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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
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keep it a secret. but if they find out be all like well mom, he really means alot to me. and she should be reasonable. when you finish school then tell them. if you have kept it a secret for 2 yrs then i think you can do it for 2 more. good luck
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if they find out then just tell him how much he means to you.. they have to be just a little bit reasonible.. maybe they could meet and talk maybe then your parents wouldn't mind
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Try talking to your parents .. tell them you've been seeing someone for a while, and tell them you're a responsible kid, and try to get their side of just WHY you can't have a boyfriend .. then try to think of good examples of why you should // why those reasons aren't true or whatever. DON'T be snotty // defiant about it though, because that'll only make them mad. I guess if all else fails, keep seeing him behind their backs. Good luck :o)
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well this may b hard but you dont want to do things behind their back because then they may not trust you and then they wont let you do ne thing by urself or anything like that.. so i think that you should just tell them..but if they dont know that you guys have been dating for two years..then they must b a lil clueless lol *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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well you can still be able to see him and then say that you are going to the mall with your friends tell him on the computer or sumthing and then just bump into him and that will be fine and if your parents do love you then if they believe in you then they will trust you andlet him see you and you see him
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Do you mean finish school as in high-school?! Thats along time!!! You should just tell them, yall been dating for 2 years, they probally know by now. But you should still tell them.
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ok if you have gotten away w/ seeing him for 2 years you may be able to get away with it for another two years.. and also maybe talk to your parents about negotiating when you are allowed to date!
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well whatever you do you don't want to have stuff behind your parents back. because then they could eventually find out and thats not the way you want them to know. It would be so much better just coming from you... the best thing to do is say how important he is in your life and basically just ask them to trust you. I highly doubt if you confront them in a good way that you'll have any kind of problems. Though the chances seem slim and few, if they do say you can't see him again, they'll start to realize how important he is to you because you'd probably be sad all the time, you know? And you'd have to tell them if they liked him enough to let you guys see eachother when you were just friends, letting you see him as a boyfriend should be no different besides the fact your feelings are just different. And also, if your going to be done with school in 2 years, your a big girl! You shouldn't be told not to date, its healthy as a teen to be out and dating and having a good time while at the same time concentrating on your studies.
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This might be the worst thing that can be said but DONT TELL YOUR PARENTS! He might be that person who is going to be there for the rest of your life. Be carful because there will be obstacles very hard ones so make sure that this advice is the best thing for you remember your not forced to do anything!
Good Luck and keep in touch
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Awww...yeah this definitely makes it harder on you. Many people have different views on love..what I believe is that love can happen at any age it's just the matter of what person you are with and that he is the right guy for you. Maybe you agree with that or something like it but your parents don't. Many people who are in love can't help but go out of their way just to see the person. And I think that's what you are doing, even if it means going behind your parents back. It sounds like you love him...but it is probably time to tell your parents. Saying things such as...I know you guys told me I can't have a boyfriend until after I finish school...but I really do believe I am in love. I had a boyfriend for two years and within those two years they have been the best years of my life. I know that you think it's wrong but I think he is the right guy for me..all I am asking is that you approve of him...and that I can see him. It's hard to know that I can't have my parents support of one the best decisions of my life, and I really need your support. Just make sure they are understanding where you are comming from. They know what it's like to be in love. lol Or at least I hope so. If they still won't allow you tell your boyfriend. And you will still have your ways of contacting each other. He will wait for you if he loves you, or you guys could still see each other at times. If you know you are in love don't let anything stop you. Good luck with everything! Love you! -Mandee-</span>
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Well, usually, the only option is not to tell your parents that he's your BF...most of my friends keep it a secret. Just tell your parents what you've been telling them- that he's just a good friend. But if you have enough gut, talk to your parents, and tell them that your old enough to have a BF.
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