theres nothing wrong with worrying.. because at least you care enough to worry.. as soon as he comes back it will all be over.. hope i helped
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You guys have been together for a while, and it doesn't sound like he's done anything to lose your trust, so I'd trust him until he gives you some reason not to. Write him letters + see if he can call once + a while just to keep each other updated on everything. Everything should be fine :o)
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Oh, honey.
I sympathize completely. My guy's been in Vegas since june 28th - for the summer, and our nine month is on august 14th. I always worry that he'll find someone else 'cause...well...he's really cute, lol. We talk every few days on the phone and I joke around about him finding someone else, but he knows I'm worried about it. He just reassures me that he loves me an everything's better.
You've been together for so long, I really think you can trust him to be true to you. I trust mine!
Though obviously they're different people, a relationship this solid should be able to last. Keep your faith! I'm sure he'll be good.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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First of all this is a great tiem to see who realli loves who if he finds some other girl that he likes more then you when he just meets this girl and possible hang otu with her a little bit over someone who he knew and loves ever since july 10th hes not worth it, If you love him try to trust him and jsut wait for them to get back and I doubt hell find some other girl that he would be with because its stupid If I was the guy Id rather be with someone I know ans not someone I dont know and flirting may get you upset but dont let it everyone does it so dont let that both you either n the other thing is if theirs a way u could be able to visit,write or talk to him do it just to find out wats going on and all but other then that trust him n try to have a good summer while u wait for him to get back! HoPe I HeLPeD!
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if u've been together that long, then i don't think he'd waste yoyr whole wonderful relationship on sum grl he's never gunna see again
just trust him, write him letters, or call or sumthin if ur allowed
take ur mind off of it, if he cheats, then he wasn't meant for u and u'd deserve better, if he doesn't then u kno he loves you, he must be a great guy if u've stuck by him for that long!!
i don't think there's nething to worry about, but i don't know the guy so i can't be 100% sure
GL hope all works well wit u n him!!
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#1 If hes been with you for 9 MONTHS DO YOU ACCUALY THINK HE WOULD WASTE IT ALL ON SOME STUPID FLING WITH SOME SLUT? NO! lol He loves you or he wouldnt have put all this time into it so dont worry he wont meet any1 better than you...............lol
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Well, maybe you should get some information, like, wether it is an all boys camp or something like that. And take this from a girl who has been 2 camp on many occasions, they usually split the boys and girls up so i don't think he has the time to do anything like that. And if you seriously think that he will do something or just flirt with another girl, maybe you should flirt with other guys just to make you feel better, but just don't think of all the possibilities! It will make you worry. **lauren** Plzz rate me
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I dont know if you can trust your boyfriend but if you truly love him then you should be able to trust him last year i was away from hoe and met a guy from maine and we hooked up but then i realized there was no piont cuz it would never work .If hes with you he shouldnt be flirting with other girlsTry and trust him i guess...
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First of all its just camp, so dont worry so much. Im guessing you dont live in Maine so pretty much the chance of him meeting a girl that lives in your state is slim. Dont think about him finding a new girl and just wish the days till he comes back.
--Julie
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your bf loves u too. and if he really loves u he wont cheat on you. and if he does u can do better than that. im sure u can. luv nikki if u have any more ? just go to my advice colum nikki1030
tell me how it works out.
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If you love your boyrfriend like you say you do.. then you shouldn't be worrying at all. 9 months is a long time. Has he ever given you a reason to doubt his trust? If not.. then i say don't worry about it. And if he does cheat on you then hes not worth your time anyways and you can up and move on to sumone who is! And everyone flirts its natural... Its one thing to look but the minute he acts on it.. hes history..
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Caitlin,
Hey ya this seems like a hard desicion but im sure he thinks ur the prettiest thing on earth and when he comes home i would ask him if he met any1 and tell him he has to tell the truth. And you can decide from wut he says but if you think he is liein then ur should dump him if he isnt loyal to you cuz b/f are supost to be loyal like they are ur lil puppy. And if you think he flirts to much i would tell himand if he doesnt adcept that than he isnt good enough for u!
Best Of Luck!
CaRe!
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if he likes you, he won't go after another girl. and if he does, then he isn't worth your time. no guy who cheats is worth your time. you deserve better. best wishes!!! send me something if you need more help
x3 Kristen
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Well if he really likes you then it wont matter if he meets someone prettier and/or funnier. If he goes off with someone else then you will be rid of someone not worth your time. I think you should trust him, if he loves you as much as you love him he wont be going off with other girls.
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Trust is such an important thing in a relationship. Hunnie, I'm not going to tell you what to do because only you know what he is like and how much trust you have in him. But I will give you some ideas and maybe you can try them if you wanted to! I have a boyfriend right now and we will be together for three years starting in Sept. but there were times this year when he was traveling because he's in a band, and I would be in a different state worrying myself about if he found some other girl. But I told myself if we have been together for almost three years now and he has never did anything wrong why would he start now? Basically if the guy you are with right now loves you, you need to take his word on that. If he says he would never cheat on you, you got to take that into consideration that he never will. And I know sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Guys will say they won't ever cheat on you but they do and that does give you something to worry about. Before he leaves or if he already has call him and talk to him about it. Listen to him and what he says. Tell him how sometimes you don't know if you really can trust him but you want to. Make him give you an honest answer if he is or not. If he says it in a way where you know you can trust his answer then trust him on what he says. As I said before sometimes trust gets broken. If you feel like this will happen talk to him about it. Talking to him about things you're unsure about will help you decide where to go from there. Good luck with your relationship! Love you! *-* Mandee *-*
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u luv ur bf riite..? and u say u trust him.. u have to have trust in a relationship otherwise it wont work... my bf is a huge flirt too.. and a very jealous person.. i tell him that as long as he doesnt touch a girl or a girl doesnt touch him then its ok.. if a girl flirts wit him not to flirt bak to make it clear tat he has a gf.. and if n e thing were to happen to tell u! even if ur gonna get mad! and once tat happened to my bf n he called me n told me wat happened n ever since i have complete trust in him! if he loves u hes not gonna do n e thing to hurt u! always tell him how u feel and be able to communicate!
xoxo angie
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well it depends on if he has been faithful in the past. if he has i think you have nothing to worry about because if you have been together for that long and nothing has happened i think your relationship is strong. there is a fine line between flirting and doing stuff with another girl and i think he knows that he will never c this girl again and you mean more to him. even though us girls hate flirting we have to remember that it could be worse! xox Emily
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well hey guys r guys and he will probably flirt with some girls but i wouldnt worry about that cause i mean u have never flirted with another guy before. lol. ne way i think that u do need to trust him cause this is just another hill that u and him to get get over in ur relationship. i would trust him and if something does happen than i am really really srry to say it but maybe he isnt the rite guy 4 u. good luck.
*~Random Kitty~*
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You might get that feeling mostly because you really like him. Just trust him and when hje comes back to the home state ask him to tell you what happened if he seems nervous 0r u have a feeling hes leaving something out explain to him what he means to u and then maybe hell tell u but only if u can tell hes holding something back
-Jacky
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