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i fink muh dad iz buying stuff behind muh families baq
muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me.
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Money is pretty much something that is taken care of by the parents .. you cna't control how they're spending it. Money may just be tight in your household at the moment, or their COULD be something else behind it. Try talking to your mom about how you could use some new stuff and how your dad's been acting weird lately. Hopefully things'll work out.
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Money matters in your family should be handled between your parents. It is not up to you how it is used. Money may be tight for them right now, and they may have to budget. Try to be supportive of that. Remember there is a big difference between wants and needs. So unless you are starving and wearing rags, try giving your parents a break. If you want some extra cash for new clothes, get a babysiting job or a paper route.
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Talk to your mom about it. Hopefully she will do something about it. Since your 13 then go out and babysitt. Its not hard and it usally pays good.
--Julie
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you need to ask your mom to keep the money she makes.. tell her that you really need some new clothes and shoes and that dad yells at you when you mention it to him.. or sit down and have a serios talk w/ your father!
hope i helped!
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thats a hard one. i'd suggest start babysitting because at 13, you're growing and you need clothes and shoes. try to buy some of your own stuff. tell your mom how you're feeling. this is probably a matter between your parents because it has to do with your parents money and financial situation. best wishes. please send me a message or IM me if you need anything else. i'm here to help!
xox Kristen
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This is hard because all parents you should be able to talk to about these promblems. The best possible advice i can give you is that you might want to get a job like babysitting or working as a waitress ect. find something that you want to do. Then maybe you can buy the things you want and still try to juice yer dad fer some money. And if he doesnt want to give it to you you have the money you worked for. But make sure that you talk to your mom about this first away from your dad so that he wont get angry. Your mom seems to be understanding so im sure that she will allow you too. Im sorry if i wasnt a great help but that was what i would do! -x0x Rebecca
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If you arent getting enough food them it could probably count as abuse. Your dad is not providing enough money for your mother and you. Your mom really needs to regain control of the money. Make sure your dad isnt spending it on gambling.
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look i noe u got a problem on ur hands but honestly this problem is between ur parents and u shouldnt really worry about it cuz there is not much u can do. make sure u tell ur dad and emind him tat u need food.. clothing.. shoes..n stuff like tat.. but really u should leave this problem for ur parents to handle!
xoxo angie
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