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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!!
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Break up with him. Your 13 years old its not love its just likeing.. And long distance relationships dont last.. especially with 13 year olds. So just dump him and get it over with
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What you shuld do right now is spend as much time as possible then whens its close to that day either brake it off or promise to write. you might be scared but there might be someone else waitin for him over there. and he might not be the one. But enjoy what you have!
-Jacky
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I am from south jersey and my ex lives in Long Island. It was hard but it worked out for few years. It wasn't the best relationship I had but it ranked pretty high up there. I was about 14 when he moved. I am 18 now we both knew that we were going to be going to college moving further away and that it just wasn't going to work. Your young there's plenty of people in this world. You can give it a shot if you really want to but remember it's hard and your young. Hope I helped.
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If you think you can make long distance work between you stay together, if not take a break and see if he's really what you want since he's not around anymore
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I'm not really familiar with this area,but I know that some areas of New Jersey are close to NYC. If you live close enough to see him on weekends and occasionaly during the week,don't break it off. But if you only see him,like once a month,yeah end it. There's no reason to tie yourself down like that.
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Well you could break up and see how that goes and see if you to can last without eachother and if you cant then go out or you could go out and see if that works.. but he will be going to a new school meeting new girls... so if you trust him then so be it but if you dont i'd let go just dont get in a fight over the whole trust thing but just dont tie yourself down also-trix
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i think you should not break up, but have an open relationship. that means that you can still see other people ( because long distance relationships usually equal heartbreak) and you can talk to him like normal.
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If you think that you both can maintain a long-distance relationship, go for it.
However, you're both young and you'll probably meet someone new. You probably won't be able to see each other as often as you like and it might just be easier to break up and stay friends. Other than that, I don't know what to say so I hope I helped!
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I would keep trying.. its not good to give up on love.. and if your really in love you woudent even question that.. it means that your relationship is weak.. and ur not as strong as u coudl be.. keep trying untill it fails.. otherwise ur a quitter!
KYLE
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well first of all i wouldnt "break up" with him i would just tell him you think it would be hard to have a long distance relationship and that you think it would be hard to have one so you think you should be able to see other ppl but it think if you really like each other that much you could make it work bc i live in Louisiana and i know this girl who moved away to new jersey and thats way farther than long island and they were able to make the relationship work perfectly. yeah she said it was hard sometimes bc she wasnt able to see him a lot like she was used to but he would go up there for holidays and stuff and she would remember how much she loved him so they were able to make thing work she moved back down here after two years and everything is great now... so i think if you really like this a guy and you think you could make it you shouldnt break up with him
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Hey me and my g/f were goin out and we were both moving away and we weere both afraid to brake up becuase we really loved eachother and we both talked our parents into not moving and it worked and we were happy but then we broke up ne ways so just have your boyfriend try to talk his parents into letting him stay!!!! maybe it will work and if it doesnt you have to say your goodbyes and get that final kiss.....it will be hard though......I hope i helped you at l east a little bit tell me how things turn out
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aww hun! i kno exactly wat ur goin thru right now caz i went thru it wit (my now) exboyfriend! he wasnt moving that far away but we had just started going out and he never told me that he was moving until after we started going out! i thought that was so unbelievable! well anyway i definitly think u should talk to him! n if ur feelings n love r that real it'll all work out for the best! Good luck! <3 =)
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If he has a chance to visit often then no, don't break up with him. You still can talk...ect. If he can't visit often, then I think you should talk to him. Maybe it is best you two break up, so you both have a chance to get over your feelings!
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what u need to do is talk it out with ur boyfriend together
if u need some advice ask Randomdude PZE
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Well,if it's going to be a pretty long distance,I would say it's probably best to break up with him for now.Long distance relationships are extremely tough,especially at your age.Let him know that you still care very much for him but that you don't want to put either of you thru the hurt of a long distance relationship.You're still very young and you've got a whole world of opportunities and lots of time to experience different aspects of the dating world.Take your time,explore your options,everything will work out just fine!! ;)
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Well,long distance relationships can be rough,especially at your age when you're just getting into the dating world.Maybe it would be best to say 'let's stay really really close friends and see if after some time apart we still have such strong feelings for each other'.Keep in touch with him,talk to him,write him,talk to him online,but don't forget about your own life.Have fun,hang out with your friends,and see where your heart leads you.I'm a firm believer in destiny,and baby you're only 13,your whole life is ahead of you!Anything can happen!!Write me back and let me know how it goes!
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